[WannaBee]

So,
no one got any great ideas for me how to surprise her?

This can't be right.
I'd be interested in your best "after sex experience". Even if it just happend once or was really memorable for a different reason.

There's so much to learn.

heatherswar: Glad to hear that

P.S. A not empty bottle of water within easy grabbing distance from your favorite place of love making, I stronlgly recommend.

[Day Tripper]

Wanna:
You're definately ahead of the game - lots of guys never figure this out at all.
In answer - yes yes yes! After cuddling, holding, tenderness very important, at least to me. After sex I sometime feel very vulnerable - want to feel closeness, security, tenderness from partner.

One thing, I guess it's never safe to assume 'all women' feel one way or another, any more than 'all men' feel this way or that. Or even that the same person wants the same thing every time. Everyone's different.

Most important that you keep being open, aware of the little signals from your partner. Communicate with words and body language and other non-verbal ways.

It's true you can never assume that all men or all women feel a certain way, or for that matter, all of anyone, reds, whites, blues, or yellows. In my case, I've been with at least two women who had no interest in "afterplay." For the record, it's definitely not a gender thang.

Day Tripper

[Day Tripper]

So,
This can't be right.
I'd be interested in your best "after sex experience". Even if it just happend once or was really memorable for a different reason.

Just last Valentines Day:

She: "That was really incredible, hey, you wanna do it again?"
Me : "Okay, yeah, are you sure? This is amazing!"

And this went on all night until we forced ourselves to go out for breakfast at about 7:30a and then we went back to bed and made love again. Yes, it was the best endless loop of after sex that I ever had. The Planets must have been aligned just right for us. Pretty awesome!

Day Tripper

[WildChild]

Wham, bam, not even a thank you ma'm'?
You can't take that for long
Although it is amazing what we will sometimes put up with.

[4all2c]

Sex is a very dynamic thing. It is like space exploration. As each distant galaxy is found, there are thousands of discoveries to be had. Unfortunately, most people do not take the time for this amazing event. Take the time life is short...the universe of sex is vast

[lime_lemur]

The after sex part is important to my boyfriend and I, now that I think about it. The sex can be fun, dirty, intense or whatever, but afterward we relax and enjoy a different kind of intimacy, like where we appreciate each other more having just been that close. Sex wouldn't be the same if it weren't for the content smile and sigh of happiness he does afterwards, and after he comes and just lays down on me, his chest heaving. In a way, the way he looks at me afterward might be the most rewarding part of it.

[JaneC09]

Very good question. Personally, after sex, I'm worn out. Usually, me and my partner will kiss a little after sex, hold each other and fall asleep. It feels great to hold my partner and fall asleep with her beside me after sex, knowing that I have someone.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

wannabee,

It seems your looking for some answers of "what" to do after you've orgasmed, penetration is over...

But, the way I read your thread? She was saying sorry because she answered the phone, whilst you both were holding each other and feeling that intimacy that comes from "after sex".

I don't believe that she was asking for more of anything other than that...

But, good thread..

Ideas? Roll her over and seductively tingle, and rub her back, back of her legs, inner thighs without touching her "parts", run your finger nail gently down her spine...do that for 10 minutes and you better be careful because she will the whole time, be expecting that your about to re-enter or your going to use your fingers and because your not, your stroking her instead and being a little seductive, it would confuse her and have her mind wondering the whole entire time, whilst also feeling loved..

Never know, when you stop she might jump you

[WannaBee]

CHANDLERS WISH:
I think myself that she didn't ask for more.
However I'd like to be able to do something special for her.

I will definitely try your suggestions, hope she likes it!

[Tahoe]

Yes, I have a good idea for you. (I hope this isn't a bad thing to everyone!) Here goes.......oral sex! Go down on her! She will love you forever and maybe it will get her to go down on you!