[jns]

Hello ladies and the gentlemen that frequent these threads. I have been a reader for a few months now and just became a member. I have an issue that just bugs the out of me. Perhaps I found the one person that is just not into all her person can do. Perhaps she is not the only one. It seems that 1 orgasm or sexual peak is all she wants or can handle. IF it was up to me I would and can make her orgasm 4 or 5 times every time. I know as the first week or two we were together this was the case. then all of the sudden she seemed scared after that. her words are "I feel like i am losing control of her person" So now after the first one I get the words "its to intense" or " thats enough can't take anymore".......Whats wrong there? I do take my time and stimulate her and make sure shes really turned on. Of course there is oral stimulation of the clitoris which makes her scream a bit. Much after that she's mush and doesn't care for more. I can talk her into more maybe one more via intercourse but its like pulling teeth. Its not that she don't enjoy it she is just SPENT I guess after one.

This is the real kicker. If intercourse is the first in line to cause an orgasm she is really spent. I recently tried oral and then tried to stimulate here "G" spot and she closed her legs and told me basically off limits till she calms down. She wants to calm down before preceeding. Women have to stay worked up to keep them going. Whats wrong with this picture. Every woman I have been with will allow me to give them orgasms all nite and then some. Its my great pleasure to make my loved one be "ALL SHE CAN BE". Anyone else with this prob. Curious to know anyones ideas.

On a side note I am not bragging. I simply don't like being called lazy. So if its climaxes and orgasms women want. That they will get. I guess I should say I put my lover ahead of my own needs.

I think a few women fear losing control so much that they won't even have their first orgasm.

[nattynoona]

When i was younger I was insatiable. I could have 8,9 sometimes 10 orgasms - any more and i'd reach the point of orgasm andit would vanish leaving me rather frustrated.

Now I'm older (i'm not exactly old now, at 25), and I have a loving partner whom I adore, sex is more than being just about orgams. It's that intense connection we get. One orgasm is more than enough for me now. Just feeling that closeness to my boyf is what makes me feel satisfied.

[Magnetism]

I've never had one. After I orgasm, I'm done. I can try, but I really feel done when I have one and I want to roll over to sleep....like your stereotypical man! I've been told my sex drive and habits are like a man anyway.