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Men are visual and seeing their cum spray everywhere perhaps gives them a feeling of power somehow. Personally I ADORE my man cumming over my breasts and neck (not that keen on the face so we don't do that). I find it a huge turn on whether I've got him to that point, hor he has (love watching him masturbate).
If a guy has a lady who doesn't like it he shouldn't push the issue. Personally I think issues like this should be discussed at the start of a sexual r/ship - the only way to find true sexual compatability.Comment
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Personally I don't feel the urge to squirt over my lady. I like her to direct the squirt if she's giving me a hand job. She's in control then.It's nice if she swallows for bj, but I don't ask her to as I know it's not always comfortable. If we're on the settee she'll lift my shirt up when she starts the closure so that I can release on my stomach. She then gently wipes off the fluid. She did this first time she gave me a hj and I thought it was so sexy and caring. Other partners just left me to clean up my own mess.Comment
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I can't explain why I like it, I think its just a visual thing for me. My wife likes it inside her so thats what we do most of the time. But we like to mix it up, sometimes in the mouth, sometimes on the breasts, sometimes a nice facial or on her back, and then sometimes she just strokes me and we let physics and gravity decide where it ends up. I like the variety. To me the sexiest thing is when it lands where it itsn't planned (usually the face or hair), and she just giggles rather than being grossed out. Its just a fun way to end a good time.Comment
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My boyfriend didn't dare try this at first, but one day he told me it was something he would like to do but was worried about, in case I found it degrading or strange or humiliating. Now he nearly does it all the time, but we both find it sexy. He is not exactly sure why he likes it either. I like that he likes it and it's sexy to watch, but that's as far as it goes. It's not like I prefer it.
As for why men like that, in particular, well, if I had a penis and the ability to do something like that then I assume it would give me a sense of power and control, that the girl does what I like and does it only for me, that I get a very good look at her, that she enjoys it as much as I do, that she's there waiting for me to ejaculate, that she will have my semen on her and be happy about it.
So, yes, I think I can understand why many men like that without even having to ask one
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