[Maryellen83]

my boyfriend's penis

My boyfriend is carrying about 5 or 6 inches. but he's got a decent amount of girth. He thinks of himself as being small and as far as he is concerned. He is. I'm quite happy with his size. Because what he can do is AMAZING! he knows right where to go. He always hits the right spot. I'm usually happy when we're finished.

Well! Size doesn't matter! If you have it! Be so happy! But if not! hope they know how to use it!

My ex husband had 10+ inches but didn't know where or what to do with it. The only time it hurt was when he got way too involved. Never really had an orgasm with him, but... didn't complain much either! Maybe that's why he's my EX!

[alicat]

my ex was like the old Roger Miller song..."short and not too big around"...lol. sex with him (in the beginning) was ok...but he was a very selfish man when it came to sex.

my new husband is about 8" and I'll admit I was a little nervous about the girth the first time but let's just say he definitely knows how to use it. i think the key to not being sore is lubrication and since I am post-menopausal I can say that if the lubrication doesn't come naturally then by all means use some lotion or oil or something!

[kcspres]

It is the same issue...women who have SO with larger penises speak up, ones with smaller SO keep quiet. Same as walk-in measuring surveys...the guys with smaller penises don't show up...same with amatuer sex sites...do you think guys with smaller penises are going to be fed exing off their homemade porn for everyone to see? Only the endowed guys do it. LOL This is why all size surveys, commentary, etc. are all skewwed IMO.

[Rosslyn]

My boyfriend is 10.5. It was pretty difficult to get used to, but when I was sore we had sex anyway so I could get used to it. After a while, I stopped getting sore.

[redhead22]

i think each girl is different in preference. i am a short, small person and my bf is 6 inches and he is almost to big for me. for me being so small, i like smaller size as long as the guy knows what to do with it.

[kcspres]

Is that centimeters? LOL

Here is another thought...unless you have a cave for a vagina there has to be at least 3-4" of penis left out in the cold. The only way a woman can get true clitoral stimulation is for close pubic contact (grinding, etc.) along with deep penetration. Guys who are around average size often forget this. I am right at 7" and I can barely get all the way in with my wife before putting too much pressure on her cervix. Every guy wants bigger but it is not always better from what I read. It is more of an ego thing...

My boyfriend is 10.5. It was pretty difficult to get used to, but when I was sore we had sex anyway so I could get used to it. After a while, I stopped getting sore.

[WildChild]

Actually from what I've read, the penis bends inside a woman's vagina. It's not a straight in thing. I had a very well endowded bf at one time, no problem, have had one who was tine too, no problem. An aroused is a flexible being. Aroused it the operative word here.

[kcspres]

An erect penis... bending...ouch!! I hear what you are saying though. When I am hitting her cervix to the point where she says it is uncomfortable, by simply changing the angle I can avoid it for the most part and go back to being rough is she is into it.

Actually from what I've read, the penis bends inside a woman's vagina. It's not a straight in thing. I had a very well endowded bf at one time, no problem, have had one who was tine too, no problem. An aroused is a flexible being. Aroused it the operative word here.

[kcspres]

The fact that he is 10.5" would not neccisarily make you sore...the girth on the other hand would. When women say sore I am thinking more of the opening, not internally. Maybe I am wrong here.

My length is 7" and my girth is 5.75 to 6" depending on the erection size. Is there an ideal girth for women? I guess it depends on their size as well. I have been with girls where I could not get it in, and others where I could have put two of them in there. Not kidding. LOL The studies say 4.75 to 5.25 is the norm.

My boyfriend is 10.5. It was pretty difficult to get used to, but when I was sore we had sex anyway so I could get used to it. After a while, I stopped getting sore.

[upsetJ]

size can suck

I can understand that this is just girl talk, but size can be a big problem sometimes. I am on the other end of this issue. My penis is to large. I have been told by both my doctor and a specialist that it may be a problem for most women. I am in my 30's and I have never had what i thought of as good sex because it is painful for both me an ever single girl I have ever been with. I have had to surgery because I once tore the ligiment at the base of penis during sex and it is extremely painful. When I was younger (10 to 16, 17) years old I was always extremely embaressed because it seemed like you could see it when I was in shorts and in gym class at school. Dont really care if anyone believes me or not, but I am just under 10.25 inches hard with a girth of almost 7 and sex is extremely hard. My wife makes me go so slow during sex that it make me take forever and forever makes her hurt worse. When I goto the beach and get in the water and come out I feel like everyone is looking at me. This is all very embaressing. When I was younger I made the stupid decission to do porn. And I am pay for that now in the fact the my kids will one day most likely find out and it really upsets my wife. If I had to pick my size I would say I would want to be about 6 to 7 inches with a girth of about 3 or 4 maybe. I dont know. I just know it isnt what people think. Good luck ladies! By the way ladies...the doctors told me that they dont know why it is the way it is...but that one possible reason may be that I was exsposed to higher the normal levels of testostrone in the whomb or something like that.