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  • PandaPaws
    Veteran Member
    • May 2010
    • 216

    I've never had anal sex (waiting for marriage on that one), but I've been more curious lately about anal stuff. Been licked, which was fine, and fingered on the outside so far. I think sometime in the near future we'll be going inside for that. I am curious to try anal sex when we get married though, whenever that is

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    • Hopeless Dork
      Veteran Member
      • Dec 2008
      • 4255

      Before my boyfriend I had never tried anal sex, never wanted to... but he inspires a side in me that is so sexually adventurous that I'm the one that pushed for us to try it. It took some attempts before 'successful entry' to me it was painful... but it did turn me on for some reason quite a bit. I'm open to exploring it more... but its for sure not something i'd want every day, not even every month... its more of a birthday/anniversery type sex thing lol. Too much prep and too much consequences afterward (helllooooo anal queefs -aka gas for a day or two afterward...while ur rear is dialated) Not so fun , that. lol.
      Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.

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      • PandaPaws
        Veteran Member
        • May 2010
        • 216

        Originally posted by Hopeless Dork
        Too much prep and too much consequences afterward (helllooooo anal queefs -aka gas for a day or two afterward...while ur rear is dialated) Not so fun , that. lol.
        Ugh. I knew about the prep - but those consequences? Yuck. Good to know. Whenever the day comes that I do try it, it will be a Friday night when we're staying home all weekend!

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        • Rediscovered
          Senior Member
          • Feb 2010
          • 118

          HD, I have not had a problem with anal queefs (lol!) except when he once came inside me~~since then, we make sure he doesn't do that (it gave me terrible stomach cramps, etc.).

          It's not an every day thing for us since I mostly see him on weekends, but I do prepare for it at least once a week by anal douching (just in case the mood hits us)~~it doesn't take that long and makes me feel so much more confident and therefore, I can enjoy it more.

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          • PandaPaws
            Veteran Member
            • May 2010
            • 216

            Originally posted by Rediscovered
            HD, I have not had a problem with anal queefs (lol!) except when he once came inside me~~since then, we make sure he doesn't do that (it gave me terrible stomach cramps, etc.).

            It's not an every day thing for us since I mostly see him on weekends, but I do prepare for it at least once a week by anal douching (just in case the mood hits us)~~it doesn't take that long and makes me feel so much more confident and therefore, I can enjoy it more.
            Is anal douching healthy? I know it's not for vaginal.

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            • Rediscovered
              Senior Member
              • Feb 2010
              • 118

              Pandapaws, I just use warm water to douche--not a commercial douche. I buy the disposable Fleet enemas and dump the solution out and use the bottles.

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              • PandaPaws
                Veteran Member
                • May 2010
                • 216

                Originally posted by Rediscovered
                Pandapaws, I just use warm water to douche--not a commercial douche. I buy the disposable Fleet enemas and dump the solution out and use the bottles.
                Oh okay, thanks!

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                • Faerunner
                  Senior Member
                  • Mar 2010
                  • 120

                  I definitely enjoy penetration. I think the feeling of "fullness" is really enjoyable, although actual thrusting can get painful pretty quickly especially if you're not using enough lube (there is no such thing as too much lube!). The sensations add to my orgasm and I can cum rather quickly with anal play.

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                  • Guest

                    One girl told me she likes it better than regular.

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                    • heryseshta
                      Senior Member
                      • Nov 2008
                      • 105

                      I don't like anal, it just doesn't feel "right" for me. I did it with my current boyfriend once because I knew he wouldn't push me to do it and I knew it would mean a lot to him. So I told him okay. Just make sure he either uses a condom or doesn't get off inside of you...I didn't get cramps but I sure did get diarrhea, it was almost uncontrollable for two days.

                      As a side note, regular use of enemas aren't healthy because your body becomes accustomed to being flushed out, so it starts relying on it. It's not the solution that isn't healthy, it's the fact that something is forcing the sewage out of your body.

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