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  • LanaBear
    Veteran Member
    • Jul 2009
    • 8373

    Originally posted by Hopeless Dork
    I think penis size only becomes a factor if the guy is not that good in bed. If a guy can please a woman with his fingers and mouth and get in there and get to business with his penis... size isn't a factor to the woman on the receiving end in most cases.

    Now if he DOESN'T do all of the above and is just a pump and quit... yeah... size will become an issue... a bigger pump and quit might accidently hit some spots than a smaller pump and quit.

    All things being equal... I'd rather have an orgasm from a considerate lover than a big penis stabbing away for his own.
    This is EXACTLY it, HD.

    I've avoided responding to threads like this but after reading the above post, I'll respond. For the longest time, I felt that size DID matter (flame me now). I will say, not so much anymore (so keep the flaming light). I'm just trying to be honest.

    This is why, I had been with two guys in the past who were both small in my opinion, this was years ago, so I don't even know how big. I'd say no bigger than my pinky maybe, length wise anyways. Horrible experience for me, one was even rumored to be a God in bed. Regardless of his size, he wasn't the reported God in bed... I then went in search for something bigger, oh then it was too big, not good either. Thankfully, my husband ended up being what I felt was pretty darn perfect for me. He's bigger than the reported average, but not ginormous. But seriously, I felt like Goldilocks and the Three Bears.

    Moral to the story, like HD said, size will become an issue if you don't know how to use what you got. Be comfortable with yourself and learn how to please in other ways. A man's confidence is SO attractive and will carry a guy a long way with a girl, I believe anyways. You have what you have, learn to work with it and use it.

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    • Guest

      Originally posted by LanaBear
      Oh - who would be honest about it though.

      If we asked all guys to come out of the woodwork on this forum and tell us length and girth, I have a hard time believing we would get honest answers...

      I think men and women tend to bloviate about what they have or what they have had. Again, with the old adage that ginormous is awesome, right.

      I think if you asked women about their current SO's size, you would get a different answer than asking the SO himself.
      How bout we post pics?

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      • mr.mansview
        Veteran Member
        • Aug 2007
        • 1173

        Originally posted by OhThereYouAre
        How bout we post pics?
        yea we could have a match the "penis to the poster party"..that actually has a nice ring to it..all the men would get banned and the women would have no one to beach to but themselves..it would be total chaos here
        a smart man learns from his mistakes..a wise man learns from the mistakes of others..

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        • LanaBear
          Veteran Member
          • Jul 2009
          • 8373

          Originally posted by OhThereYouAre
          How bout we post pics?
          Why does it not surprise me that you would post that suggestion? LOL

          Originally posted by dr.mansview
          yea we could have a match the "penis to the poster party"..that actually has a nice ring to it..all the men would get banned and the women would have no one to beach to but themselves..it would be total chaos here
          LOL - are you saying that we need you here?

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          • mr.mansview
            Veteran Member
            • Aug 2007
            • 1173

            LOL - are you saying that we need you here?[/quote]

            i see i have made myself understood..
            a smart man learns from his mistakes..a wise man learns from the mistakes of others..

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            • danceintx
              Veteran Member
              • Sep 2009
              • 317

              I say the size of a man's penis is one contributing factor to good sex. It doesn't have to be there if other things are there, but it sure doesn't hurt. I have had good sex with men with small penis's, and bad sex with bigger ones. I think most women will say they prefer a bigger one, but if it isn't, it doesn't keep you from being pleased.
              “The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjusts the sails.” - William Arthur Ward

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              • WildChild
                Banned
                • Sep 2008
                • 14142

                The LOML tells me that the reason so many woman can't judge measurements is because they've had so many men tell them that their 5" is 8 or their 6" is 10.

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                • LanaBear
                  Veteran Member
                  • Jul 2009
                  • 8373

                  HAHA - That is pretty funny!

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                  • Guest

                    What's really funny is that the title to this thread is "My Husband's Penis.."
                    ............

                    and there are over 68,000 views.

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                    • Livelaughlove
                      Veteran Member
                      • Aug 2008
                      • 456

                      EVERY WOMEN WHO SAYS PENIS SIZE DOESN'T MATTER IS A LIAR!


                      Let me ask you two questions:

                      1. Imagine there is another guy that is an exact duplicate of your man. Body, personality, everything is the same except one thing. The clone has a smaller penis then his. One inch less in length and circumference. Now imagine the two of them in front of you. Which one do you choose to have sex with?'

                      Now:

                      Since women lie when it comes to penis size I can't ask "now imagine this same clone but with a larger penis than your man, one inch more in length and circumference. Who do you choose now?'

                      So instead ILL ASK YOU:

                      "Pretend your man doesn't exist and there are only the two clones, one with a penis smaller than his and one with a penis larger than his. Who do you choose now?'

                      Men I suggest if you are insecure about your penis then avoid the topic because a women wont tell you the truth (if its average or smaller then), afteralll why would she want to hurt?! Women are considerate creatures by nature!

                      However Penis size is not the deciding factor in being a great lover!

                      Live laugh and love
                      Nice guys don't finish last, weak guys finish last.

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