[Joey]

Oh that is such a good point. Sexy Panties are EXPENSIVE. Comfy ones you can get 3 for 10 bucks lol. Sexy ones? A bra and panties set from Vicky's can set you back 100 bucks easy.

You want sexy? Get her a giftcard to a sexy lingerie store.

Tell me about it! I saw an AAAA-mazing set in a store in London, and they were 200 pound!! (not too sure how much that is in $'s) - but yeah like you say, dead expensive!!

Guys who go out on their own to find sexy underware for their women must have some form of heart attack when they see the price!

[KMonte85]

I am myself a femminist, and don't want women to be sexual objects, but I just wonder - it's not just at night, its' also in the streets, it seems that certain women just couldn't care less what they look like to men and that's what I don't get and other women wear something sexy basically every day.

Lol that statement is ironic to me - are you sure you know what a feminist is? Not that feminists can't look/dress/be sexy... but the fact that they should consider what men will think of them before they dress themselves to go out in public? Really? Feminist, eh?


"sexy" is subjective.

You might think that a woman walking around in stalkings, heels, and a mini skirt is sexy and shows self confidence, but I think there are also people who might look at that same woman and wonder if shes 1. a hooker, 2. an insecure attention seeker, or 3. just skany.

Lets not forget that women usually want to go out wearing something flattering, not skany; classic and sophisticated, not cheap. And not every woman has to have her best outfit on to be out and about. It is a lot easier lugging groceries, getting in and out of a vehicle without flashing, etc in jeans and sneakers than in 4" heels and a tube dress.

I suppose its a shame that she will have to look frumpy in the name of functionality. And what's worse.. what will the MEN who she comes across throughout the day think? OH THE HORRORS!

[Hopeless Dork]

Guys who go out on their own to find sexy underware for their women must have some form of heart attack when they see the price!

LOL yep!! I just think if they want their gf to look like an exciting porn model... they should give her an exciting porn model allowance as how those girls look does not come cheap:

• Weekly manicures and Pedicures: Over 100 bucks a month
• Sunless tanning: 30 bucks a month
• Hair extensions: 500 dollars to get them put in and about 200 dollars every other month for touch ups.
• Breast Implants: 5000, one time fee
• Sexy Heels: 1 pair, roughly 70 bucks
• Lingerie: one full set with garters and thigh highs about 120 dollars, if they want to see them in them every day, figure 1200 for a good 10 sets to mix and match.
• Expensive make up: Hundreds
• False eyelashes: 20 bucks
• Lip Injections: 500 bucks
• Getting a professional make up and hair artists to come over to the house before sex , about 500 dollars per day that you use them.
• Gym memberships: 50 dollars a month
• High end diet food: over 100 bucks per week
• Optional cocaine/meth habit: Yeah... the diet food is probably cheaper.

So yeah, It would cost roughly 10k to turn the average girl into having a more porn star look with the maintanance running a few thousand a month...

A guy that barely agrees to his wife spending 100 bucks to get highlights every 4 months has no right in my opinion to compare her looks to porn stars or wonder why she doesn't look like them.

[Wruinin]

Lol that statement is ironic to me - are you sure you know what a feminist is? Not that feminists can't look/dress/be sexy... but the fact that they should consider what men will think of them before they dress themselves to go out in public? Really? Feminist, eh?


"sexy" is subjective.

You might think that a woman walking around in stalkings, heels, and a mini skirt is sexy and shows self confidence, but I think there are also people who might look at that same woman and wonder if shes 1. a hooker, 2. an insecure attention seeker, or 3. just skany.

Lets not forget that women usually want to go out wearing something flattering, not skany; classic and sophisticated, not cheap. And not every woman has to have her best outfit on to be out and about. It is a lot easier lugging groceries, getting in and out of a vehicle without flashing, etc in jeans and sneakers than in 4" heels and a tube dress.

I suppose its a shame that she will have to look frumpy in the name of functionality. And what's worse.. what will the MEN who she comes across throughout the day think? OH THE HORRORS!

As I said, I will fight for the right of women to wear whatever they want to wear, but at the same time, even women who expect equal rights like to look sexy, so that is not contradictory. My question is, why some women do, why some don't. Not forcing anyone to do it, just asking. Some of the sexiest looking women I know were confident antisexist almost-activist who would kick anyone's who would deny their equal rights to live on the same level with men, the same social value and honor.

High heels and fishnet stockings are just extreme symbols. It was just an example. And yes, sexy is subjective, but most men like the same thing / stuff that looks feminine, something that underlines that you are a woman. it maybe a detail, or two, not all hooker style outfit.

[Hopeless Dork]

The reasons so many strippers , porn stars and call girls look that way is because those are the only jobs that can pay them enough to afford to... that or having a rich sugar daddy...

Cuz lets face a woman smart and driven enough to be able to afford all that junk on her own is probably in a good career and feels good enough about herself not to have to DO all that junk.

[Wruinin]

What is all that talk about how expensive lingerie is? How much are panties you DON'T wear? How much are simple black stockings? How much is a simple top?

[Hopeless Dork]

Why do some women do ANYTHING and someone women dont is not an answerable question. Why do some men wear boxers and some wear briefs? Why do some men wear suits and some men go shirtless. Why do ANY men wear fannypacks?

Its all personal preference, we don't have women meetings where we decide who will do what and why... its all done on an individual preference basis as it is for men.

Its like asking why do some guys go to the gym and work out while other guys eat many donuts and get round? Why do some guys want to appear more attractive to the opposite sex than others? Why? Uhh.. because different things matter to different people.

[KMonte85]

Why do ANY men wear fannypacks?

lol that, HD! love it

Why? Uhh.. because different things matter to different people.

anndddddd BINGO!

[Wruinin]

Why do some women do ANYTHING and someone women dont is not an answerable question. Why do some men wear boxers and some wear briefs? Why do some men wear suits and some men go shirtless. Why do ANY men wear fannypacks?

Its all personal preference, we don't have women meetings where we decide who will do what and why... its all done on an individual preference basis as it is for men.

Its like asking why do some guys go to the gym and work out while other guys eat many donuts and get round? Why do some guys want to appear more attractive to the opposite sex than others? Why? Uhh.. because different things matter to different people.

Yes, but sex is important for my gf. And I thought looks had something to do with it. And the slogan here says:

All right Ladies- Share tips, tricks, advice, and experiences on how to spicen up that bedroom!

I really don't know. It's impossible to imagine what's it like to be a woman and what I would like to wear to provoke a guy. But I think I would like to do it. As a man, all I know women only care that I don't wear something silly, everything else is ok with them.

[Hopeless Dork]

Oh we all can give tips and tricks but what we can't... what anyone can't do is tell you why women do this or that... we can only tell you what we do... not what everyone woman does or why she does it or doesn't.

Women are held to a rediculously higher standard of beauty than men. And its so loaded in hypocrisy its not even funny. Some guys idolize porn stars and make their gfs feel like for being so natural... but then in the same breath will say fake boobs are gross, i don't like em'... uhh only good enough to masturbate to, right then, got it.

If she wants more sex from you than you are giving her... and you feel like you'd give her more if she dressed sexier in the bedroom you can just tell her how much it turns you on to see her in stockings... a lot of women WANT to be the object of their mans fantasy... especially if its as easily attainable as a pair of socks. You just have to express it in a way that doesn't make her feel like her current look is a turn off.