[Mr. Inquisitive]

I haven't read all the comments on this topic so I don't know if thsi question has been posed, but I was just wondering if the women who prefer these larger men prefer the size for the feeling or is it a visual stimulation? I have read and heard from women who find a large penis and larger volumes of ejaculate as a sign of the man's virility, or simply makes them feel he is more "manly".

[ItsASecret]

I was just wondering if the women who prefer these larger men prefer the size for the feeling or is it a visual stimulation? I have read and heard from women who find a large penis and larger volumes of ejaculate as a sign of the man's virility, or simply makes them feel he is more "manly".

I am sure some women think that big penis = manly man, just like some men think that big boobs = more womanly. It is all different, nothing is right or wrong it is just a matter of opinion. My bf has a larger penis so I have that experience and if I had to answer why I like his more than other guys (assuming I exclude the emotional aspect of his penis and base everything solely on just the penis itself) it would be because I like to feel fuller. Personally the penis is not super attractive to me, I mean it is a nice sight but it does not get me hot and bothered immediately so in that sense the size does not hold much of a visual stimulation for me regardless if a penis is 3 inches or 12. As for ejaculate, size of the penis has absolutely no correlation to the amount of semen produced. Internal physiology dictates that. And I am sure some women think that the virility of a man could be measured by the amount of semen but again physiology trumps everything and dictates whether or not a man has some strong swimmers even if his semen is less than 1/2 a tsp. A guy can produce that 1/2 tsp and have stronger sperm compared to a guy who releases 5 tbsp with lesser strength sperm...you just never know.

[Mr. Inquisitive]

I am sure some women think that big penis = manly man, just like some men think that big boobs = more womanly. It is all different, nothing is right or wrong it is just a matter of opinion. My bf has a larger penis so I have that experience and if I had to answer why I like his more than other guys (assuming I exclude the emotional aspect of his penis and base everything solely on just the penis itself) it would be because I like to feel fuller. Personally the penis is not super attractive to me, I mean it is a nice sight but it does not get me hot and bothered immediately so in that sense the size does not hold much of a visual stimulation for me regardless if a penis is 3 inches or 12. As for ejaculate, size of the penis has absolutely no correlation to the amount of semen produced. Internal physiology dictates that. And I am sure some women think that the virility of a man could be measured by the amount of semen but again physiology trumps everything and dictates whether or not a man has some strong swimmers even if his semen is less than 1/2 a tsp. A guy can produce that 1/2 tsp and have stronger sperm compared to a guy who releases 5 tbsp with lesser strength sperm...you just never know.

Thanks for your reply however I should clarify that the ejaculate question was sort of a seperate question. I am aware that penis size does not effect volume of ejacualate produced. The correlation that I was trying to make is that some women have mentioned they find a larger volume of semen attractive because they see it as a sign or virility/more manly/an indication that the man is very turned on by them etc.. So I guess I was wondering if that could be the case for size penis size as well.

[Jimbeau]

some women have mentioned they find a larger volume of semen attractive

I'd never heard that before. I'm average size wise but been told I produced enough to impregnate a city. Didn't realize this should have been taken as a compliment and a real ego boost.

[mn95]

No this measurement was acurate. I have had a steady decline over the years. 11+ teen-20s, 8-10-30s and now around 7 in my 40s. If this is not normal and ideas on how to reverse it?

[Jimbeau]

No this measurement was acurate. I have had a steady decline over the years. 11+ teen-20s, 8-10-30s and now around 7 in my 40s. If this is not normal and ideas on how to reverse it?

I've heard of people getting shorter as they get older but never in that department. Perhaps the advice of a urologist might be of use.

[ItsASecret]

The correlation that I was trying to make is that some women have mentioned they find a larger volume of semen attractive because they see it as a sign or virility/more manly/an indication that the man is very turned on by them etc..

Oh okay then yes I am sure some women see it as something like more manliness or they absolutely love the cum so the more the better. Personally I really do not enjoy large volumes, my bf unloads a mass quantity but I do not go off on a tangent freaking out when it covers literally my entire mid section. Its okay if its cleaned up with 2 tissues or whatever but when it takes 10-15 because it gets everywhere...no thanks lol. It is a turn off because of the texture so to me there is nothing about a huge mess that is awesome or more manly. But just like with the penis there are always going to women that find certain things an absolute bliss or massive turn on and to others it is the complete opposite.

[WildChild]

I was recently reading an essay by a sex toy designer who said his research found that men think a longer penis is more impressive while women appreciate girth more.

[Jimbeau]

Oh okay then yes I am sure some women see it as something like more manliness or they absolutely love the cum so the more the better. Personally I really do not enjoy large volumes, my bf unloads a mass quantity but I do not go off on a tangent freaking out when it covers literally my entire mid section. Its okay if its cleaned up with 2 tissues or whatever but when it takes 10-15 because it gets everywhere...no thanks lol. It is a turn off because of the texture so to me there is nothing about a huge mess that is awesome or more manly. But just like with the penis there are always going to women that find certain things an absolute bliss or massive turn on and to others it is the complete opposite.

Thank you for returning my ego to its humble status. lol.

[WildChild]

So what we keep coming back to is different women like different things. And -big surprise- different men like different things.
The trick is pairing up with someone who thinks what you have is absolutely IT.