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do women find double penetration a turn on?
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I've tried anal sex, and I'm trying to get comfortable with the feeling because im very turned on by the idea of it and my bf seems to enjoy it quite a bit. Once I am, I wouldn't completely put the idea of double pen out of my mind. My bf and i have discussed it on numerous occassions. I wouldn't find it demeaning if if was sensual and not hard and fast. And it definately turns me on to think about or see in videos. He and I try new things and its not always for pleasure. We experiment with each others bodies to see what feels good and what doesn't. the first time he tried anal penetration, it wasn't really very sexual. I layed down and he helped me to completely relax so that he could penetrate with ease and so there would be less pain on my end. Its all about being comfortable with your partner.
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well, my wife and I have done it....and when we do this, is when she enjoys herself the most as anal penetration itself doesn't turn her on....I need to lick both wholes, then put a vibrator dildo in her vagina and then when I have her really going, i start my penetration for the back door...gently, with time and focusing in making sure the dildo is moving nice.....we get really into something....not able yet for her to reach orgasm this way (i think I don't last long enough - too exiting for me)....well, dp with a dildo is okay if both parties consent
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When it's featured in porn it can be a turn on as long as they're not just shoving lol but like others I first thought the op was asking about personal exp in which case the more common would be male female dildo lol
Personally it's awesome.If I knew where I was going I would already be there
I wish I had more time. Judicious, beautiful, augmented, whatever.
I've always been afraid to die, but I think I'm more afraid to live. (BC, SP)
"I would go out tonight, but i havent got a stitch to wear!" Morissey
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I think its a more common female fantasy than people realize. I have had a few friends over the years that I have doubled up on women with. Never anal and vaginal at the same time, more one vaginal and one oral.
The game we ran to introduce this idea to women was simple. We would move our conversation near a woman who appeared single, attractive, and fun. At some point, one of us would turn to her and ask her if she had ever been skiing. Many would light up and tell stories of their last adventure, or crash, or how she hadnt gone in a long time but wished she could. While they are talking, the guy that originally asked her if she had been skiing, bursts into laughter. As the woman gives the other guy a WTF look, the other guy explains the first one was being dirty, really asking her if she had ever been bent over with a pole in each hand. Sort of good-cop bad-cop but light-hearted and joking. From there, we gauge her reaction upon understanding the euphemism. If she laughs it off and moves on, she isnt game. If she doesnt back away from the subject, or even admits to it being a fantasy, it was on. There is a LOT more to doing that than I have explained, but Im just giving the short version.
It was more likely for a single or divorced woman in her 30's or early 40's to go for it, and once we knew what to look for, our success rate was better than 1 in 4. It was always a ton of fun, sometimes awkward, but always fun.
Ive done the toy thing with many a woman also, I think its hot for a woman to work herself over with a toy while giving me head, or fellating the toy while I am inside her. Its just good fun for all.
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Originally posted by SoCoKen View PostI think its a more common female fantasy than people realize. I have had a few friends over the years that I have doubled up on women with. Never anal and vaginal at the same time, more one vaginal and one oral.
The game we ran to introduce this idea to women was simple. We would move our conversation near a woman who appeared single, attractive, and fun. At some point, one of us would turn to her and ask her if she had ever been skiing. Many would light up and tell stories of their last adventure, or crash, or how she hadnt gone in a long time but wished she could. While they are talking, the guy that originally asked her if she had been skiing, bursts into laughter. As the woman gives the other guy a WTF look, the other guy explains the first one was being dirty, really asking her if she had ever been bent over with a pole in each hand. Sort of good-cop bad-cop but light-hearted and joking. From there, we gauge her reaction upon understanding the euphemism. If she laughs it off and moves on, she isnt game. If she doesnt back away from the subject, or even admits to it being a fantasy, it was on. There is a LOT more to doing that than I have explained, but Im just giving the short version.
It was more likely for a single or divorced woman in her 30's or early 40's to go for it, and once we knew what to look for, our success rate was better than 1 in 4. It was always a ton of fun, sometimes awkward, but always fun.
Ive done the toy thing with many a woman also, I think its hot for a woman to work herself over with a toy while giving me head, or fellating the toy while I am inside her. Its just good fun for all.If I knew where I was going I would already be there
I wish I had more time. Judicious, beautiful, augmented, whatever.
I've always been afraid to die, but I think I'm more afraid to live. (BC, SP)
"I would go out tonight, but i havent got a stitch to wear!" Morissey
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me and my husband watch porn together only because I caught him watching it behind my back. I told him that if he just told me about it, I wouldn't mind him watching it, but I would feel more comfortable with watching it with him. I told him it upset me becuase I thought I wasn't doing it right. I asked him what his fantasies were and he said he liked to watch porn, I asked him what about the porn that he likes and he just thinks porn is sexy. I felt really bad about myself for a long time because I thought I wasn't satisfying him anymore. Then I got a little kinky and brought some new ideas to bed. I said we can watch porn together. I found double penetration a little sexy. I am not sure. I have been with one man the whole 10 years I have been having sex. I think its the fact that you're afraid of trying something new and seeing that makes you excited. That's just me. Me and my husband try to do different things. It makes us better lovers. We have been together since I was 15 and he was 17 and we dated a year before we lost our virginity together. Its been 10 years and we still find new things to do, that just makes us stronger as lovers. :0)~New Mommy 5/3/2011~
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