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  • philla
    Member
    • Jan 2011
    • 19

    One other kinda weird thing I do is sometimes, I just like to look at fully clothed transsexuals look at how hot they are and think about how hot it is that that hot girl has a penis...idk

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    • kristalyn_04
      Veteran Member
      • Oct 2009
      • 2164

      It's ok, there is nothing wrong with you. I think you just need to do some exploration and safe experimentation. At your age, you are just starting to get a grasp of human sexuality and it will take some time to figure out what turns you on, what you like and what you're comfortable with. Once you figure that out, it might take a bit longer to be accepting of it.

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      • philla
        Member
        • Jan 2011
        • 19

        I know you are not a psychic but do you think I'm gonna have to act on this to get the true answer?

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        • kristalyn_04
          Veteran Member
          • Oct 2009
          • 2164

          Originally posted by philla
          I know you are not a psychic but do you think I'm gonna have to act on this to get the true answer?
          Maybe, maybe not. That is up to you to figure out and decide.

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          • WildChild
            Banned
            • Sep 2008
            • 14142

            Not to be trite but it is what it is. As Kristalyn said the range of human attraction and sexuality is broad. This is something you can pursue with consenting adults. Its hard to say how it may play out for you. You may find that this feeling subsides after awhile, you may try it and find it isn't all that you imagined or it may be amazing for you. Just be sure that you are safe in whatever you chose to do.

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            • philla
              Member
              • Jan 2011
              • 19

              I sorta fear that I might have to try it. It's kinda weird, It's all I think about and fantasize about but I'm not sure If I could go through with it, I don't know I probably could. I am seriously for sure not gonna bring religion into this but I do believe in god and I'm kinda worried If I do it I might go to , I know that sounds stupid I guess.

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              • WildChild
                Banned
                • Sep 2008
                • 14142

                Originally posted by philla
                I sorta fear that I might have to try it. It's kinda weird, It's all I think about and fantasize about but I'm not sure If I could go through with it, I don't know I probably could. I am seriously for sure not gonna bring religion into this but I do believe in god and I'm kinda worried If I do it I might go to , I know that sounds stupid I guess.
                Don't know what to tell you on that, not being a believer. You can make your own heaven or H. You might consider the idea that you are what you were created to be?

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                • philla
                  Member
                  • Jan 2011
                  • 19

                  Yea, I probably shouldn't have brought that into it. I do believe in god, but I also believe god loves us all and wouldn't send somebody to over that. I just wanna say if anybody else has anything to add I'm always looking for more insight, but I just wanna thank all you girls so much you guys have been so helpful and kind!

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                  • Texinator
                    Veteran Member
                    • Sep 2009
                    • 5556

                    The world isn't as simple as being a male attracted to females or being female attracted to males. There is a whole spectrum for both what you are and to what you are attracted. Whatever floats your boat. The most important thing is that you're happy.

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                    • CHANDLERS WISH
                      • Mar 2008
                      • 22440

                      Ask yourself, do you think sub-consciously you personally would want to be like them...

                      Is it all about the penis of a transexual, or is it the whole package and your attracted to that, as they probably were are 22,23 I mean 17 and they chose later in life to become one.

                      CW
                      PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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