[Travis_C]

I dont use the Cring its just to give a scale of myself.

I have to say i'm happy just spending time with her. i dont even care to have sex all that much im happy with 1 maybe 2 times a week.but its just she will ask for it and go like the energizer bunny on meth,
I just dont know how to tell her i cant give her sex that much anymore. To be clear thats the only thing holding her to me. other wise i think she would just leave.

[Travis_C]

If any lady is will at answer, Do you think i am to large for a girl thats only 4'10 and im over 6"

[Bellalla]

I just dont know how to tell her i cant give her sex that much anymore. To be clear thats the only thing holding her to me. other wise i think she would just leave.

Oh boy.

If this is really how you feel, then I'm sorry that your partner isn't validating you beyond your sexual value...unless of course that's all you're looking for from her.

[caterpillar79]

I'm sorry. I am clueless with that C-ring actually (I'm relatively sheltered).

Yes, I agree with you - have a talk and lay your cards on the table. Good communication works wonders. Maybe you'll be able to work something out. Keep us posted.

BTW, I'm encouraging you to really look unto tantric sex. You'll both be getting more intense orgasms.

P.S.

She could be small relative to you, but a woman's vagina stretches when highly stimulated.

[Travis_C]

Oh boy.

If this is really how you feel, then I'm sorry that your partner isn't validating you beyond your sexual value...unless of course that's all you're looking for from her.

no we have 2 kids. i do love her and she still loves me to some degree. i'm just working on rebuild our relationship.

[Travis_C]

I'm sorry. I am clueless with that C-ring actually (I'm relatively sheltered).

Yes, I agree with you - have a talk and lay your cards on the table. Good communication works wonders. Maybe you'll be able to work something out. Keep us posted.

BTW, I'm encouraging you to really look unto tantric sex. You'll both be getting more intense orgasms.


P.S.

She could be small relative to you, but women's vagina stretches when highly stimulated.

IF they get much strong im not going to have skin on my back or chest

i just remember she had a very strong one once that she gave me a hug and broke 3 ribs

[caterpillar79]

.... i'm just working on rebuild our relationship.

What do you think went wrong? (If you don't mind me asking?)

[Travis_C]

I was the one that took her virginity, so she whated to know what other men were like i said i dont like the idea, next day i came home from work she was gone with the kids

that was over a year ago. she still has not been with anyone else. just me every weekend

[caterpillar79]

So she is actually wanting an open marriage? Is that right? Please clarify.....

She and your kids are not living with you 24/7 - you just see them during weekends? Though she has not been with anyone else, the fact that she asked what it's like to with "other men"... conveys another light. I wonder if there were other incidents/issues that lead her to feel this way and wonder... (even if you took her virginity - you know....).

[caterpillar79]

You don't need to answer me, as I've read your other thread.

So sorry about that. I hope you stick around and find support in this forum when you need it.