[Still Nobody]

Women might joke about it with their friends but when it comes down to it with their lover it doesn't bother them, I talk for the women I am friendly with anyway and myself. You really need to think about how you can work at building your confidence, you clearly have gals interested in you so you need to work to move behond the whole penis size thing.

Thanks, Irelandlover. I've talked to some of my friends, guys and a couple of girls, and they said the same thing. And the more I think about what happened, the more I think she or they were just flirting in some way. It did surprise me that she wanted to be with me even after the crazy conversation we had. I guess that means that I was the only one still thinking about it ( and making a big deal about it), it certainly wasn't important enough to her for her to remember it. She knew how I felt about her.
Thanks

[inquisitive1]

LOL!!! 12-14 inches? Must have made walking kind of difficult. I guess in your case, for your own safety, size did matter.

An after thought...is 12 inches even possible?

Yes, yes it is!!! As scary as that sounds. I did not have anything to measure it with and give an official number. This is 100% true as I experienced it. I thought that was something one only saw in a porn flick. But those actors are real people that have to come from somewhere and I'm sure there are some non-porn regular guys that are endowed much the same way. It's just not for me! Be Blessed!!!

[Still Nobody]

For you guys who are smaller, not to worry......Plenty of women are wanting a man who knows how to make a woman sexually hungry....This is what really counts....Take care, Caroline

Thanks, Caroline. I just hope I can find one of those "plenty of women" that you mentioned.

[alibaby]

Thanks, Caroline. I just hope I can find one of those "plenty of women" that you mentioned.

I hope I didn't offend you with my post. I was laughing at how out of the ordinary Inquisitive1's story was. It's as many women have said here, that we kind of joke amongst ourselves about mens 'parts' the same way that men do about women. So don't concern yourself with gossip or exaggerated claims. Be happy with what you have and that women like you as you are.

[Summer125]

My current bf's is very very good in size and he knows how to use it! Idk how long it is-prob 7 or 8 " and it's also great in girth, it's perfect! Sometimes after we do it i am sore, sometimes i cant even get the whole thing in. When i first saw it i couldnt believe it was that size cause before we fooled around he was so skinny i thought it would be smaller. The moral is don't be fooled by what you see. Anyway my last bf, he was my first and to me his private was a decent size. However i realized towards the end of our relationship that it is not a decent size. It's kinda small, his i thought woulda been bigger AND he didnt know how to use it. Ugh now that i think of it im discusted!

[inquisitive1]

Hello alibaby-
I think your advice to Still Nobody is sound. However, you may laugh at my experience - so have some of my girlfriends and family. Some of them went as far as to share some similar experiences. It is/ they are commonly referred to as, "Mandigo Man" in African American Culture. It's no myth but common knowledge with us. Irelandlover made mention of this subject about the size of or perhaps performance of black men in a response to one of my previously posted questions. Just because it's not something you have had personal knowledge of doesn't make it any less true or "exaggerated". In my youth, (high school mostly) I dated white guys. I grew up in an upper class white community and that's what was available to me. I can tell you this - it has been my experience that what is described as big in the responses to the original question, has been the average size not biggest size for most of the black men I have incountered, (if that statement was for me). I was hesitant to share it for just that reason. I have known women with massive breasts, no implants, all natural, some of them were thin or skinny even. I have also heard men report that certain women are big/loose enough to fall into or they couldn't hardly feel anything or perhaps nothing. Why would it be so unbelievable that the same could not be true for a man's reproductive organ? Be Blessed!!!

[alibaby]

Inquisitive1,

I'm not calling you a liar and I'm sorry if my posts came across that way. I'm of British and Caribbean descent and came to live in the U.S. at a young age. I've only had two men in my lifetime, both men of color, so I guess I haven't had enough to compare. I laughed at your experience because you presented it in a very amusing way, especially when you said: "H... to the no. We didn't and I got dressed". Most women will probably never see a 12-14 inch penis in real life...well, maybe at a bachelorette party. That's why I called it "out of the ordinary". I actually went online afterwards looking up info, not because I didn't believe you, but because I had seen picures in a magazine (I remember the term "Mandingo Man") many years ago and wanted to know if anyone has written about this. I know that just because I haven't seen it up close and personal, that doesn't necessarily mean that it doesn't exist. Still Nobody has talked about guys and ladies boasting about what they have or don't have (what I called "gossip and exaggerated claims"). My post to him was just to get him away from thinking that big penises are all women want and to be happy with what he has. So again, I apologize. I guess I got a bit carried away and I will be more careful with my opinions in the future.

[cowboychuck]

Q: What do you call a soft 12"?

A: "Sleeping Beauty".

[mr.mansview]

12 inches??

i once had a drunk women at a party say to me " you're cute but i must have a man with 12 inches"..i said i would'nt cut off 2 inches for anybody..

[inquisitive1]

I hope I didn't offend you with my post. I was laughing at how out of the ordinary Inquisitive1's story was. It's as many women have said here, that we kind of joke amongst ourselves about mens 'parts' the same way that men do about women. So don't concern yourself with gossip or exaggerated claims. Be happy with what you have and that women like you as you are.

Q: What do you call a soft 12"?

A: "Sleeping Beauty".

Hello cowboychuck-
Hahahahaheehe!!! That was funny! I said to myself before I read your punch line, "What Beauty Rest" ! Like the mattress. But yours was much more funny. Be Blessed!!!