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As I am reading this thread (great, by the way!) my bf text's me, and indicates that he wonders if i was "faking" last night, just to make "him" happy. I have experienced the most intense orgasms of my life with this man, and I have NEVER, EVER faked one! Is this a conceit thing for guys? I just don't know how they can't tell! All the quivering and the intense internal contractions . . . so, for me, I can explain it only one way . . . it's like fireworks going off at the core of the central nervous system! BANG! with a complete loss of control . . . very exciting in deed!Comment
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I do think for many men there is a pride or ego factor in the woman orgasming. Mr No Foreplay of Anykind still wanted to know that I came.
Most have no idea how to really tell. Granted orgasm comes in many levels and sometimes its very pleasurable but not so intense but muscle contractions are the hallmark of orgasm and when you have a man first have a conversation that no woman has ever faked with Him and then down the line he makes a comment that. "You get these 'spasms', have you noticed that? They feel kind of cool". Yeah and no one has ever faked it with him!Comment
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It seems to start at the perenium, right behind the scrotum, and then starts to radiate out in all directions. It's like an intense pressure, but it feels good. Also, my knees tend to get weak and my thigh muscles start clenching. There is also a certain happy warmth that makes its way up the front of my body, up to maybe my stomach. It doesn't last very long, and then I feel very tired but in a happy way. I guess that's where some guys roll over and fall asleep... lolComment
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I've been trying to figure out how to describe what my good orgasms feel like but all I can really seem to describe is my reaction to the feelings. So, here goes. It starts when the body overrides the brain's chatter. I either can't think of anything other than my lover and what I feel or can't form real thoughts at all. Intensity is the only way I can describe it. My hips are reacting to what he's doing, my feet go a little crazy lol, and I have to be careful not to hurt him with my hands or teeth. (See? Told ya, intensity.) When I'm just about to go over the edge it's like my body is pleading and reaching for something, to draw him in and be as close to him as possible. Then it seems like every part of my body is overwhelmed and I either draw in completely or push the energy all the way out (physically folding around him and myself or arching neck and back, barely able to breathe either way.) I can't make noise or move during this interminable amount of time. Every cell feels alive and electric. Then I'm like a puppet with her strings cut, no will to move at all for a while. After my brain comes back online I struggle to make my body obey me enough to touch him and try to show him some of what I'm feeling by caressing his face and/or holding him close. Hmm, now that I've written this I can sort of describe the feeling. It's like a wildfire rushing through my body and leaving just as abruptly.Comment
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Mine feel like a chill in the body. Not because of the feeling of being cold, but that tingle that radiates in the body when you get a sudden chill that is what it feels like to finish.There are those who believe that dictionaries should not merely reflect the times but also protect English from the mindless assaults of the trendy.Comment
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