No meds, no pill, I’ve had the snip.
She hasn’t always been like this, although we were very green when we were going out, but that was a long time ago. She was my first and I was hers, not sure if that has anything to do with it. Weve been married for 11 years out out longer still.
I just don’t know what is going through her head, I do think of it quite regularly maybe she is ****ed at that. She went to a romance party a month or 2 ago and brought a “C” ring which we have used twice and a blind fold.
The first time after the romance party I used the C ring and the blindfold and she was right into it, she had her favourite porn vid on and had a great time. ( she is no stranger to porn, when she is in the mood ).
The kids were having a sleep over last night, we went to bed early I didn’t initiate, would of liked to but I could tell she wasn’t into it. Cuddled most of the night horny as , but held off. After the 3rd snooze alarm went off and more cuddles, I said “Any chance of making love to you” I got a definite Nooooo. Mr Frustrated again.
Before this morning I can’t remember the last time I actually straight out asked for it.
So it’s not like I’m asking all the time.
The word on the street is that you have to prime the pump, I thought the cuddles were doing that, what else I can do to prime the pump?
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