[AnneHathaway]

Needanswers99, I respect your feelings and opinion about this, but trying to stop women from giving blowjobs is like trying to stop the ocean at high tide, lol. There is risk in EVERYTHING in life.

I am not one to psychoanalyze, but it is interesting that you use the word "excuses", rather than ""reasons." May I ask what about blowjobs you find "unnatural?" Just curious.

I agree you should never do anything you are uncomfortable with, but... I had a sports-related severe jaw injury years ago, have tmj and still wouldn't not give my husband that pleasure even though it causes me some discomfort at times. Again, that's just me, but you might find you enjoy it! (hee hee)

There are also numbing sprays that work well for controlling and overcoming gag reflex problems.

[jns]

I guess they will call the object of a bj a cancer stick.

[Explorer44]

sigh, I thought it was a disco stick


Just can't keep up

[Texinator]

Aw, man, that blows..

[needanswer99]

i apologize if....

I realized that I have offended many people.....so I apologize.....
but to offend somebody was not my purpose.....

that research is authentic and has published in different medical journals...

u can go to Reuter..26th march2010...online site or ....BMJ site....

my purpose to warn for health purpose only on scientific ground and basis...

HPV VIRUS which is responsible for cervical cancer is also found to do oral cancer in this research....
and it is alarming that the research said that "IT IS INCREASING..."now it is up to you NOT TO BELIEVE IN MEDICAL RESEARCH???


SMOKING is a cause of lung cancer according to medical research....
many people believe in it but many people still smoke.......

so my dear fellow ladies ..if u do not want to believe ....then go ahead for head job.......

it is a simple , authentic scientifc research....

but my very very very humble suggestion to my own gender that

atleast ask your BF or husband to use barrier....as flavour condoms......
or get him tested for HPV virus first...... or

in this research there is suggestion of HPV vaccination....GET THIS VACCINATION FIRST FOR YOURSELF ....before going down....


ANNEHATAWAY===> IT is a big discussion and here my purpose was to tell only on health point of you......

but let me say one thing only:

Anything unnatural is unatural..it is not necessary that it should be prohibited or it is always harmful.......

Anal and oral intercourse is unnatural ..is everybody's guess.

VAGINAL intercourse is natural.

breifly I will give you only examples:

baby can be produced by operation or CS
but vaginal birth is known as natural birth...

I saw in one program that a man is eating his food with his feet...
(u can also do ..just try...haha)

but natural eating food is with your hands ....my dear....

another best example is: all animals which have vagina and penis.....

they never go to oral intercourse or anal intercourse...they know where to go NATURALLY....

(i USED the word intercourse....part of foreplay like ....animal can lick, or kiss or touch those parts.....but intercourse mean upto ejaculation....animals even never do this....)

lastly!!! it is my understanding only ....so i hope, u give me this right, in this so called "freedom society"..... that I could believe whatever I like.......

[A Dying Breed]

Thats not why people were offended.

Yes, the HPV causes cancer. But it's really the partner who you engage with who gives you the cancer. There is no danger whatsoever with a clean partner.

The thing here is that it isn't blowjobs that cause cancer. It's a viruis that you can get through oral sex that causes it. Just another reason to be careful and make sure you want to have sex with somebody.

This is just like saying "Having sex causes death" because research shows AIDS/HIV kills people. Sex isn't the cause. The viruis is. Thats what were trying to say here. It isn't blowjobs that cause the cancer, it's a virus that can possibly be passed along through a blowjob.


Should we say "Kissing can cause death!" because some people get mono? No, it isn't kissing, it's a virus that can be passed along through kissing. The actual act of kissing is in no way responsible. The same can be said for oral sex

[A Dying Breed]

Actually my girlfriend just brought up a great point.

If oral sex causes cancer...

Then so does sunlight. Sunlight can cause cancer. Are you going to just curl up in your house all day and never go out in the sun? No. You'll wear sunscreen. And we'll get tested for viruses

It's the same general premise really. I mean sunlight is something I think a healthy human needs. I could say the same for oral sex, but I can only speak for myself

[jns]

Look in wiki under [animal sexual behavior] to find out about what is natural sexual behavior among animals. Humans will have to get into licking their own genitals. I guess people will have to use gloves for masturbation, if it is allowed. Latex or nitrile?

[Guest]

Thats not why people were offended.

Yes, the HPV causes cancer. But it's really the partner who you engage with who gives you the cancer. There is no danger whatsoever with a clean partner.

The thing here is that it isn't blowjobs that cause cancer. It's a viruis that you can get through oral sex that causes it. Just another reason to be careful and make sure you want to have sex with somebody.

This is just like saying "Having sex causes death" because research shows AIDS/HIV kills people. Sex isn't the cause. The viruis is. Thats what were trying to say here. It isn't blowjobs that cause the cancer, it's a virus that can possibly be passed along through a blowjob.


Should we say "Kissing can cause death!" because some people get mono? No, it isn't kissing, it's a virus that can be passed along through kissing. The actual act of kissing is in no way responsible. The same can be said for oral sex

Yep, I agree but the OP probably won't get it.... Most women will probably agree with her and use this as an excuse though.

[A Dying Breed]

Yep, I agree but the OP probably won't get it.... Most women will probably agree with her and use this as an excuse though.

Well I think women will always make excuses. (EDIT)