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[maverick]

First, I have no idea why anyone would put on a condom to masturbate. You would have to find someone that practices this and ask him. Wait, you know someone like that right? Why not just ask him? Getting to know each other better sexually may help your other issues as a couple.

You are correct in that its not the size of the wave, its the motion of the ocean. So why do guys care? Many don't. But given a choice, they would probably opt for size large. I can only liken this to women and breast size. Most of the women that I have discussed this with would like larger breasts and the thriving cosmetic breast surgery practice seems to support my unscientific conclusion. I think it is mostly an ego thing, whether male or female.

[Ashlee T.]

Have you seen him do this? Or is he just telling you he does this?

Also, do you keep condoms regularly even though you two don't use them?

[Hopeless Dork]

In the movie "i love you , man" I am pretty sure there is a scene where the one guy discovers the other masturbates with condoms for the clean up... its been a few months since I've seen it so maybe I'm imagining that... but I know there is a scene where the guy finds the other guys 'masturbation station' and if my memory serves me correct, condoms were apart of that whole scene.

[emptypea2001]

I've done it a few times but I did it with lubricated and liked the feel as a variety. It was also nice to contain the ejaculate instead of it going everywhere. If he is embarrased about his masturbating, he might have been afraid you would find stains on his clothes.

[FunOlderGuy]

I'd like to share some thoughts on masturbating with a condom. I'm in my 60's,and married. I almost always masturbate with a condom. To start, some people say it decreases sensitivity. I don't find that not to be true. Provided the penis is lightly lubricated on the frenulum the sensations are quire intense. Lubrication is important for a pleasant experience, and the condom provides it and keeps me lubricated. There is also the issue of the latex rubbing against the penis. Different condoms have different feelings, one has to experiment to find one that feels best. I like extra thin condoms. There are also different techniques, while i usually like just a little lubrication, there is a unique feeling when there is an excessive amount of lubrication on the head of the penis. It gives a sensation of intercourse in a very wet female. One important, and obvious benefit is the elimination of the mess, which is important if you are masturbating in a bed your wife might be using, or if you are visiting friends. The elimination of the mess has an important side benefit. If you are concerned about the mess you will want to ejaculate in a tissue. But this requires a degree of concentration and a concern as the moment of cumming arrives. When a man ejaculates it happens in a series of squirts happening about a second apart. I find if I have to catch my semen in a tissue it inteferes with my concentration, and I don't get to have as many squirts as I otherwise could have. In the condom I don't have to worry about a thing, I can maintain the stimulation throughout my orgasm, and get a better fuller release as a result. Then, after I've cum I don't haver to worry at all about cleaning up, and I can just lie back and fully enjoy the afterglow following my ejaculation. I hope this sheds some light on the issue.

[-Kya-]

In the movie "i love you , man" I am pretty sure there is a scene where the one guy discovers the other masturbates with condoms for the clean up... its been a few months since I've seen it so maybe I'm imagining that... but I know there is a scene where the guy finds the other guys 'masturbation station' and if my memory serves me correct, condoms were apart of that whole scene.

Ha! yeah im pretty sure your right as I have a vague memory of that part aswell. Isnt it sometimes known as a 'posh wank' if a condom is involved? Dont really understand the posh bit though...maybe its an expensive johnny?? :-)

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[stressed]

Funny thing was, though, that we didn't use condoms during sex as I was on b/c. lol....

[---Beany---]

I have in the past for 2 reasons.
1: You don't have to worry about cleaning up/ catching the spooge.
and 2: Since condoms have been associated with sex from a young age, even putting one on is kinda sexually exciting.

I don't do it often, but it's kinda fun when I do.