[WildChild]

Buttercup, this is what we call hijacking a thread. While your question may be important to you, it has no relevance to this thread. This is Enna's thread. I suggest that you do two things;first do a search on the sex page and the health section and read the threads from people with concerns similar to yours, then if you still have concerns you can post your own thread in the appropriate section.

[Eowyn]

Distance and...hes married.

My advise, cut all ties immediately! Not only have you given away yourself to this scum bag but you are now at risk as being labled as a homewrecker. You are being used and played for a fool. I hate to be so blunt but you need to get your head out of the clouds and come back down to earth.

[Eowyn]

I know it is painful to even think about, but Beautiful is right.

I don't have any elegant words for you that will make you feel better, and ease the pain to come, but i do have 1 bit of advice, something i am currently doing...

Tell the married guy you are seeing to back off, take time for yourself, forget about men for a while, and find happiness within yourself. Until your happy with yourself, you will never be happy in a relationship. Love will eventually find you when you least expect it.

I have to agree with Lady Shae here! So many women out there feel they need someone to "complete them"... to find their "soul mate". You need to be complete within yourself. I'm in the belief that it's two wholes that make a whole not two halfs when it comes to relationships.

[LCitsonlybuisness]

You are a very silly girl, this man is married he is hurting his wife and eventually will hurt you. Do you like the thought of him texting/calling you then when you arent speaking hes making love to his wife and telling her the same things? If i was you id get out fast, your 23 y do you want this man with so much baggage!! you can do so much better lovely.
Get out ther and get someone more on your level!! :-)
xxxx

[Guest]

You are a very silly girl, this man is married he is hurting his wife and eventually will hurt you. Do you like the thought of him texting/calling you then when you arent speaking hes making love to his wife and telling her the same things? If i was you id get out fast, your 23 y do you want this man with so much baggage!! you can do so much better lovely.
Get out ther and get someone more on your level!! :-)
xxxx

Its killing,believe me..;((..although from the very first day i hv restricted myself never to call or text him when hes at home,it hurts even more to imagine what he may b doing with his wife while im thinking of him..


Plz everybody! try to understand! Luk,i have a mole on my body,at a place where no one knows or can know about it,not even my mother,coz i developed it in my teens..when i was just friends with this guy,he saw that in his dream,n told me the next day.i was stunned..how can anybody justify this az fake?! i have a very different level of understanding and love with him..even if i nevr marry him,he will always be the one for me..and except my heart,i have got nothing to loose,on the other hand,he has got his life,his marriage,his wife,his baby!! hez the one who's betting everything,going against the society norms..
how can i not cherish such a relation where theres nothing to expect..i dont expect him to leave his family for me,he never said i cannot leave him or cnt get married or have a relationship if i wish to quit or fell for someone else.and he dint force me for anything,i can never blame him for anything.

how often does one get a partner who dreams about any tension or problem,even if u dont tell him???!! he is no psychic,but he feels me.i have never seen such a sensous person..
i cnt leave him just because i cannot have our relation on paper..i have seen hollow paper relations..and i have one which isnot declared anywhere,but i know theres someone who would b there to feel me,even if m not in his life..

sorry for being an emo,and thats how life is getting along..

[Talulah]

Beautiful Disaster, I completely agree(: To be honest, I've "given it" to my man more than he's given it to me!

[WildChild]

Plz everybody! try to understand! Luk,i have a mole on my body,at a place where no one knows or can know about it,not even my mother,coz i developed it in my teens..when i was just friends with this guy,he saw that in his dream,n told me the next day.i was stunned..how can anybody justify this az fake?! i have a very different level of understanding and love with him..even if i nevr marry him,he will always be the one for me..and except my heart,i have got nothing to loose,on the other hand,he has got his life,his marriage,his wife,his baby!! hez the one who's betting everything,going against the society norms..
how can i not cherish such a relation where theres nothing to expect..i dont expect him to leave his family for me,he never said i cannot leave him or cnt get married or have a relationship if i wish to quit or fell for someone else.and he dint force me for anything,i can never blame him for anything.

how often does one get a partner who dreams about any tension or problem,even if u dont tell him???!! he is no psychic,but he feels me.i have never seen such a sensous person..
i cnt leave him just because i cannot have our relation on paper..i have seen hollow paper relations..and i have one which isnot declared anywhere,but i know theres someone who would b there to feel me,even if m not in his life..

sorry for being an emo,and thats how life is getting along..

He getting sex without commitment. You are a little on the side. Unless he is in a polyamorous relationship he is living a lie. Lying to his wife and probably to you too. I have "seen" all kinds of things about people, some complete strangers. That doesn't mean they are something special to me or that I need to have sex with them.

Darling, you are inexpereinced and hungry for love and connection. Set yourself free and go find it with someone who is not committed and playing games.

[jenny03]

So what happened then? Im curious.

[Guest]

So what happened then? Im curious.

nothing new =((..

And WC,he isnot playing..plz..=((( im not ready for a second break up..:,(

[jenny03]

what do you mean nothing new? Did you meet up?
Anywway, I have a friend in a VERY similar situation..I tried sending you a private message , but it wouldnt let me ..maybe because Im new I guess? :/