[Guest]

You're kidding right? Is this an April Fool's joke?

Sounds to me like you're a little insecure about your relationship.

"She assures me that they weren't..." What ever happend to TRUST?

It's not the size of the boat but the motion in the ocean!

[Guest]

Sounds like you are insecure about your size and are looking for assurances from the ladies here. They have told you,(especially Allie602 & Hopeless Dork) that you needn't worry. Allie602 has seen lots, so have I. Even though at a Nudist Beach you wouldn't be able to tell which guys were the largest when erect (unless of course they were - which is extremely rare) You don't say whether you have fathered children. If you had already done this you wouldn't have any inesecurities because your sex tool has been naturally successful. If you give your partner loving sex that's all she can ask for.

[Casey715]

If you give your partner loving sex that's all she can ask for.

Actually she could ask for more. It just would not be very kind of her to.

[Guest]

So here's a question: If she's 5ft 5 and used to men who are 6ft2 and is now with me, who is 5ft10, will my smaller stature be noticeable in comparison? It seems like everyone in her past was considerably bigger than her. I'm not.

[Ashlee T.]

If you are 5'10" and she's 5'5" (I thought previous you said she was shorter than 5'5"??) then you are considerably bigger than her.

If the difference between you and her (5 inches) is what you consider minimal, then you must also consider the difference between you and her ex (4 inches) to be minimal. The difference between 5'10" and 6'2" is LESS than the size of my hand...and I'm a petite female.

Smack yourself back into reality again...you're allowing yourself to take steps backwards...and there's just no sense in it.

[Guest]

Isn't the difference between her and her ex (6ft2) quite pronounced? Or is that a normal difference. To me it seems quite dramatic. Just wondering.

[Ashlee T.]

Isn't the difference between her and her ex (6ft2) quite pronounced? Or is that a normal difference. To me it seems quite dramatic. Just wondering.

As I've told you before, I'm 5'3''...my bf is 6'2". It doesn't feel weird. We don't get stares like he's the jolly green giant and I'm part of the lollipop guild. Is he taller than me? Heck yea. Am I shorter than him? Yep. Can he reach things I can't? Sure. lol... that's about it.

[Guest]

Ok. Just seemed like she would look so tiny beside someone that tall. Which, for some weird reason, bugs me.

[WildChild]

Maybe she felt like there was too much of a differnce and you are just right.
What would you do if you had something SERIOUS to worry about?

[Guest]

I guess it's just the image of such big guys with my girls that bugs me. They're all big. Every one of her exes. It just gets to me.