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  • Little
    • Feb 2007
    • 4329

    Originally posted by rcoreyus
    2/3 of the time. I still enjoy it if I don't, but its much better if I do.
    About the same in this house. Especially through pregnancy and trying to have a sex life and a bed-sharing infant.
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    • Texasred
      Veteran Member
      • Oct 2009
      • 1216

      Depends on the frequency I'm having sex: when it was just once every 3 -5 months, 100% orgasm rate. Now that it's 5 - 7 times a week, well, it's more like 20 - 25% of the time - about twice a week regardless of the frequency of sex.
      The sex is still enormously pleasurable and fun, which I have to remind my gf quite often; she sometimes seems to feel she's a failure if I don't have an orgasm. I assure her that's not so!

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      • Beckers
        Senior Member
        • Jan 2009
        • 132

        I can only speak for my bf and he's 100% orgasm every time. But keep in mind we don't go more than one round at a time (because of other complications) so maybe that's why.





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        • Chas
          Member
          • May 2011
          • 16

          I prefer to reach orgasm each time my wife and I have intercourse. Occasionally I can't because not enough time has passed since my last orgasm. In that case, the problem generally is that I can't get enough stimulation through intercourse. I typically address this by masturbating for a while. Even in that situation, however, I will enter her for my climax. Having sex without an orgasm for me just leaves me frustrated.

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          • jns
            Assistant Admin
            • Mar 2010
            • 8398

            Originally posted by cocoa
            Question: On average, how often do guys have an orgasm through sexual intercourse?

            Do most guys feel dissatisfied with sex if they don't have an orgasm? Or are other ways to stimulate them just as satisfying?
            Originally posted by rcoreyus
            2/3 of the time. I still enjoy it if I don't, but its much better if I do.
            With erectile dysfunction, not the majority of time. It is not needed as long as your SO is enjoying the sex. In a way, as long as no one is absolutely needing ejaculation, it can be fun to see how much pleasure you can give your SO.
            I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
            ...
            Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

            From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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            • Guest

              I always ejaculate, unless I I'm not in the mood. But to ejaculate often is very important for me as I get stressed and tense and need the release. Once I've released the load then I can relax for a few days. I usually ejaculate twice a week. This is because I try not to masturbate in between those times that I see my g/f.

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              • NancyS
                Junior Member
                • Jul 2011
                • 6

                As with most others here, I have to say that hubby is 100%. I can't remember a time that he couldn't reach orgasm. However, if it's the second or third time in fairly quick succession, he may last so long that I get sore and ask him to stop. (Sorry honey.)

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                • spsmith
                  Member
                  • Jul 2011
                  • 26

                  I orgasm and ejaculate virtually every time that I have sex, and it is not satisfying (and can even be uncomfortable) if I do not. Sometimes, my wife asks me to stop before I orgasm because the sex is getting uncomfortable for her, but that is very rare. If that happens, we usually have to find another way to finish me.

                  Unlike some of the other guy posters, I can get hard again pretty shortly after having an orgasm and can perform and reach orgasm again within 20-30 minutes.

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                  • darcdante
                    Member
                    • May 2010
                    • 61

                    I sometimes don't orgasm is I'm too tired or too drunk. In the former case, it means I was having sex with my wife cause she was in the mood and I feel bad if I turn her down (but she likes to have sex right at bedtime, which is laaaate for us cause she works late). In the case of being drunk, it's still always fun, just my body gets worn out cause I'm not hydrated lol. In general though, men need to orgasm to enjoy sex. Even if I can't orgasm from sex because I'm too drunk or tired, we'll stop and use manual/oral action to finish getting me off. My wife's awesomely understanding like that.

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                    • Texasred
                      Veteran Member
                      • Oct 2009
                      • 1216

                      Well, I guess I'm the outlier here: I definitely do not need to orgasm to find lovemaking with my gf immensely pleasurable. We can (and have, frequently) made love for hours at a time, and it just feels indescribably good. I love pleasing her, and I love how close to her and connected it makes me feel.
                      She will have literally dozens of orgasms during that time - I've counted as many as 30 or more - and being a part of that experience is wonderful, even if I don't orgasm.

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