[MoeJr]

Each to their own. But I'm willing to bet there will be some regret down the road with this decision of the young ladies in this post. In which we probably won't hear from them. An example: Many men using steroids become addicted to the physical appearance, your brain and the way you perceive the look changes, you want more and more. Finally when you realize (if you do) it's too late. After they quit steroids, muscle begins to fade, leaving an unpleasant appearance. In these women's cases, the now known turn-on is awesome! But down the road when it becomes old news, sure things may start to shrink back to original, but you will have to deal with appearance, the need to be so ( filled) so to speak, eventually the turn-on with their men will fade as well, leaving their guy feeling inadequate, it may take some time but in my opinion somewhere in that mans brain he is going to think "she just needs that toy not me" eventually. Or "Ok this isn't as good as it used to be" then what? For these young ladies madly in love, not to rain on your parade or anything but, what if your life with this partner isn't forever? Because as a very sexual man, I can tell you what you are doing is a very RARE turn on for a guy.

[ItalianSweetie]

After reading alot of these posts, I can't believe how some woman can say that a "loose" vagina is better than a tight one bececause a tight one is rarely "used" and men prefer a well used "Loose" vagina. This may be your opinion but, I can almost guarrantee that most men would rather stick his **** in something tight, not all loose. Some of your husbands may like loose vaginas, but let me tell you, There is nothing wrong with having a "tight vagina". If you want a big gap between your legs that's your perogative, but please don't judge others.

[fancyfree]

"If you want a big gap between your legs that's your perogative, but please don't judge others.

I dont believe anyone was judging anyone. its all a matter of personal preference. tight or loose. this thread stuck out to me because someone was asking for help and suggestions. no judgements and finger pointing.

[xftchina]

I started having problems with leaking in my 35s after the childbirth. It was very tired to take care of the baby and the family. But what mostly embarrassed me is the incontinence problem. My doctor advised that I should do Kegel exercises. I tried it, but there is not any improvement. Actually, the Kegel exercise is not difficult, but how do you know you're making any progress and, honestly, it's something that is easy to forget. Nothing seemed to help me until I tried XFT Pelvic muscle trainer. It is amazing! That little gadget has really helped me a lot. My urinary incontinence disappeared in 3 months after the training! I would like to recommend it for you if you are suffering the same problem like me.

[rainbowbrite1]

I Just want to thank everyone on this site for being open about this. For so long i have ketp this a secret most of my friends are talking about getting tighter for there husbands. My man and I have been working on this awhile his penis is very sensitve and to much friction puts him in actual pain. i started doing this for him and found myself really enjoying it. I myself am very tight and no matter what i have tried cannot keep streched. when going in for my pap smears my doctor actually in not so many words complains on how hard it is to do an exam on me. I have been working on this for over a year now and have bought several diffrent size toys but am having trouble working up to letting my man use his fist. i am actual into some pain when have sex and foreplay. I just cannot physically get my mans fist in my vagina. does anyone have any suggestions for me.

[smallcock808]

Hello Diane,
I read your first post and skimmed through many others that followed. First let me praise you in your efforts and passion. I was mainly posting to see if you would give us an update on your progress of loosening your vagina. Can you tell us what size dildo you started with and what size you are up to now ? Have you and your husband moved into fisting yet ? Are you loose enough yet or is there a ways to go ?

I am sort of doing the same thing with my wife that you did. Only I’m the one trying to loosen her up more by fisting (almost all the way now) and larger and larger toys. The sight of a gaping vagina seriously turns me on and Im hopefully on the right road to get there with her.

[SQ2BE]

Be carefull, it's a slippery slope!!!

This is an old thread, but I felt I had to reply.

I hope you get this and that everything is well. As far as your question of how to "hold" the gape you saw in the video. That takes a bit more practice and a bit more stretching. Something you want to really think about before you start down that road. You snap back NOW, but even if you just use the toys you have for a few months on a regular basis, you will less and less. Keep the dildo in for longer and longer periods of time, you must change your resting-relaxed state to be the size of the dildo.

I would say have your husband work WITH you. The journey is the fun part, not necessarily the destination.

I also am a "Size Queen". At a young age I found that I REALLY liked the feeling of being stretched, wider, deeper, etc. It was quite by accident that before the age of 19 I was WAAAY bigger than anything that existed in the real world. Now 8 years later, I feel I am in a class by myself!!!

I say it's a slippery slope as I never intended to change myself permanently. There are women who do it for the sake of being larger, more capacious. I did it because I really got off on it! Having my ***** packed tight and full was ALL I wanted...

I will say that I have never regretted it. Having a large capacious vagina lends a whole new facet (2 or 3 actually) to your sex life. I highly recommend it, but I think you have probably already figured this out and are way past anything I could try to teach you here.

Take it slow, going to fast is where the problems are. Take your time and enjoy it. Do you kegels everyday and unless you are wanting to screw Godzilla you should be fine!!!

[Something_Awesome]

We don't judge on this Forum and welcome.

Fantasy is erotic... You describing all of that, I can see the excitement.

However, he more than likely will not feel you, it will be an "empty space" and as such will he enjoy it?

Maybe what he enjoyed was the erotica, the visual.

If you do reverse cowboy, he will see you , him, inside of you and that to me is more exciting,whilst he will feel you contracting and you will feel him wall to wall.

Have a think about that.

CW

I am going to be honest, I prefer a "looser" sensation as opposed to a "tighter" sensation, as does my girlfriend. I've always been trying to think of ways lately to loosen her up, so it's funny that this thread popped up.

Now I am definitely not "large," but I love it when she feels like a slip n' slide. Gotta agree with the thread-starter, looser is better!

And as much as I can relate to what she was saying, I couldn't help but chuckle a bit while reading

My question is, what's in it for women that do this?

[Patti-here]

NOTHING,, I don't even understand any of this

[Lancashire Lad]

NOTHING,, I don't even understand any of this

Can't believe what im reading hunny, who would want an over stretched one rather than a nice tight one?