[Rasberrt]

I met a stripper who was 12 inches. Sure, I never broke out the ruler but a big d*ck is a big d*ck. When it's hanging nearly to your kneecap you don't need to measure it to know it's big.

Anyway, he had a thing for me. Here I was this tall, voluptuous black woman with a big butt and big hips and here was this white man (yes, he was white) with a foot long schlong. Match made in heaven, right? Wrong! I got with him one night I was like 'oh hell naw!' There was NOTHING right about that. Now to his credit, I did kind of rush it b'/c I was drunk and deluded myself into thinking I could handle it but I quickly discovered I was sadly mistaken. I wasn't aroused enough and apparently wasn't drunk enough because I had to get him off me. The only good thing that came out of that is that I was 'stretched' a little after that and could take guys with larger sized members a little more easily but that's about the only good thing that came out of that.

Carmen - Never mind.

[Bonita]

This is hilarious. I never read this thread because I didn't think it would be interesting but since I was having another sleepless night I decided to read it. I laughed so much I was crying.
Anonymous,metboogie,litle,dr. mansview, and manxie all your posts were priceless.

I totally agree, this is truly funny. My opinion is, "Its not how big your boat is, its how enjoyable the ride was" A guy can be small and still be great at sex, yet there can be guys with a huge one and doesnt know how to work it. You win some you loose some.

[metboogie]

Exactly!

It's all a matter of learning what to use what God gave you.

[Rose5]

Very true, Bonita and Metboogie.
Still Nobody, speaking from the perspective of an average woman with an average husband, it works for us. Personally, I like the fact that we can get wild without the worry of being injured.

[metboogie]

It's funny because the other day my wife made a joke about huge penises...some guy on TV was talking about having a huge penis and it sparked a conversation with some friends...nobody compared sizes, but all the women (4 to be exact) agreed that there is such a thing as too small and too big...my wife looks at me and says - if you were 10" we wouldn't be married...I said your right, I'd be in porn!

[mcraqur]

Penis

For me, I think it has a lot to do with my previous experiences. My first love was pretty small but I didn't have enough experience at the time to know it. He was totally uninhibited and he had a way of always making me feel beautiful. As a result of that experience, I became uninhibited too and to this day, I'm very comfortable with my body and open to try new things. My next love was much bigger and we had a very deep and intense emotion connection that resulted in the best sex of my life to this day. So, a bigger penis and strong emotional connection are still very important to me to this day. Over the years I've encountered some pretty small ones but it always comes down to how emotionally connected we are. I might initially be a bit disappointed, but would never dump a guy over it. I've also encountered quite a few quite a few guys with ED - men get nervous too and it probably doesn't help that I'm uninhibited. I slept with a guy for 3 months before he got relaxed enough with me enough to get consistantly good and hard (Viagra helped build his confidence) and it was well worth it. We were together 2 years and although it wasn't as adventuresome as I would have liked ideally, it was consistant with my emotional attachment to him at the time. I think if you're there emotionally (men and woman) you really do adapt. Yeah, we say size matters but that's just us either not admitting or not realizing that the best sex is all about your emotional connection with your partner. That's the whole "package". I use to think that it was a woman-thing that we make love with our emotions, but men have told me they feel the same way. Comments men?

[rebellee47]

I unfortnately have only a 3.5 incher if I lost 50-70 lbs it would probably be closer to 4.5 inches. My wife and I have used toys for years until a few months ago they were 8-10 inch dildos. She really seemed to enjoy them but said they did hurt sometimes afterwards. According to her I have always been able to please her but I can tell since we stopped using them her orgasms are shorter and our whole sexual experince seems shorter an less fulfilling. She doesnt want them anymore and I think I need them to make it last and the fact that I really enjoy using them on her and watching the mind blowing orgasms she gets from them. How do I get her to use them again? I did suggest in a round about way a 3 some with a well endowed man but she blew that off and I couldnt tell if she was for real or not. I wouldnt want that often but was wondering if experiencing that size for real 1 time would make our sex life better? and bring back the dildos. Any advice would be welcome

[Heatwave]

I don’t know what my boyfriends size is, I haven’t measured him.
H.o.n.e.s.t.l.y I don’t like bigger than average, biggies just intimidate me! The main reason is because I can put the whole thing in my mouth and that’s an incredible turn on.

The weird thing is I guess I must carry myself with a lot of confidence, because I've had women (co-worker and friends) actually come right up to me and ask if I'm huge, or they'll ask "how big are you?"
What do I do?

I would be really embarrassed to ask a guy how big he is or say something offensive about his penis, because it’s just RUDE! Especially a co-worker, I don’t even ask friends I’ve known for years about it! If I said something rude about a mans penis, especially to his face, I would feel like the looser, jeez I would expect him to laugh in my face, I’d expect to be thought of as really shallow! If someone asked me about my breast size (or told me they were too small/uneven/ugly whatever else) I wouldn’t worry for a nanosecond about flattering them with a reply. I would think ‘oh dear, do you always make a fool of yourself?’

The worst that can happen is they say you look small. Fine. My attitude is: "Yeah, but the other 4 inches is my tongue."

Hehe I Love it!! I think the best thing to do is joke your way out of the question or completely ignore it, people can be so cheeky when in flirty mode.

[quote=carmen63;Anyway, the biggest I've ever had was about 22 inches.[/quote]

..and that’s ‘common’?!
Carmen darling, you are severely deluded and don’t know what you’re talking about.

[Heatwave]

Try vaginal penetration and stop attempting to hit the G spot by going in through your mouth, those organs are a pain to shift...

[whats_it_all_about]

Penis size

I havent bothered reading much of this topic but heres my input. I have a 5.5 inch penis (not that thick either) and i know its on the smaller size of the average. Anyways i have split up from my girlfirend and in a total random converstation she said im the only bloke to have made her cum through penetration alone. I know she slept around a fair bit when she was younger and must have seen a load of penises bigger than mine. As many women have said its NOT the size but how you use it.