[WildChild]

LOL.
Not to hijack this thread but...
I still want to know why so many men associate anal play with gay sex when statistically this far more likely to be practiced by heterosexual couples. Oral sex is much more favored in the gay community and I have never heard a man say, "no way do I want a bj, that is so gay!"
Men can be so entertaining.

[LanaBear]

LMAO WC.... But very very valid points!

[ItsASecret]

I still want to know why so many men associate anal play with gay sex when statistically this far more likely to be practiced by heterosexual couples.

Probably because very few men will go to statistics for information, and when something is put into their butthole they do not like since it is still far more associated with actions taken by gay men whether or not numbers say so. Some men just do not care for that sort of association so they let their woman partake in it for them, not all men share that opinion though.

Oral sex is much more favored in the gay community and I have never heard a man say, "no way do I want a bj, that is so gay!"

lol men are simple when it comes to that, a woman giving the bj is more 'sexually acceptable' than a woman shoving her finger or penile object in for anal play therefore making a bj from a woman by no means gay.

[rcoreyus]

A lot of the gay / straight discussion seems silly.

Most of the things sexually active couples enjoy could be viewed as not "natural" because they are not designed to produce children. Oral, Anal, even kissing aren't "natural". No reason to use any position other than whatever is most likely to get her pregnant (maybe missionary?).

Once people start doing intimate things for enjoyment, not just for reproduction, where is the limit? It seems to me that if they enjoy it, and it isn't dangerous, a couple should do whatever they want. A lot of the same acts are done by straight, gay, and lesbian couples - pretty much anything that anatomy makes possible - and sex toys just expand that range.

I don't think that woman using a strapon on her man is likely to make him desire other men - in fact its more likely to reduce any interest in other men because it lets him experience the physical sensations with a woman.

Of course people shouldn't do things they aren't comfortable doing - I just hope that people try to be open with their partners early in a relationship so that they do not wind up with very mismatched sexual interests.

Personally I would be interested in experiencing a wide range of activities (though I don't get the opportunity). I'm not interested in men (not repulsed, just not physically attracted), but receptive strapon sex is something I'd try given the chance. Why not?

[Master Bruh]

Hmmm...clearly this is going to be a lot of typing so I'll try and cover as many points as possible.....and were off

Waya on anal, I believe thats because women are much more sensitive in much more parts of their bodies. Men we usually have only 2 places we were liked to be touched, kissing on the neck and what not is cute and gives that cue its time to go to work but really women can really enjoy a kiss to the stomach or toes much more. So being the...anus is full of nerves..some good some bad, but thats just one, the act of it being taboo plays a role in it as well.

WC- Statistics dont always show what they're suppose to depending on whats asked and what numbers. The gay population is significantly smaller then hetero community and some hetero couples or person might say yea I've done anal..that meaning yea I do it every other day or yea tried it once in college it was alright or didnt like it or my b/f got to pushy and stuck it in without my say so, better yet I was a virgin and wanted to please my b/f but keep my virginity so I gave him anal. Guys..meh it was something to put it in and heard it was tighter...that about it. Gay population saying oral over anal can be for various reasons one due to STD's 2 not everyone wants to be a bottom or numerous others. Oral is a neutral practice like kissing. Its part of the steps into the big two such as anal and vaginal.
Rcoreyus- Well theres natural as in I have two arms 2 legs and a penis and then theres primitive as in I need to make babies as soon as possibly as quickly as possible then move on to the next with no actual satisfaction fueling me too. As for limits..thats why we have a norm in society it dictates whats wrong or right how we should act whats looked down all that jazz. The norm is..I cant go steal things even tho back then hey if you can take it..take it survival of the fittest was the norm. Norm separates gay from straight most people are cool with this norm as it hasnt changed. Dont get me on sex toys lol. But I dont think its less likely because in the end its the piece of plastic giving the pleasure not the woman and that piece of plastic is a replica of a man's organ and if he wishes to get that connection then why not have the real thing attached in which is either a transsexual or a man. But Im pro premarital relations like you said dont want to get mismatched and find out 5 yrs down the road.

[waya]

Waya on anal, I believe thats because women are much more sensitive in much more parts of their bodies. Men we usually have only 2 places we were liked to be touched, kissing on the neck and what not is cute and gives that cue its time to go to work but really women can really enjoy a kiss to the stomach or toes much more. So being the...anus is full of nerves..some good some bad, but thats just one, the act of it being taboo plays a role in it as well.

WC- Statistics dont always show what they're suppose to depending on whats asked and what numbers. The gay population is significantly smaller then hetero community and some hetero couples or person might say yea I've done anal..that meaning yea I do it every other day or yea tried it once in college it was alright or didnt like it or my b/f got to pushy and stuck it in without my say so, better yet I was a virgin and wanted to please my b/f but keep my virginity so I gave him anal. Guys..meh it was something to put it in and heard it was tighter...that about it. Gay population saying oral over anal can be for various reasons one due to STD's 2 not everyone wants to be a bottom or numerous others. Oral is a neutral practice like kissing. Its part of the steps into the big two such as anal and vaginal.
Rcoreyus- Well theres natural as in I have two arms 2 legs and a penis and then theres primitive as in I need to make babies as soon as possibly as quickly as possible then move on to the next with no actual satisfaction fueling me too. As for limits..thats why we have a norm in society it dictates whats wrong or right how we should act whats looked down all that jazz. The norm is..I cant go steal things even tho back then hey if you can take it..take it survival of the fittest was the norm. Norm separates gay from straight most people are cool with this norm as it hasnt changed. Dont get me on sex toys lol. But I dont think its less likely because in the end its the piece of plastic giving the pleasure not the woman and that piece of plastic is a replica of a man's organ and if he wishes to get that connection then why not have the real thing attached in which is either a transsexual or a man. But Im pro premarital relations like you said dont want to get mismatched and find out 5 yrs down the road.

Hmm, even in my very limited experience I can say that men have more sensitive spots than just their genitals. And by sensitive spots I mean spots that really get them going, like nipples and anus. And I'm sorry but allowing societal norms to dictate what you think is ok and what is not seems a bit silly to me. Societal norms determine what is considered acceptable behavior within society but we're talking about what goes on in the private lives of two consenting adults. In this case, two ppl who love each other. I also don't understand why you assume 'it's the piece of plastic giving the pleasure not the woman.' Do you think when people have intercourse that it's only the penis giving the woman pleasure, not the man?

I'm not trying to attack you. Your view just seems rather limited.

[Mikaela_Hernandez]

I would have to agree with waya Master Bruh

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Hmm, even in my very limited experience I can say that men have more sensitive spots than just their genitals. And by sensitive spots I mean spots that really get them going, like nipples and anus. And I'm sorry but allowing societal norms to dictate what you think is ok and what is not seems a bit silly to me. Societal norms determine what is considered acceptable behavior within society but we're talking about what goes on in the private lives of two consenting adults. In this case, two ppl who love each other. I also don't understand why you assume 'it's the piece of plastic giving the pleasure not the woman.' Do you think when people have intercourse that it's only the penis giving the woman pleasure, not the man?

I'm not trying to attack you. Your view just seems rather limited.

I'm going to have to also agree with waya. I am not sure of your limited sexual experience with women, but sensitive spots can be anywhere and a man's g-spot is his anus, yet most men won't allow a woman to got there, yet if they do, play on that spot, they orgasm quicker.. Society can't dictate we do, if a person male or female allows there to be no inhibitions, just try it...

As for vibrators? Fingers can also locate the g-spot coupled with cliteral stimulation heat from a shower head whilst having a shower, that's not plastic but it's fantastic the key is a man, your man knowing how that works and replicating it, often I believe women go for plastic because a man aims at pleasing himself upmost, formost and lost most.

CW

[Master Bruh]

Quite alright Waya say whats on your mind I invite the open convo
Societal norms dictate what everyone does rather they notice it or want to say its their "personality".
We decide our friends based on the norm, we choose our lovers as well. Like WC was saying a man aims to please himself, now in another society what would be wrong with that? You wanting to achieve an orgasm who doesnt, us men are taught we have to be caring, sensitive and pay attention to our women so they'll have sex with us/love us. Even marriage were suppose to find someone and get married despite the fact women have shorter lifespans because of it. In the bedroom as well cause society got you together cause of your interest you picked up along the way. In some places rock climbing and long walks on the beach arent as highly valued. Back to the who gay thing tho in the bedroom your man could want a threesome with another guy and he decides to give the guy a b/j your not thinking O he's just getting the guy involved your thinking he's gay..cause by societies norm that is a homosexual act despite the fact you just did it to the guy and it was straight.
Men's spots I must say im not expert in the field lol, but for the most part they might contribute to said genitals but really doubt they would send a guy over unlike some girls who can orgasm from just nipple play. Dont get me wrong not impossible but not to common

Waya and CW- Now the thing is the penis is now attached to a person who is not only giving but receiving pleasure its a mutual exchange as well as feelings and a connection/process, with a piece of plastic you can do that yourself without them. Like the strap on their providing the motion yes but so what you could provide the motion as well and they dont have that connection or feeling just randomly thrusting to see if you like it or not the plastic is the main driving force to his pleasure not her. Ok now more on CW's that description doesnt sound like it was just of the top of your head lol but any who nope not plastic but like you said a guy can try to emulate it, which is the problem thats more acceptable to me even tho generating the force of a shower head and wetness that consumes the area is a little tough but more so with a vibe cause well my penis doesnt shake 100 times a second so that would be on the impossible side for us..be a neat party trick tho.

[WildChild]

This is getting off the subject of the thread but for myself, in the right mood, I can enjoy just flat out give it to me right here, right now, sex. That's all it is, pure physical release, masturbation can do that, I'm not much into toys but they could serve the purpose. But that just doesn't do it all the time or even most of the time. Who I'm with and how I feel about him, counts. It's huge. I can touch myself and feel nothing but the touch. When a man I am really attracted to touches the same place, the same way, it sends a thrill through me and if I am in love with him, really connected, it can take me right over the top. It's the connection that makes the difference, the energy between you. I don't care what you have physically or have purchased or found in the fridge, nothing can beat that connection and energy.