[sofi-chan]

Hey i am 16 and i am virgen.. next year i am going to college and i dont want to be like a little girl and i need some help... plizz pliz tell me what i should know about sex... i just know what the teacher told me on school... tell me all u can, how, when, what should i do while that, how should my vigaina should look like (i mean hair)..... i really appresiate the help...

[jns]

Some women have pubic areas that naturally have no hair or almost no hair. Some women have a little hair. Some have a lot of hair. Some have very thick hair. On some the hair is almost straight. On some it is curly. On some it is kinky. On some it is not very long, on others it is quite long. Some women have hair up to and including their belly button. Some have thick hair on their upper thighs. All of it is good. A guy who loves you will like what you have.

What is your situation, pubic hair wise?

What have you learned about sex and what do you want to learn about?

[sofi-chan]

Well i have hair just in the front part and a line trough my belly button... so i dont need to put the hair off, should i stay like i am?.... well ill like to know what should i do while, before and after the penetration...

[sofi-chan]

Ill also like people to tell me how was their first time...

[jns]

Well i have hair just in the front part and a line trough my belly button... so i dont need to put the hair off, should i stay like i am?

To me it would be whatever your preference is, is fine.

There are many threads on pubic hair styles and preferences. Search on "landing strip" to get some of them. This is a link to one: https://www.womens-health.com/boards...en-prefer.html

[XChiquitaX]

Ok the first thing I would say is don't just lose it for the sake of it, you should keep it special for someone you really like and are in a reltionship with.

Now that I've got that out the way:
You said you wanted to know about first times. They can be quite painful although not everyone experiences this, actually personally I found the second and third times more sore as it was very tender down there and for a lot of people their vagina will stretch if they haven't done it before. In terms of hair, stick to what you are happy with. Personally I prefer to shave, even though some previous boyfriends have preferred it more natural, it's just what I like, but men and women have different preferences and you will find yours
In terms of actually doing it the first time, it can be scary but at the same time it will come naturally. Start off with lots of kissing and touching to get yourself in the mood and then your body will know what it wants. I know a lot of girls are scared they'll just be lying there; run your hands through his hair, down his back, kiss, be passionate and this shouldn't happen.
Hope this helps

[sofi-chan]

Thanx to both u guys!! Jaja and dont worrie am not having sex just to have it, i have a boyfriend like 3 years ago so i am planing to have sex with him (ofcourse when i am ready for it)... i just wanted to have information to make it right...

[sofi-chan]

And sorry about my writing, i am from costa rica, we speak spanish so i am not perfect at english jejeje... :$

[sofi-chan]

Oh one more thing, my boyfriend is 20, and my friends say that at that age guys have huge "things" so i dont know if that would be more hurtfull or not ok for the first time...

[stressed]

Have you planned with your boyfriend to have sex when you go to college? You are 16, sex is not going to make you grow up faster

The first thing you must know about sex is that you need protection (condoms). Without condoms you can catch a disease or get pregnant, even if it only happens once (I am sure they told you this at school, but this is the most important thing to remember. I also know it sounds boring to talk about condoms when you are 16, but seriously, your life depends on it).

I also have to ask a silly question: If you do not know much about sex, how are you so sure that you want it? Why do you want to have sex?

Also, penis size has nothing to do with age and your friends do not sound like they know what they are talking about, so I would advise you not to believe in everything they say.