[bubbles]

Most guys talk of ejaculating too fast in terms of minutes, I however know what your bf goes through as I also cum within 10 seconds (usually under 5 strokes) of intercourse. I can last when receiving oral howerver, is he the same way?
Does he seem to be bothered by it? Have you ever mentioned it to him? It is very hard to ignore when it is over in seconds, I know.
How large is his penis? Reason I am asking is mine is quite large with an exaggerated glans (head) and it is extra sensitive and this is the part of the cause for my lack of stamina. Though, as anyone who has watched porn knows, having a large penis or glans does not always cause PE.
I have learned to hold it back, but I am still limited to 4-5 strokes at a time followed by a long pause. While it doesn't solve the problem, it would allow you to have an erect penis in you longer and if you are able to grind on him without much movement in and out, you may be able to orgasm with him that way. Just an idea.
It took me years to be able to acknowledge it and talk about it, denial can be powerful, where is he at with his issue?

Oh and he is longer in size, which is good, but not oversized in the gland area.

[TuppyOwens]

Talking about sex is the most important thing. If you chat about becoming more aware of what is going on, both in your heads and in your bodies, you will see your sex life blossom.

[TuppyOwens]

I think it's really sad when there is secrecy and lack of communication about such things. I am sure you man is feeling gutted that he cannot do better in bed, and if only you could reach out to him, help him become more aware of the feelings inside him that alert him to "that moment of no return" when he ejaculates, then life will become so much better. There are tried and tested exercises to help you both do this. Wearing a condom is not it.

[Roland1919]

I will weigh in here as am man that has had these issues. First let me say that I have talked to a lot of guys and have heard very few of them say they can go like the energizer bunny. The fact is that you women are so hot that we just can't keep it under control for the 10 or 15 minutes many women want. Generally I have found from most of my friends that in reality most of us can only go 2-5 minutes. That being said, I can tell you that my first time with some girls was much shorter than that. Its the excitement of that first time. Here is some advice I would give you. If he is fairly young, say 30 or younger, you might try oral with him first and then have sex on his second go around. That will last much longer and if he is still a young man getting another erection should not be a problem. The second thing I would suggest is that you might want to look into some toys. I have a strap on made for men that I can put on if I finish early and she is still wanting penetration. Usually I will bring her to ogasm first orally and then we make love. I think this works well as it takes the pressure off everyone. But, on those nights when she needs a good you know what, that toy seems to really do the trick. Plus it makes me a porn star which is kinda fun too! Anyway, hope this helps.

[J.Morelli]

I don't think it's your fault, but his fault. Most men know how to control orgasm, this is acquired in masturbation practice....although I have to admit that when the woman you're having sex is extremely hot, then it's very complicated to control, because then men enter in such realm of desire that you cannot control anymore, so you go, you go, you go and you wanna touch the heaven so badly....plu, it's over! But trust on me, it's a matter of practice. Tell him to practice more with masturbation.

[Guest]

Bubbles, when you're on top, and it's erect, try the grip of the base of the penis. This keeps the blood in it and also stops it ejaculating too quick. Both you and he should then get more satisfaction. x

[Allie602]

The fact is that you women are so hot that we just can't keep it under control for the 10 or 15 minutes many women want.

Love it

[rcoreyus]

Most sexual problems are made worse by stress. I'd suggest that you emphasize the other things he can do for you in bed for a while and try to ignore the problem - it may get better by itself. Is he willing to please you in other ways - hands, oral, etc?

[seattle]

As a sufferer of premature ejaculation for years, I know how disappointing this problem can be! Fairly recently, I've been able to learn how to control my response and provide my partner(s) with pleasure through prolonged penetration as well as other skills that I've learned through the years. There are exercises and techniques that can be useful in achieving this. This website helped me immensely. You or your husband (preferably both of you together) should *Removed outbound link*

Hope it helps you as much as it has me!

[johnhandsome]

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