[stressed]

Thanks for the advice. I tried this a few times but she gets really down if I say no and always asks 'whats wrong? 'is it me?'

Any advice on what to do in this situation?

Explain to her that it's for her health's sake and it will only take a few days. It's not normal to bleed every time you have sex, blood is always a sign of a problem.

The best would be if she went to her gyn for a check. If she insists to have sex despite the cut and despite explaining her why... and won't see a doctor... she must be immature.

[Ashlee T.]

Are you talking about the soft spot between her vagina and anus? Right below the bottom of her vagina?

If so, this used to happen to me. Are you on the bigger side (your penis, I mean)? It always felt like I had been ripped. And OMG it hurt so bad until it healed. Peeing was torture because it burned so bad. And it's hard to heal down there because it's always dark and moist.

Do NOT try to have sex before she heals. She'll know when she's ready. Matter of fact, leave her alone down there totally until she heals. Think if the head of your penis had a wound on it, you'd want it left alone.

Try different positions. Standard missionary position (if you're down even the least bit too low) can cause this. I think most of the time it's caused by friction in this very sensitive area. Try doggystyle or her on top and see if that helps.

[Jim60]

OK good advice here already.

Don't get bogged down in details. Two weeks no nothing no penetration and see how it goes! Actually, I have no more knowledge than anyone else here, but thats a safe margin for healing, theres loads else you can enjoy for 2 weeks!

If in 2 weeks on you go back in and same problem, given you are gentle etc, most likely it's a Dr problem.

Best Of!