[sofi-chan]

Other question jeje... while the guy is doing oral to the girl: -in what position she should be? -what she do while that? (Just enjoy and wait malking "sounds" of excitement?)

[ItsASecret]

while the guy is doing oral to the girl: -in what position she should be? -what she do while that? (Just enjoy and wait malking "sounds" of excitement?)

Easiest for her is her lying on her back, maybe a pillow under her bum to keep the guy from getting a sore neck. As for what she should do during, whatever comes naturally. If you are a vocal person then moan whenever you feel like moaning, scream if you are a screamer, run your fingers through his hair if you feel like it...whatever you do do not make it fake. If you are a quiet person that does not normally vocalize you do not need to suddenly scream or roll around with an angry face like in pornos. Louder does not make it better unless that is what you would do naturally.

[kristalyn_04]

Other question jeje... while the guy is doing oral to the girl: -in what position she should be? -what she do while that? (Just enjoy and wait malking "sounds" of excitement?)

There are many positions for this, but for your first time the most comfortable would be on your back with your knees bent and legs spread, preferably with a pillow under your hips. You just relax and enjoy it. You can move your hips with his movements if you want to, but not so much that he has to keep moving his head around to stay between your legs. You can make sounds if you want to, do whatever comes naturally and is most comfortable for you. It's good if you do make a little verbal cue when he's doing something you like so that he will know you that you like it and to keep doing it. He should learn to pick up on your breathing and body language to figure out what arouses you, but that will take some time. But some women are not very vocal during sex, which is okay, just let him know somehow when he does something that feels good. If you focus too much on what you should be doing instead of enjoying it, you might not orgasm or it could take a very long time. So just relax and let it flow.

[sofi-chan]

Should i take a shower after that? To clean down there...

[sofi-chan]

Or shower before that.... mmm...o.o

[kristalyn_04]

As long as you shower daily and you have general good hygiene, it's not necessary. If you wash down there, it will get rid of your natural unique scent, which is a turn-on for your man. Just make sure you wipe well after you urinate and it will be fine. There's no need to shower after either, it's just his saliva and your natural body fluids, which is not dirty or harmful. You can wipe with a wet cloth after if you wish to get rid of some of the body fluids so it doesn't drip onto your underwear or the bed sheets.

[sofi-chan]

This is kind of personal but.... at the end of the day my undies end with some white fluid, i think is natural fem. Lube but i wabt to b sure... is it? Is it normal? Is that normal to happen?

[kristalyn_04]

That is natural lubrication/ discharge from your vagina, yes it is normal. You only need to be concerned if the discharge is unusually thick, a different color, if there is an unusual odor, or if there is a burning or itching sensation.

[sofi-chan]

Nop.. i think everything is fine. But is normal to have lots of it? Because i hate washing my undies apart (they end with white marks after i put it off)... :s

[kristalyn_04]

Every woman has a different amount of natural lubrication and discharge. It can vary with age, arousal, where you are in your menstrual cycle, and pregnancy. It's normal.