[oxy-moron]

I don't wear thongs. I think the guy I'm seeing was a little disappointed to hear that, then he figured out that I don't anything half the time and he doesn't seem to mind that at all.

We got that impression from your first replies.
You have the same argument as my wife- isn't naked better. But those seconds in the bedroom before you pull them off can be fun.(I have to agree with Mark T) I guess its like opening a present.

[Guest]

There best taken off without hands, use your imagination please- That is the sexiest part of them.

Strange... I hear women talk of wearing them and all the while I thought they were ceiling fan decoration... Silly Me!!!

[ItsASecret]

Strange... I hear women talk of wearing them and all the while I thought they were ceiling fan decoration... Silly Me!!!

Every once and awhile I will put a pair of my fancy frilly pairs on my bf's rear view truck mirror as decoration lol. Then take it away when he comes home from work, otherwise he would leave it there all the time.

[Guest]

Every once and awhile I will put a pair of my fancy frilly pairs on my bf's rear view truck mirror as decoration lol. Then take it away when he comes home from work, otherwise he would leave it there all the time.

If my wife would only do that for me just once- She just isn't interested anymore in making me want her. At least I can dream I guess (roll eyes sarcastically)-

[Awoman2]

I hate thongs, too, but I might wear one once in a while to bed. I can't stand that riding all day long.

I would suggest a proper fit might help, and a proper cut. Maybe even the fabric would make a differene. I'd go out and by them myself so I can choose something comfortable. The other thing is there are panties with a thong-like crotch that don't rub you raw like traditional thongs.

I love boyshorts and cheeky panties. Try a cheeky panty. It really shows off your sexy tush. He might like those. But if you find wearing thongs really hurt you, I'd have to have a serious talk with him. Can you get him to wear one, too? Maybe he'd understand better how uncomfortable you feel.

[SwimminCkick]

If what your husband likes about thongs is the nice butt they give you under pants, just go commando- it looks the sanme plus it's way more comfortable.

[chaya]

My husband said he likes my panty lines because they let everyone know I AM wearing underwear.

[Little]

I feel like underwear showing through outer clothes is rather undesirable for an adult woman. There are options that cover more but still don't show through pants! I feel like VPL is inappropriate in the same situations that a bra strap showing would be - at work, in professional or formal situations. I don't mind if my bra strap shows at the grocery store, but at work it would be a no-no ... all part of the attention to appearances expected of us.
If my husband's friends were checking out my behind or wondering if I had undies on, I would be disturbed! I don't wonder that about other people - I assume that their underwear choices are their own, and unless they feel the need to overshare, I am very happy not to know what's underneath those pants/skirts.

[spsmith]

As a guy that is also a thong fan, I can understand your husband's desire...especially the turn on of knowing that you are going about your day with the thong on, but I agree with the other posters' advice to you. I would react badly if my wife came to me with a compromise idea...even if it just meant she would wear a thong that she picked out and liked the feel of rather than the ill-fitting one that I selected. Surprising him some day with commando would be a great way to "up the ante" with him.

As you may have seen, I have posted over the past few days on my wife's lack of interest in receiving oral sex even though I love performing it. Thinking about my own desire in this area, I would be very open if my wife approached me with some kind of sexy and pleasurable alternative even if it were not spot on with what I originally wanted. Who knows, your idea could be even better than his, and he'll soon forget all about that thong!

[spsmith]

CORRECTION....I would NOT react badly if my wife came to me with a compromise idea.