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  • pittsburgh44
    Member
    • May 2010
    • 59

    Butt what?

    Do women actually get pleasure for anything pertaining to their butt? If so, what acts? I always kinda doubted the pleasure they've expressed from different acts regarding this as being not genuine. [this has nothing (unfortunately) to do with the fiance, i've just always been curious]
  • Ashlee T.
    Veteran Member
    • Dec 2008
    • 6412

    For me, not really. I have enjoyed anal to some extent maybe a time or two, but no...not really. It's pretty much for the mans pleasure. Touching it, rubbing it, grabbing it when I happen to bend over to pick something up, nah.....I feel nothing.

    On a side note, I'm noticing you seem VERY unhappy with your sex life with your fiance. With a HUGE divorce rate the US this concerns me. Why are you marrying someone you're not totally happy with? (Don't take that as judgement, it's a serious question, not judgement. )
    "Be what you're looking for."

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    • pittsburgh44
      Member
      • May 2010
      • 59

      Originally posted by Beautiful Disaster
      For me, not really. I have enjoyed anal to some extent maybe a time or two, but no...not really. It's pretty much for the mans pleasure. Touching it, rubbing it, grabbing it when I happen to bend over to pick something up, nah.....I feel nothing.

      On a side note, I'm noticing you seem VERY unhappy with your sex life with your fiance. With a HUGE divorce rate the US this concerns me. Why are you marrying someone you're not totally happy with? (Don't take that as judgement, it's a serious question, not judgement. )

      Thanks for replying, i thought this thread was not going to get a reply!


      Regarding your question......it's because.......................I'm an idiot, and she's a very sweet girl..........


      cheers to porn

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      • Hopeless Dork
        Veteran Member
        • Dec 2008
        • 4255

        Its like asking do women like strawberry icecream? Or green high heels? Some will say yes, some will say no and everything in between and beyond.

        I've heard women say they get a better orgasm through anal because of the pressure placed on that back wall of their vagina, etc.

        I've heard women say its not painful but not pleasurable

        I've heard some say its painful AND pleasurable

        Some say its painful

        Some that are disgusted by it some are curious

        Hope that helps?! haha. Jk. I just mean your question didn't ask what we liked with our butts, but what do women like done to their butts and thats a broad question
        Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.

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        • pittsburgh44
          Member
          • May 2010
          • 59

          Originally posted by Hopeless Dork
          Its like asking do women like strawberry icecream? Or green high heels? Some will say yes, some will say no and everything in between and beyond.

          I've heard women say they get a better orgasm through anal because of the pressure placed on that back wall of their vagina, etc.

          I've heard women say its not painful but not pleasurable

          I've heard some say its painful AND pleasurable

          Some say its painful

          Some that are disgusted by it some are curious

          Hope that helps?! haha. Jk. I just mean your question didn't ask what we liked with our butts, but what do women like done to their butts and thats a broad question


          lol


          actually...................i did ask that (in not so many words), the part that i said "if so, what acts".

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          • brownlover
            Member
            • May 2010
            • 18

            Within my group of friends, its many no's and a few yes's... and its the ones you wouldn't think would like it are the ones that LOVE it. Go figure.

            Myself, i tried it a few times with an old boyfriend. But i was always so worried with the hygiene of it... sticking it back in other places right after it being back there... it kinda ruins the mood to yell, EWWW, wipe that thing off!! But i do think it was way more pleasurable for him than for me.

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            • LanaBear
              Veteran Member
              • Jul 2009
              • 8373

              I'm one of the odd ones that enjoys it. I get very intense orgasms from the hiney.

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              • Rediscovered
                Senior Member
                • Feb 2010
                • 118

                I happen to love anal sex and it's a newfound pleasure for me (I am almost 50).

                It really, really depends on who you are with (at least in my experience). I never enjoyed it before, but with the man I am with now, I love it. His parts seem to fit all my parts perfectly and I trust him and love him so much.

                I orgasm so quickly with anal sex that it's almost *too* fast, but it's hard to keep it from happening.

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                • ItsASecret
                  APRIL 2011 POSTER OF THE MONTH
                  • Apr 2009
                  • 3721

                  I have become a bit more curious about anal but not to the point of wanting to try it out yet. Right now I am perfectly happy with him just squeezing my bum when I am on top during sex, rubbing and just holding does nothing for me but if he adds the odd squeeze when I do not expect it I enjoy it.
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                  • alterview
                    Member
                    • Oct 2009
                    • 47

                    Originally posted by Rediscovered
                    ...it's a newfound pleasure for me (I am almost 50).

                    It really, really depends on who you are with (at least in my experience). I never enjoyed it before, but with the man I am with now, I love it. His parts seem to fit all my parts perfectly and I trust him and love him so much.

                    I orgasm so quickly with anal sex that it's almost *too* fast, but it's hard to keep it from happening.
                    that is exactly the case for my gf. she had never wanted to try it and never thought she would enjoy it. we have such a great relationship that she felt comfortable trying it and it has become preferred for her. i certainly am not going to complain.

                    she also really enjoys her bum being grabbed and squeezed during sex.

                    like others have stated, not every women will feel the same. some like it and some do not.

                    cheers!

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