[Texasred]

When my husband ejaculates, there is only about 1/2 teaspoon of sperm is this normal?
Thanks,
JM

That's semen, not sperm; semen is the liquid that carries the sperm. 1/2 teaspoon may be a little on the low side, but it depends on a lot of factors, including as others have suggested, how long it's been since the last time he unloaded, how old he is, his general health & weight, and whether or not he drinks much alcohol.

[Guest]

This is great news JennieMay. The fact that you are making yourself "available" for him to unload on/with is a key to this. If he feels comfortable about waking you if he needs sex, then perhaps he can lift up your nightdress and cum on you while you are still sleepy. The point about all this is to get him to associate unloading only on you. Tell him he can do this anytime and tell him the contents of his balls belong to you. You want him to release it only on you whenever he feels the urge. It's a nice feeling for a man to feel that his partner wants his seed. Occasionally you could just cup his balls in your hand and ask him if he feels like he needs release?
I've said this before, if a woman is doing all she can to provide sexual release for her partner, even if she doesn't feel like sex herself, the man is very unlikely to stray. The majority of men will feel literally relieved and feel no need to search for porn or another woman. xx

[JennieMay]

Thanks Thomas, it's been going great so far. I'm happy that he is not spending much time anymore in front of the computer, and we are now paying more attention to each other.

[Guest]

that's good Jenniemay. I'm going to see my g/f tonight and am hoping that she will relieve me of what I've been saving up for her, if she doesn't want full sex.
We sit down and watch tv and she plays with my gential area before, sometimes for a couple of hours. Then, when she decides, she brings me to climax. But the playing and stroking beforehand, when I haven't ejaculated for several days, makes the whole area super sensitive. I never know when exactly she'll make me climax. That's part of the fun, waiting patiently for release!(but not wanting it too soon!) Try this with your partner.I can tell you in detail what she does if you want. Either open here or by pm. I'm sure he'll love it. The one thing us guys like is when our ladies take a firm interest in our genitals regularly.

[JennieMay]

Hi Thomas,
Sorry I havn't been on here for a while, I'm curious now plz tell me what it is she does to you. I would like to try something new.
Thnx,
JM

[joannabas]

Here's an update, I had a long talk with my husband and he admitted that he was looking at porn and said that he won't be doing that anymore. We are also having more sex because of this and yes I do notice more sperm. God has a way to changing people, if you pray and beleive that God is all powerful and through Jesus Christ our prayers are answerd. We are also going to move the computer out of the bedroom in a couple of weeks, he's already said he was fine with that. He said since he liked sex in the morning, he didn't want to wake me up, I know I'm a sleepy head, but I told him he could wake me up if he wanted to. So the last few mornings he's been either masterbating infront of me or on me, and I've been giving him oral too and it's been great. We havn't had vaginal sex yet because I have a yeast infection that I can't seem to get rid of, been to the doctorsand I've taken all meds and still nothing. I hope it clears ups soon or I'm going to explode.

.......I'm so happy for u I've tried doing that so many time with my husband I've offered him that I'll do anytg he wants any time he just othing changes we barely moved in 7 moths ago before that sex was awsome he would go down on me do things for me to feel good offered to try new things AMD I would do it everything changed 1month after moving in together I confronted him about porn before and he ot really mad and we actually broke up cuz he denies it and gets mad even tho I showed him proof and he promised he wouldn't do it anymore n he still does ..we have sex maybe 2 times a wk.en we do have sex its really qnuick not even 30 mins I don't even get pleasure and he doesn't give me oral anymore only I give it to him ...he says he loves me and he wants a future with me have kids and he swears he would never cheat on me...so idk c what the problem is and he severs leaves the house alone since we work together and we're together all day and he says he loves it and whenever don't want to go he gets mad .. I'm really sad an frustrated I go to sleep crying I don't know what to do anymore I'm only 20 yrs old

[jns]

It sounds like he is addicted to porn if he ignores his beautiful, 20 year old bride.