[rosekitten]

That sounds fair, the only other thing I would add is that it should be ok if the next time your husband or boyfriend goes down on you that he be allowed to put his fingers or in your vagina and get it all wet and sloppy and then present to you to clean off and taste. Fair is fair. If you are unwilling to do this then no oral sex for you.

I suppose if she's forcing you to give her oral when you've said you can't stand it, you'd have a point. If a guy is giving a woman oral because he wants to, and she doesn't want to swallow for him because it disgusts her, I think it's childish. As with all things, good communication and mature behavior is key.

[chaya]

Swallowing wouldn't be an option for me because I would be puking my guts out.

It's a good thing my husband never wants me to give him a BJ.

[Guest]

Swallowing wouldn't be an option for me because I would be puking my guts out.

It's a good thing my husband never wants me to give him a BJ.

WOw...no bj for the husband?....you guys are not fully enjoying what sex can bring you....sad!

[rosekitten]

WOw...no bj for the husband?....you guys are not fully enjoying what sex can bring you....sad!

I somehow feel that vomiting isn't really a "turn on" for them... There's no joy to be had in doing something that has such a horrible end result.

[chaya]

I somehow feel that vomiting isn't really a "turn on" for them... There's no joy to be had in doing something that has such a horrible end result.

The one time I started to give hubby a BJ, he pushed my head away and said I should never do that. He is not a puritan but close to it. He wouldn't have sex with me before we were engaged and then he said that we should have waited until we were married.

[jns]

I wonder if a poll about whether guys like having a woman's juices in their mouth would have similar results? With only about 30% of the women distinctly disliking ejaculation in their mouth, I can see where a guy may think he had bad luck upon finding out his gf doesn't like it. I also wonder what percent of guys feel that getting oral sex is a very important part of sex. Myself, I could take it or leave it but I do like the juices from a woman.

[ItsASecret]

I wonder if a poll about whether guys like having a woman's juices in their mouth would have similar results? With only about 30% of the women distinctly disliking ejaculation in their mouth, I can see where a guy may think he had bad luck upon finding out his gf doesn't like it. I also wonder what percent of guys feel that getting oral sex is a very important part of sex. Myself, I could take it or leave it but I do like the juices from a woman.

I would love to see a real poll of the whole women liking/disliking ejaculation in the mouth during oral sex. That would need to be a big poll with valid numbers...that would require a sample in the thousands but I would still be curious of the result. I think it is much closer to a 50/50 split between those who like and do not like. Then of course fit into there would be the normal responses of could chug a gallon and would not be within 10 feet of it. As for guys though, if I could venture a guess it would be they tolerate the juices simply because they like giving oral (and therefore would not want to stop giving) and they would have a hard time completely avoiding the juices. There may not be a great amount of men who absolutely love the juices but I am certain, as anyone would probably agree, that there are plenty of men out there that do love it to the point where it would show in a poll. Same for those who clearly dislike oral and everything about it.

However I think the number of men who think it is important to get oral sex would be in the high majority numbers, like 70/30-80/20 high. There will always be those who genuinely do not like it and those like you said who could pass on it but in a general sense I think an astounding majority would say it is an important part of their sex life.

[kristalyn_04]

However I think the number of men who think it is important to get oral sex would be in the high majority numbers, like 70/30-80/20 high. There will always be those who genuinely do not like it and those like you said who could pass on it but in a general sense I think an astounding majority would say it is an important part of their sex life.

...and I also have to wonder how many of those men would say giving oral is an important part of their sex life.

[ItsASecret]

...and I also have to wonder how many of those men would say giving oral is an important part of their sex life

Yeah no doubt. I would say much lower as there are numerous men out there that simply do not like to. Men may tolerate it, and do it because their SO likes receiving oral, and may actually like giving it but for truly finding it an important part of the relationship I would say numbers wise 50/50 and 60/40 would be pushing it.

[rcoreyus]

For me, giving oral to a woman is wonderful because of her response. I would have absolutely no interest in doing it if she didn't enjoy it. I suspect that the same if true for women giving oral to a man.