[inquisitive1]

I looooove my big boobs and fat butt. That's right, my butt isn't "big" or "round," it's just "fat" and I like it that way.
The way I figure, if I can jog a mile without stopping to walk at all, I'm in decent shape and I shouldn't worry about my body if my man doesn't. I'm 5'8", I'll never fit into a size 0 (my hipbones aren't that small!) and I shouldn't try for something that will just make me miserable when white

chocolate macadamia nut cookies

from WalMart make me soooo happy ...
But I feel bad for girls whose hip bones do and should fit into a size 0, since people make fun of them a lot. We just are ... who we are.

Hey Little-
As long as it's got some chocolate in it...count me in!

[inlovagin]

It’s a conspiracy. The TV is just trying to get guys to stop looking at all the lay-D’s so men don’t notice the lady as she passes. If the man does not notice the lady then he will not see the bootieee on the quick look back. And if there is no bootieee to look at then the men wont do a double or triple take.

Who sets the standards? I say that women set these standards to keep their men from looking.........Or it could be the men setting these standards because we get in to much trouble.

I sure am glad my wife is not slacking in these departments. It keeps me window shopping at one store! And for all you men that try to keep looking down, I see you staring under your hat or sunglasses. Thanks for the complement. I know she looks good. Just remember look but don’t touch. She is all mine!!!!!

[mr.mansview]

I looooove my big boobs and fat butt. That's right, my butt isn't "big" or "round," it's just "fat" and I like it that way.
The way I figure, if I can jog a mile without stopping to walk at all, I'm in decent shape and I shouldn't worry about my body if my man doesn't. I'm 5'8", I'll never fit into a size 0 (my hipbones aren't that small!) and I shouldn't try for something that will just make me miserable when white chocolate macadamia nut cookies from WalMart make me soooo happy ...
But I feel bad for girls whose hip bones do and should fit into a size 0, since people make fun of them a lot. We just are ... who we are.

you sound like a rare women who is actually content with the way you look..(with your description of yourself, who wouldn't be)..but let's face it, even a woman with the perfect body will complain about the colour of their eyes..i think a women will find more "flaws" in their own bodies than any man could..a fun loving and self-confident women can make up for any so called flaws..as said in other posts, it's what you do with want you have that counts..

[Little]

Okay, so maybe there aren't so many "o"s in "love" for my breasts when I have to wear two bras to exercise comfortably, or when pants don't go up to a high enough size in a certain store ... or when I can't fit into an XL blouse when a medium T-shirt fits just fine. I'd prefer my stomach if it were trimmer, but ...
It's all relative. I've found someone who makes me feel like I am the prettiest girl on earth, and I think that even if something went wrong and that relationship ended, I would still have good self-esteem.
I guess it's a rare thing.

[housewife]

I looooove my big boobs and fat butt. That's right, my butt isn't "big" or "round," it's just "fat" and I like it that way.
The way I figure, if I can jog a mile without stopping to walk at all, I'm in decent shape and I shouldn't worry about my body if my man doesn't. I'm 5'8", I'll never fit into a size 0 (my hipbones aren't that small!) and I shouldn't try for something that will just make me miserable when white chocolate macadamia nut cookies from WalMart make me soooo happy ...
But I feel bad for girls whose hip bones do and should fit into a size 0, since people make fun of them a lot. We just are ... who we are.

It seems that you have a perfect body little, you are blessed , that is what a woman should look like.

the media sets the standard; a woman should be as skinny as French models .
but when it comes to what men like, they like some curves.
so , women are confused between these two perspectives.

in my opinion, if you love what you have (just like "little") , people will always see you beautiful as well.

[anonymouswhitefemale]

A little fat isn't so bad, but flab and cellulite aren't great...

I disagree that men should be able to be fat wheras women can't, I think nobody should be... Sex and attraction are an important part of a relationship so I don't think it would hurt to put a bit of effort into it, and after all, the human body wasn't supposed to sit behind a desk all day eating chocolate.

People need to stop eating for endorphins, and get them elsewhere...

That sounded harsh.

(I'm a thin man... 5'11 9.5st)


That said, if you're man is fat there's no reason why you can't be, can't be a hypocrite.

[Guest]

9.5st?... Sweetheart, that just sounds deathly. I think around 11st or 11.5st would be good for a man your height.

But back to the double standard, I agree. If a man can have a potbelly so can the woman if she wants.

You have to remember that not everyone is attracted to a slim, healthy body. Some people actually like others of a bigger stature. I used to have a thing for guys with big tummies (I'll admit). It just felt like a pillow... Ya know? It was comforting.

I'm just rambling. Nevermind.

[mr.mansview]

9.5st?... Sweetheart, that just sounds deathly. I think around 11st or 11.5st would be good for a man your height.

But back to the double standard, I agree. If a man can have a potbelly so can the woman if she wants.

You have to remember that not everyone is attracted to a slim, healthy body. Some people actually like others of a bigger stature. I used to have a thing for guys with big tummies (I'll admit). It just felt like a pillow... Ya know? It was comforting.

I'm just rambling. Nevermind.

hey "ravsoma" i am 6'2" and 210 pounds..(i know that is very big for a rabbit) how many stones is that..in fact how many pounds in a stone?

[anonymouswhitefemale]

14 pounds in a stone, so 15 stone...

I am technically just a shade in the underweight category, would put on weight but it's not easy..

It's also true that more women like fat men than men like fat women...

[Fallen1]

14 pounds in a stone, so 15 stone...

I am technically just a shade in the underweight category, would put on weight but it's not easy..

It's also true that more women like fat men than men like fat women...

I think also that maybe it could be that a lot of women don't place looks as the #1 issue in deciding on a mate. However I can't say that is fact, just an opinion.