[Guest]

Thanks for the insight here. She is always clean and showers daily and after the gym, but when she comes over my place I can't tell if she just showered or hasn't since the morning. I really care about her so I would never want to hurt her. I like the idea of not spending the time down there if it isn't what it usually is. Thank you for a mature answer to a difficult situation. I usually bring her to orgasm before heading north again. Maybe if I head up sooner she will not catch on to my new idea? I hope.

[waya]

As to your dilema, how about you turning down a BJ next time she heads down there saying you didn't shower and it wouldn't be nice for her? She might get the hint. It's a delicate subject.

I think this is the best choice so far. It's how I would rather be told, and if she doesn't quite get it you can always be more direct later.

[Guest]

Procedd with caution...lots of it.

As this is a 'high risk' low reward topic of conversation - IMO.

It sounds to me like you might be a little over sensitive to your perception of "fresh".

As an enormous fan of cunnilingus, I find that it is different almost every time...technique, presentation, length of activity, etc.

So, go with the flow and realize that she may be different each time too.

[evilgothicjenn]

That's tough!!! If it smells like fish, make it a dish! Well, no thanks, and I don't want to smell your locker-room balls either, my dear XD bahaha. Just tell her very politely, and NOT at a time when she's ready for sex!! That occasionally, *maybe even use the word RARELY or almost NEVER...lol* she isn't as... eh... flowery? As you'd like? Lol. I don't know what you could use to word it. Bring it up nicely, and go about it easily and carefully... My fiance just simply started asking me, "did you shower today/last night?" and really, I wasn't that offended. Nobody likes raw tuna or... sweaty sausage? ^_^ tee-hee I'm an ss. Best advice, be pre-pared if she DOESN'T take it so nicely!!

[jns]

Nobody likes raw tuna or... sweaty sausage?

What do you mean "Nobody likes raw tuna..."? Millions do as sushi or sashimi. Personally I like raw fish.