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  • ItsASecret
    APRIL 2011 POSTER OF THE MONTH
    • Apr 2009
    • 3721

    [QUOTE]If a man knows what the he's doing, unless some medical/physical preclusion is present, a woman will have intense orgasms from oral sex; unless, of course, I have somehow managed to only have women surrender themselves to me who have all had the commonality of loving oral sex. Since this defies probability, then it is reasonable to conclude that if a man knows what the he's doing he can expose a woman to the mystical sensation of wafting upon puffy clouds of ecstasy./QUOTE]

    This does not defy probability, it is prime example of it. You have stumbled upon women who like oral sex, nothing special about that it happens a lot because a lot of women like oral sex. It is really not a difficult thing to find if you want to play with numbers. You could easily assume that 50% love oral and 50% hate it for equality sake (you can also increase it to 60/40, 70/30 and the same result is still possible) and from that it is very probably that any random girl you have sex with will fall into the category of loving oral sex because a lot of girls do. From that the man may think " hot I am a total oral stud I obviously know everything there is to know because these women finish every time oh yeah wicked". That next girl could care less about oral because sex does it for her instead, even if macho stud boy has made all his previous flings have an orgasm during oral. Many guys know what they are doing, many do not. Many women care about getting oral, some could care less about pretending to be a fairy on a cloud during oral. There are many women who get off from oral, and many who do not. All women vary, all responses vary, all men vary, all feelings vary. There is nothing cookie cutter about it. It is not kiss her body a lot, rub her body a lot, then go down on her and bam you will get an orgasm to happen. The most talented ego driven man can be a doctor know where all the bits are and still not make her orgasm. He is not a failure because of that because it is entirely possible that a woman does not get off from oral. It does not make a man a man by being able to make her finish from oral, many girls the orgasm is not the important part of sex.
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    • sallywi2003
      Senior Member
      • Jul 2010
      • 103

      I would have to say my favorite way to orgasm is through intercourse. I love the feeling I get with intercourse. The second way is oral stimulation it is wonderful for him to have his hands free and play other places while doing this.

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      • CHANDLERS WISH
        • Mar 2008
        • 22440

        So, Little, I do think that if a man knows what the he's doing, women do prefer to orgasm from oral sex. Or maybe my sample population has been skewed towards oral sex.
        Even in "intercourse" a man has to know what he's doing, but a woman has to be wanting it as well, that can come from just kissing you know... But, even in intercourse there are emotions, thoughts attached, it can be raunchy, horney, or it can be sensual, slow, deep, or it can be sexual pure desire, intimate I think alot of that comes to play as well as to "a man knowing what he is doing" as much as " a girl lets herself go".

        Maybe? Just maybe, the woman you have encountered are open somewhat? Want equality have no inhibitions, they like oral. Or maybe they like oral as it for them, makes them swell up and thy penis isn't large enough or, it's not good enough but being swollen makes it feel good:P

        Or maybe, they like to lay back and not do much, get pleasure and then thy penis and feel like they just had a massage with an orgamic result?

        The thing is, we are all different.

        I have experiemented myself, a few years ago in having an orgasm without a man, without touching myself, it is real.

        I have to say also that whilst oral is "nice" I prefer thy penis as well, that be 3 at least now

        I do find that if I am on top, I am in control in how I wish to play with thy penis And I enjoy that, and orgasm from that, but also I like all positions, I just like thy penis as my method of orgasms.

        I wonder? Given alot of men are 2 seconds and done, well okay 5 minutes, if this is why alot of the women you speak and have spoken to prefer oral after all, it can take time for "some" women to orgasm



        Just something for you to consider...
        PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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        • Little
          • Feb 2007
          • 4329

          Rebuttal to CW: I don't take long So a man who takes 5 minutes and done is "Whew! Thank goodness, I was about to get sore!"
          Whereas, a man who takes 30 minutes is more like, "I'm not going to be able to last this out ... owwww ..."
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          • CHANDLERS WISH
            • Mar 2008
            • 22440

            HAHA

            I have um the opposite Shhhh

            *edit* - I don't take long either but meaning he friggen goes on for 30 minutes or more, or else I stop and help him because I can't take it any more..

            Oh man too much information.......

            Maybe that's why me personally? I don't need oral? lols
            PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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            • rcoreyus
              Veteran Member
              • Sep 2007
              • 4369

              I think both men and women vary a LOT in what they prefer, and these preferences can change a LOT over time or even session to session. Various sex guides are good for indicating a list of things to try, but they can't tell you what a particular person will like.

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              • jns
                Assistant Admin
                • Mar 2010
                • 8398

                I think what people prefer has a lot to do with what has been good for them in the past and how their body responds to stimulation.
                I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
                ...
                Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

                From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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                • Elanor-Jane
                  Veteran Member
                  • Aug 2011
                  • 211

                  Originally posted by Taos
                  Elanor-Jane,

                  Every woman has a clit. The clitoris is the most sensitive organ on the human body. There are more nerve endings on the clitoris than on any other organ of the human body, both sexes included. Moreover, it is the only organ on the human body that has sexual pleasure as its only function. The clit's only function is to provide sexual pleasure to women. So in that regard women share an extremely pronounced commonality.

                  If a man knows what the he's doing, unless some medical/physical preclusion is present, a woman will have intense orgasms from oral sex; unless, of course, I have somehow managed to only have women surrender themselves to me who have all had the commonality of loving oral sex. Since this defies probability, then it is reasonable to conclude that if a man knows what the he's doing he can expose a woman to the mystical sensation of wafting upon puffy clouds of ecstasy.

                  Elanor, I hope to God that you experience this in your life. From what many women have told me, orgasms from a sexual experience that includes oral sex is the best it gets. I have had many women tell me that there is nothing that comes close to oral sex orgasms, not even a great vibrator! But maybe your mileage will vary.


                  Take care,

                  Taos
                  thanks for your concern Taos, I prefer cuming when my bf is on top, I'm being kissed and he is stimulating my clitoris at the same time, prefer it over oral as we are able to come at the same time. Face to face.Oral sex gives me orgasms of the exact same standard but I prefer it being mutual, it's more of a turn on.
                  If I knew where I was going I would already be there
                  I wish I had more time. Judicious, beautiful, augmented, whatever.
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                  • Elanor-Jane
                    Veteran Member
                    • Aug 2011
                    • 211

                    In my general opinion, yes some men are average at oral sex but it's a really easy thing to instruct for betterment etc what is harder for men is making penetration just as good! It involves the clitoris being worked on while they're working on moving themselves for a females pleasure also. Pretty tricky stuff if u ask me, alot harder than knowing how to patiently give oral sex. Just my opinion

                    Taos- I'm confused as to why you want to know what we prefer but then tell us what is best for women like it's science? Judge me all you wish but I worked in the sex industry for 4 years and can happily say I know my own body quite well at 26. And have heard alot of honest talk from women and what they want
                    If I knew where I was going I would already be there
                    I wish I had more time. Judicious, beautiful, augmented, whatever.
                    I've always been afraid to die, but I think I'm more afraid to live. (BC, SP)

                    "I would go out tonight, but i havent got a stitch to wear!" Morissey

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                    • CHANDLERS WISH
                      • Mar 2008
                      • 22440

                      No judging will occur here we don't judge on this Forum and good for you to be open...
                      PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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