Take that as a hint ladies... NO FAKING! Just open your mouth and speak up! If you want to fake orgasms, then don't complain about not being satisfied.
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I'm not a faker. Even though I can't (yet) orgasm from penetration alone, I don't fake it. That doesn't do anybody any favors. Maybe it would be a hit to his ego if he can't make me cum from intercourse (I can definitely see that happening with a future SO), but he'll have to get over it and work with me. Faking and/or not communicating won't get us anywhere.
Take that as a hint ladies... NO FAKING! Just open your mouth and speak up! If you want to fake orgasms, then don't complain about not being satisfied. -
I suppose it would depend on your definition of an orgasm. People say they are having an orgasm simply by having a tingle somewhere in their body, so to them simple arousal is an orgasm. Some will say an orgasm must include the contractions. I have never ever come close to an orgasm just by thinking about it or being aroused, I need that physical stimulation. As well, to me, an orgasm must include the involuntary contractions otherwise it is only you feeling good, and simply feeling good is not a true orgasm. Getting to the point of an orgasm without physical stimulation is out in left field to me lol, I see no possible way it could be done I only see the intense mental arousal.Have any of you ever managed to orgasm without direct physical stimulation and/or while doing something not related to sex?There are those who believe that dictionaries should not merely reflect the times but also protect English from the mindless assaults of the trendy.Comment
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Bingo. Don't fake it and also, don't always blame your lack of orgasms on the man. I believe you should learn to give yourself one first before you should expect a man to do it for you. After all, YOU should know your body best and YOU are the only one that can get feedback on what is working. How can a woman possibly expect a man to do what they themselves cannot do themselves.I'm not a faker. Even though I can't (yet) orgasm from penetration alone, I don't fake it. That doesn't do anybody any favors. Maybe it would be a hit to his ego if he can't make me cum from intercourse (I can definitely see that happening with a future SO), but he'll have to get over it and work with me. Faking and/or not communicating won't get us anywhere.
Take that as a hint ladies... NO FAKING! Just open your mouth and speak up! If you want to fake orgasms, then don't complain about not being satisfied.
Now, that does not mean I am defending lazy men. However, if your with a lazy man (in bed), who's fault is that?Comment
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I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, VirginiaComment
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A warm, ripe, just off the tree (understand that my state grows the best peaches in the world), the warm peach scent surrounds you, the fruit is firm and slightly yielding, it is covered with a light fuzz that you wash off, gently rubbing it, running your hands over the smooth; slightly textured surface. Brush it against your cheek as you bring it close to your lips and let them trail across it the skin. Teeth lightly touch the surface and then barely break the skin and your tongue finds the first drops of fluid. the peach scent and the taste wash over you. Bite into it, juice runs down your chin and your fingers, you can't let a delicious drop escape. The flavor explodes into your mouth and fills your senses, your tongue runs over your fingers and down your arm to catch it all, that slight salt of your skin blends with the peach. The texture is perfect in your mouth, it melts down your throat and delights the stomach.
It is a total body experience. A taste and scent orgasm.Comment
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