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    help me to over come, but dont mis understand me....

    hey alll
    sory for telling smethng lke this, but i dont have anyone to tell or ask this, so thot of telling you all... its that i was looking for some files in my parent closet and i found this stuff. they was wrist cuffs and a Strap-on dildo and lubricants. im soo upset after seen that, because my parents are in there mid 50's. why would they use them in this age. who use strap-on dildo and for what!! i feel soo upset now. its like feeling guilt...
  • ManINeedACoffee
    Senior Member
    • Sep 2010
    • 161

    Ah, don't worry too much about it, mia. They may be in their 50's, but they're not dead - if they're still close enough to want an adventurous sex life together, then I think it's great.

    Perhaps you're simply upset because it was your parents? Nobody likes to think of their parents as sexual beings, but they are - they're human too.

    You're never too old for toys, in my opinion. And you're never too old to have a healthy sex life with your partner.

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    • Anon_1990
      Veteran Member
      • Jan 2010
      • 359

      I wouldn't beleive that your parents wouldnt use all that stuff, come on they're not exactly old.

      Let them get on with it I say, deny seeing them, or just say nothing at all.
      Happy and Taken!

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      • kristalyn_04
        Veteran Member
        • Oct 2009
        • 2164

        ...and that's exactly why we don't go snooping around our parent's closets lol.

        Aw don't worry about it, there's nothing wrong about what you found, you're just a little weird-ed out because it's your parents. Just try to forget about it and move on like you never saw anything.

        I once walked in on my parents 69-ing when I was 6 years old, I was very confused lol but just acted like I never saw anything. It didn't scar me for life or anything and I got over it!

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        • Guest

          coz i didnt expect that... i knew they might be having sex, but i didnt expect stuff like that... i was soo confused to see a strap-on... who is using that and for what :O

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          • WildChild
            Banned
            • Sep 2008
            • 14142

            Originally posted by mia3001
            coz i didnt expect that... i knew they might be having sex, but i didnt expect stuff like that... i was soo confused to see a strap-on... who is using that and for what :O
            I could give you several possiblities (I'm over 50 too) but you probably don't want to know. Just accept that as we get older, if we are physically and emotionally healthy, we continue to want and enjoy sex and we should be more skilled and even better at it. Just think of what you have to look forward to, a lifetime of good sex!

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            • Guest

              dont misunderstand me asking this... for what do we use a strap-on dildo??? sry for asking this

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              • ItsASecret
                APRIL 2011 POSTER OF THE MONTH
                • Apr 2009
                • 3721

                for what do we use a strap-on dildo??? sry for asking this
                Mostly anal penetration.
                There are those who believe that dictionaries should not merely reflect the times but also protect English from the mindless assaults of the trendy.

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                • WildChild
                  Banned
                  • Sep 2008
                  • 14142

                  Or if a man has ED or PE he may use it to satisfy the woman. It goes as long as you want it to.

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                  • shweedart
                    Veteran Member
                    • Feb 2008
                    • 679

                    ED being erectile disfunction...in other words problems with keeping a boner. Which isnt uncommon.

                    Simply using it on eachother, it'd be a different sensation, different size, different width.

                    And 50 isn't old by any means!

                    I remember getting a pair of socks out of my mums draw and seeing a condom wrapper...I was horrified but I'm well over it!

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