[WildChild]

Mark you can do a search on here for discussions on female ejaculation and the gspot. Many women do indeed ejaculate. It is a fluid from the Skeen's glands.

[Guest]

Okay... never heard of it. I'll look it up. BTW, I happen to find it exciting as he'll, but that's just me. I've been squirted on before and it felt pretty good actually, I was as far in as I could get at the time and she let loose with that and things got really good really fast. That was a 3 hour session I'll never forget!

[Diane1969]

Diane1969
My question to you is the size you have made yourself. Have you stopped stretching yourself, if so do you feel you are returning to normal. If you have not, what size dildo are you using now and can you still feel your husband? We just bought a dildo roughly the size you said you were using when you started this post.

I haven't stopped stretching myself, quite the opposite actually. We purchased a wider dildo online and together we have started using it with the intention of further stretching me out. The new dildo was advertised as being 3-1/2" wide but when we measured it we found it was just over three inches wide. We have been using it now for a few weeks every couple of nights but it is still a bit uncomfortable due to the size. So far we have only been able to work about 4 inches of it into myself but I do feel like I am starting to open up more to accept the girth. It took quite a few months to become used to the original large dildo so it is still early days. I have been able to orgasm with the new toy inside me and the sensation is very intense but does leave me sore after orgasm. If I don't orgasm with it there is no real discomfort after it is removed. As far as feeling my husband the more we continue stretching the less I can feel him. If he doesn't move I can no longer tell if he is inside me or not but when he moves there has been no noticeable reduction in pleasure. I don't believe now it would be possible for me to return to the way I was 6 months ago even if I wanted to. My husband tells me he loves the new sensation of being inside me and there being so much room, he describes it as being warm everywhere. Lately he as been coming a little to quickly because he is so turned on. So far this has been a wonderful experience for both of us and we have both agreed we would like to upsize once I become used to our latest toy.

[Diane1969]

I wanted to update this discussion for anyone interested in the topic of vaginal stretching. Now after about 2 months of using our latest large dildo I have become very accustomed to the size. The second one we bought is just over 3 inches wide. The last few weeks I have found myself using it practically every day while my husband is at work and more often than not this toy is used as part of our foreplay almost every time we make love. As a result I am finding myself getting stretched out multiple times basically every day. I realize this is not what most woman accept as normal so I have taken an interest in my desire to be stretched and read everything I could find on vaginal stretching. One thing I continuously read is that any stretching is temporary and birth is given as an example that most woman return to more or less the same tightness they were prior to birth which is also my experience. I have to say though that in my experience this intentional stretching over the last 6 months has without the slightest doubt increased my size and I do believe it to be permanent.

I am now at a point when I can easily take most of this new toy with only a few minutes of effort and there is no longer the sensation that it is too big for me. After the initial insertion I seem to just open up and it glides in with no effort. At any time of the day I can reach down and accept my 4 fingers with virtually no resistance. Although my vagina appears to still close I have become what seems to be permanently dilated. Sex with my husband has changed. If we use our toy together first then I no longer can feel him at all inside me afterwards. If we haven't used our toy beforehand there is still almost no sensation. Our lovemaking has become very different. Penetrative sex offers little stimulation of my vagina but my husband can still make me orgasm as his body brushes up against my clit while inside me. As strange as it seems our lovemaking has now become much more passionate and romantic. Often we just lay there completely still with my husband inside me and we don't even bother to move but rather we just kiss for ages. If he goes soft we harden him up again and return to the same passionate kissing position. It is quite sensual and my husband keeps telling me how beautiful and sexy I am and how much he loves to be completely engulfed by my new vagina. Giving me oral sex drives him wild and I can feel a large amount of his face is being pushed inside me. Most of the time for my husband to orgasm while inside me he now has to reach down and masturbate himself. I suppose this sounds like we have lost something and this is true, but what we have gained outweighs the negatives and we both feel this way. My husband has encouragingly asked me if I am interested in a thicker toy and the answer is definite YES. I am not sure at what size we will find my limits but I am eager to upsize and see where it takes us. I appreciate that eventually there must come a point where I can physically not accept anything wider and believe there will be some sadness when this time comes.

I wanted to update this thread firstly to share what has been an amazing journey and a very fulfilling experience for us as a couple. I am a shy reserved woman in public and I often go shopping and know that when a stranger is looking at me they have no idea what is under my dress. While our relationship has always been monogamous and neither of us have any desire for a swinging lifestyle we have discussed the possibility of me picking up a stranger just to see their reaction when they attempt to penetrate me. I am not sure how I feel about this yet but I would like the sensation of a stranger trying like crazy to stay hard or reach orgasm with me which and unless they were very large they would have no chance. I know this is quite deprived but seeing a stranger almost disgusted with me and failing really does very strangely turn me on. I know that sounds horrible but I somehow feel very empowered with my new dimensions and I think this is something I would like to try even though the concept of being with another man is not something I am craving.

Happy to discuss further. I realize this is a topic most people will not understand or appreciate and will likely leave people feeling that I am sick or unbalanced but it has been so rewarding and pleasurable and I feel I need to share even though criticism and lack of understanding is expected from most. I certainly never thought this type of body modification was for me and I know if I read this a year ago I would have cringed and thought "what is wrong with that girl!".

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[WildChild]

Our lovemaking has become very different. Penetrative sex offers little stimulation of my vagina but my husband can still make me orgasm as his body brushes up against my clit while inside me. As strange as it seems our lovemaking has now become much more passionate and romantic. Often we just lay there completely still with my husband inside me and we don't even bother to move but rather we just kiss for ages. If he goes soft we harden him up again and return to the same passionate kissing position. It is quite sensual and my husband keeps telling me how beautiful and sexy I am and how much he loves to be completely engulfed by my new vagina.

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What you are describing is a form of Karezza. We have several practitioners here. You can doa search on it for more detail.

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[Diane1969]

What you are describing is a form of Karezza. We have several practitioners here. You can doa search on it for more detail.

I have never heard of Karezza before but a Google search confirmed that this is basically the way we have been making love ever since I become so loose that sexual friction basically does not exist anymore. Through a non traditional manner we have actually taken the emphasis off the goal of sex being about orgasm. It is almost ironic that through such an extreme sexual practice that most would not understand or embrace we have stumbled upon something that is incredibly gentle, passionate and romantic. We also have a variation where my husband inserts the huge toy as far as it will go inside me and then lays on top of me applying weight to the inserted dildo, we then kiss and nibble each other for times that can last over an hour and the whole time I am being completely filled. When he does this and kisses my neck I feel like I have an out of body experience and words can not explain the level of pleasure I experience. It's hard not to feel guilty when he pleasures me like this.

Also for the record I have had no inappropriate PM's but thanks for looking out for me.

[Hopeless Dork]

Diane, Please don't take offense to this question... but have you ever seen a therapist, or doctor to discuss what you are doing? It might be very wise to seek a medical doctor to find out if you are doing any irreversable damage (causing future incontinance, etc). Also when you mention that you will be sad when the time comes that you won't have something new to stretch you (when you 'max out' so to speak)... it makes me wonder if there is not some sort of psychological 'hole' that you are attempting to fill by these actions.

While I can't even pretend to understand this fetish, I pass no judgment , to each their own... but I do feel a strong concern for your safety, physcially & emotionally and hope that you are safegaurding both.

[Diane1969]

Your concern is appreciated and to answer your question I have not seen a therapist or doctor. I have read a lot about what I am doing and while it isn't something I associate myself with it seems common enough in BDSM practices. Many woman are engaging in fisting and double fisting which would offer comparable stretching and there is a lot of information to out there. I am not into pain so have taken the opinion that if I get to a point where something is painful then I have found my limit and will stop. As for filling some void I don't buy into having a psychological hole that I am trying to fill. My life is more perfect than I ever thought it could be it just so happens that physically I gain great enjoyment from feeling completely full. If I get to a stage where I loose this sensation then yes I will be unhappy but I don't think this will ever happen. Truth be known I suspect this limit is only 1 more inch in width away.

[Hopeless Dork]

If your goal is to obtain a 'full' sensation ... I dont uinderstand the objective of trying to become more loose in order to accomadate bigger objects. (just trying to understand). Because I would imagine, if you kegal and work on tightening your vagina, rather than loosening it... that you will feel fuller than by trying to stretch it out, causing it to need bigger objects to fill it... know what I mean?

[Diane1969]

I understand your point of view. I sometimes watch myself in the mirror and can't deny it is also visually exciting to see myself being penetrated by something so wide and deep. I just want more and more and I find it difficult to explain. It just feels so amazing that I simply don't want to stop until I have found my threshold.