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I quite hate the idea of doing anything with another woman and find watching porn with that in it to be boring. Occasionally I watch porn with more than 2 people in it and always skip past the girl on girl scenes. I thought maybe gay porn might be more appealing but that turned out to be boring too. Mostly I hunt down light bdsm involving 1 female and 1 or more males. -
I think that what people fantasize about, what they want to watch in porn, and what they woudl actually enjoy doing are different things. As long as your real sex life with your partner is happy, I don't see anythign wrong with watching or fantasizing about all sorts of things, "whatever turns you on" is great. Also fine to not like a particular type of porn or fantasy.
I think the only time this sort of thing is a problem is when it interfers with you sex life with a real partner .Comment
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I think that what people fantasize about, what they want to watch in porn, and what they woudl actually enjoy doing are different things. As long as your real sex life with your partner is happy, I don't see anythign wrong with watching or fantasizing about all sorts of things, "whatever turns you on" is great. Also fine to not like a particular type of porn or fantasy.
I think the only time this sort of thing is a problem is when it interfers with you sex life with a real partner .Comment
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I'm a female and am straight, but I do enjoy lesbian porn. It's kinda confused me, but I have guy friends that say that it's probably because it's more sensual than the usual straight porn where a woman is getting rammed, throat f-ed, and then came on her face. And I think that's probably true. The bdsm is a little hot, but I'm not into the hardcore stuff.Comment
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I have always fantasised about women and get a lot more out of f/f porn than hetero porn but as I'm bi tht probably isn't suprising. I loooove sex with guys but for some reason thinking about/watching/having sex with women turns me on 100 times more than hetero sex. I like both the sensual and the more hardcore porn. I'm so glad you're not judging your g/f nor feeling threatened by her little fetish. Sounds like you have good communication - awesome.Comment
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My wife has always shown a distinct lack of interest in sex on TV, if a sexy scene came on she would probably turn it over ASAP (a bit like a parent may do). So I am quite surprised when recently she has recorded or rented films that are not porn but are very sexually orientated (Basic instinct, Eyes wide shut type of films). I noticed she had looked at some porn film to order off the internet and was very curious when I cheekily commented that a film I choose to rent the other day had a lack of "action" in she said she would choose the next film. My Wife has now told me she has ordered some lingerie, DVD and something to play with. This is very exciting BUT also very different to how she used to behave.Comment
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