[Tod121]

I think that's one thing only you will know

Personally, we were having foreplay, and when it got really passionate, I didn't say anything, just began using the technique. I thought if I said to her I'm going to try a new technique, it might put pressure on her to feel something new. If it didn't work, it might make her feel bad because it didn't work. I'm having a hard time explaining myself . It's one of those 'in the moment' things.

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I understand you completely. As perhaps expected, my wife showed no interest in playing when we got home and the kids were still up til quite late so no passion there but when we next have fun I reckon we will follow the same path as yourselves and try it when the moment is right, not explaining before hand makes sense. She has tried different techniques with me so I hope she will be open to this.

[Elanor-Jane]

look up female prostate gland

[Tod121]

Hope you get the same results. I'm quite firm with her, just like the video really. I keep my middle fingers (the ones inside her) straight and stiff, as you say just like lifting. I haven't tried the come hither motion yet, to be honest she was going bananas with this technique, and didn't want me to stop I've also read about 'the running man' technique, where your fingers do a running motion. Haven't tried that yet either. You'll have to let me know how you get on.

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We tried this at the weekend and I initialy thought wow this is going to be HOT, I copied the same position and posture as per the video but in the time taken for the girl in the video to squirt, my wife had removed my hands and placed them elsewhere. This looks like a very simple technique so not sure what could go wrong. Should I give it another go or take the hint?

[ItsASecret]

We tried this at the weekend and I initialy thought wow this is going to be HOT, I copied the same position and posture as per the video but in the time taken for the girl in the video to squirt, my wife had removed my hands and placed them elsewhere. This looks like a very simple technique so not sure what could go wrong. Should I give it another go or take the hint?

First off be reminded this is an internet "teaching" video, this means it is going to be an actress being paid to ooo and ahhh. It is supposed to look hot because make up and hair in the dressing room for hours can do that to a woman, add in the couple mmmm yeahs oooo ahhhh and you have yourself a fake production and a guy feeling let down by what he thought should be a mirror image of what he saw in the video. Same applies to other porn without the "teaching" label, porn provides a false sense of reality and a guy left with a sense of shock and awe that his SO would not react in the same manner as Jenny Glitter T**s did. Many women simply do not like certain things so if this is a thing that does nothing for your wife do not take it personally. You tried it, maybe try again on a different day down the road but there is the chance it does nothing for her and will move your hand every single time. Nothing is cookie cutter in sex, it is not touch here and there and you get X response with any woman.

[Tod121]

First off be reminded this is an internet "teaching" video, this means it is going to be an actress being paid to ooo and ahhh. It is supposed to look hot because make up and hair in the dressing room for hours can do that to a woman, add in the couple mmmm yeahs oooo ahhhh and you have yourself a fake production and a guy feeling let down by what he thought should be a mirror image of what he saw in the video. Same applies to other porn without the "teaching" label, porn provides a false sense of reality and a guy left with a sense of shock and awe that his SO would not react in the same manner as Jenny Glitter T**s did. Many women simply do not like certain things so if this is a thing that does nothing for your wife do not take it personally. You tried it, maybe try again on a different day down the road but there is the chance it does nothing for her and will move your hand every single time. Nothing is cookie cutter in sex, it is not touch here and there and you get X response with any woman.

Hi, totally agree with your later points, this technique may not do it for her and\or what turns someone on one day may not the next but have you seen THIS video? there is very little chance of THIS "actress" faking it, she gushes!!

[ItsASecret]

Hi, totally agree with your later points, this technique may not do it for her and\or what turns someone on one day may not the next but have you seen THIS video? there is very little chance of THIS "actress" faking it, she gushes!!

Syringe and water and you have low production costs for what seems to be an amazing scene, happens all the time. Factor in all the little details like not all women will like the technique, not all women actually squirt, not all women respond the same, and not all women even care to squirt and you have yourself reality. Porn is not reality. All you can do is always have the thought that porn is not a depiction of reality so that when you try something and it does not work you do not feel let down or you did something wrong. Find out what your wife likes and keep doing those things if the new stuff just does not seem to be working.

[TheWisePanda]

It is a sign of intense pleasure. Its sort of the female way of ejaculation if you think about it. Personally, It's one of the biggest turn on's when i have sex with my girlfriend.
When she "squirts" it tends to turn me on extremely and makes me perform better and she squirts multiple times after that. It is completely normal and matter of fact, you should be proud of yourself to bring your partner to such a high level of pleasure; some people find it impossible to make their partners squirt because it is difficult sometimes. Either way don't get all freaked out because it is 100% normal and it is a VERY clear sign that you are doing something right

[givinginsight]

I've never been able to squirt by penile penetration alone need some clitoral simulation, also something cannot be inside me it's got to be removed before it'll happen.. for me that is, tons of women are different try out different things.
If she is okay with it maybe try anal penetration with a vibrating toy and clitoral stimulation, that always does it for me, I know a few other women that works for as well. Sex is an endless exploration so enjoy it and enjoy finding out what makes you guys happy. Try not to focus on making her do it as that will probably just frustrate you more thinking about it, and vice versa for her, I know the first time I did I tried so hard to make it happen again and it was awful, just close your eyes enjoy the moment and relax, I'm sure it'll happen.

My husband to found my gspot and never forgot it. I am able to squirt with penile penetration. We experimented and we were able to found my gspot. Its a matter of trying different positions and movements. I was in a book store one day and seen a book about what position was best for the different shaped penis. I can't remember what the title is but it helped me figure out what works best for us. What you might want to try isbeing on top(the woman because she will be able to help find the spot) and instead of moving up and down have her grind back and forth either facing you or being backwards. Once she's able to find it the first a couple of times than she can find it in different positions. And yes anal penetration can also hit the gspot(for me I need to be on the bottom and my legs between his and on my belly) . I didn't know that about drinking plenty of fluids though. But that does explain why I feel like I can't get enough to drink. Good luck to all!!

[Little]

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