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  • knuckles
    Junior Member
    • Nov 2010
    • 4

    She is 36 I’m 36 next week, I hope she will make an effort for that.

    No meds, no pill, I’ve had the snip.

    She hasn’t always been like this, although we were very green when we were going out, but that was a long time ago. She was my first and I was hers, not sure if that has anything to do with it. Weve been married for 11 years out out longer still.

    I just don’t know what is going through her head, I do think of it quite regularly maybe she is ****ed at that. She went to a romance party a month or 2 ago and brought a “C” ring which we have used twice and a blind fold.

    The first time after the romance party I used the C ring and the blindfold and she was right into it, she had her favourite porn vid on and had a great time. ( she is no stranger to porn, when she is in the mood ).

    The kids were having a sleep over last night, we went to bed early I didn’t initiate, would of liked to but I could tell she wasn’t into it. Cuddled most of the night horny as , but held off. After the 3rd snooze alarm went off and more cuddles, I said “Any chance of making love to you” I got a definite Nooooo. Mr Frustrated again.

    Before this morning I can’t remember the last time I actually straight out asked for it.
    So it’s not like I’m asking all the time.

    The word on the street is that you have to prime the pump, I thought the cuddles were doing that, what else I can do to prime the pump?

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    • rcoreyus
      Veteran Member
      • Sep 2007
      • 4369

      Sometimes the pump is broken.

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      • knuckles
        Junior Member
        • Nov 2010
        • 4

        Well! that is no help what so ever.
        It's not like I'm going to leave her. Just trying to make the best of a bad situation.
        Well I'm off home now, I'll cope it now for even asking.
        Happy days

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        • Texasred
          Veteran Member
          • Oct 2009
          • 1216

          Originally posted by knuckles
          Well! that is no help what so ever.
          It's not like I'm going to leave her. Just trying to make the best of a bad situation.
          Well I'm off home now, I'll cope it now for even asking.
          Happy days
          I thnk maybe what rcoreyus was saying is that this "bad situation" of yours just might not get any better, certainly not unless *she* thinks there's a problem, and it's clear she does not.
          If you can't convince her this is an important issue to you, your options are pretty limited.
          Stay or go. Or stay and find an "FWB."

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