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    Hi, I have been with my wife now for nearly 20 years and she has never squirted....until now. We were having an extended foreplay session and I was massaging her G spot and clit at the same time, she appeared to be having multi orgasms (I say appeared as I wouldnt be so arrogant as to know) and all of a sudden she squirted! I have seen this in porn clips and read that it is wee, does anyone KNOW for sure? Does anyone know WHY this happends, why after almost 20 years? OK it may be natural but its the 1st time I have seen this in the flesh, want to know your oppinions whether this is generally a good thing and why it happens? Turn or or turn off for you?
    Last edited by Alison H.; 03-25-2021, 04:55 PM.

  • Originally posted by Tod121 View Post
    Hi, I have been with my wife now for nearly 20 years and she has never squirted....until now. We were having an extended foreplay session and I was massaging her G spot and clit at the same time, she appeared to be having multi orgasms (I say appeared as I wouldnt be so arrogant as to know) and all of a sudden she squirted! I have seen this in porn clips and read that it is wee, does anyone KNOW for sure? Does anyone know WHY this happends, why after almost 20 years? OK it may be natural but its the 1st time I have seen this in the flesh, want to know your oppinions whether this is generally a good thing and why it happens? Turn or or turn off for you?
    I just responded to your post on the other thread.

    It's not pee... It doesn't smell or look like pee. It is produced by the Skene's gland through g-spot stimulation. Equating it to pee is kind of like saying a man's cum is pee. Just because it comes out of the same hole doesn't mean it is pee. Most women produce it, however, since it causes a feeling like you really really need to pee, they hold it in afraid that it is urine. They will later pass it while using the restroom. It means intense pleasure and hopefully you didn't show any disgust from it when it happened. My hubby thinks it is the best thing EVER. It anything, be happy that she FINALLY felt comfortable enough and relaxed enough to let it go during the moment.

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    • No, I didnt show any disgust, much the opposite as she did seem greatly turned on when she did it and I had read a discussion as to whether it was pee or not and as it didnt smell like pee I was just amazed by it!

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      • Good for you! It's a very very intense feeling. My arousal has to be pretty much out of this world for it to happen and when it does, the feeling is insane.

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        • Woo Hoo! Yours does it too! When stimulating my SOs G-spot, it's the ultimate result! I love it!

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          • I've actually had it happen without g-spot stimulation, while masturbating usually at the second orgasm... it's so intense sometimes that I release a little bit of fluid. I don't "squirt" in the actual sense of the word, it just trickles out. Hopefully someday a man can bring me to such an intense orgasm that I'll be squirting like a water gun lol.

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            • It's an odorless colorless liquid that it secreted for lubrication known as female ejaculate, it is brought on by a g spot or clitoral orgasm. It's an amazing thing really, I find the most built up orgasms cause this to happen along with body spasms from intense pleasure. If she is ejaculating a bunch of liquid make sure to have her drink lots of water after as this sort of pleasure can dehydrate you. Continue whatever you're doing, I'm sure your wife won't complain.

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              • i never knew all this, am one of the woman who hold it in couse i think it's pee.. thanx y'all
                "Love like an Angel & Make love like the devil"

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                • Hi ya, thanks for all your feedback so far. Its been very reassuring that this seems fairly common and regarded as something positive to say the least. Do you reckon that now that we have got to this level of orgasm it is easily repeatable, I know what I did different to normal and feel I could do the same again. I saw a G spot stimulation video on youtube and it said that just because a women likes it one way one day doesnt mean she'll like it the next time. Also, do you think (and be honest here!) that it matters HOW you reach this level of orgasm, what would have made this perfect for me and maybe for her, is if she came like this with my penis inside her rather than my fingers (this doesnt detract from what we did achive), is this likely?

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                  • I've never been able to squirt by penile penetration alone need some clitoral simulation, also something cannot be inside me it's got to be removed before it'll happen.. for me that is, tons of women are different try out different things.
                    If she is okay with it maybe try anal penetration with a vibrating toy and clitoral stimulation, that always does it for me, I know a few other women that works for as well. Sex is an endless exploration so enjoy it and enjoy finding out what makes you guys happy. Try not to focus on making her do it as that will probably just frustrate you more thinking about it, and vice versa for her, I know the first time I did I tried so hard to make it happen again and it was awful, just close your eyes enjoy the moment and relax, I'm sure it'll happen.

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                    • I'd swear my wife can and has done this in the throws of passion without thinking what it was and we'd both really enjoy her orgasms. Usually while I'd penetrate her while she uses her toy on her clit.
                      But now that she's gotten older she thinks she has to pee and won't take the chance. She'll even have me stop sometimes so she can go pee.
                      It might be pee, but without her letting it come out how would a woman know? I'm sure she doesn't want to wet the bed but if it's a G-spot O with squirting involved I'll take the chance.

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                      • Tell her that

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                        • If she uses the restroom before getting intimate, she's in the clear. Her bladder won't fill up that quickly.

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                          • it happen sometimes wid me, its normal dear. May b u not noticing with urself as u hav same opening for both and we hav different

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                            • I've been married to my wife for 20 years too. She seems to have been brought up to think that sex is dirty. Over the years I've tried to get her to realise that sex is one of the best things in life, and totally natural, but she is still reluctant to totally let go. She has orgasms during sex, and I love satisfying her first. I came across a video the other day showing how to give your lover an intense orgasm. I used the technique on her that night and WOW!!! I've never seen her sooo turned on, she was having orgasm after orgasm, and squirting all over the place, which I found fantastic!!! It's the first time she's squirted. She kept me at it for hours, and she had totally let go of all her inhibitions. It was one of the best experiences of my life, and it made me feel so close and intimate with her. It's nice to read other peoples experiences on here. I'ts just a shame I didn't find out the technique years ago!!

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