[Irelandlover]

i've heard about the cough drop thing too. i also heard that it can be a bit painful depending on how much of a sensation like that you can handle.

honestly hearing that made me want to try it even more ha ha.

have you ever tried using an ice cube? letting your mouth get super cold before giving the oral is a sensation not to be missed i assure you.

Got to say that swapping between warm and cold is incredible for men (so I'm told) and for women.. feels great

[Irelandlover]

Got to say that a few days I was asked to go down on him, I joked and said yes as long as he went down on me (and for more than 10 seconds!!)... guess what it sure worked and was very good he he I'll do that more often. He said he liked it to as I had been firm in asking for exactly what I wanted..

[cowboychuck]

Ireland:

Good for you! It kind of confirms my belief that most men like to be a little submissive sometimes.
Plus it's nice to know what exactly your lady wants so that you know what you're doing is the right thing.

[Irelandlover]

Ireland:

Good for you! It kind of confirms my belief that most men like to be a little submissive sometimes.
Plus it's nice to know what exactly your lady wants so that you know what you're doing is the right thing.

Do you think men see it as being submissive?

[cowboychuck]

Irelandlover:

Sorry I didn't get to answer you sooner, other obligations etc. kept me busy.

I don't think that telling him what you want would normally be construed by a guy as being submissive, but you remarked that you had been firm in asking him to do what you wanted and that he came through with flying colours as a result. Depending on how firm, I guess, he could be seen as a little submissive. (I don't mean to imply that I think you're being bossy and throwing orders around.)

Feeling a little submissive can be kind of a turn-on. I see it as an interesting change and I like it. It depends a lot on the guy and the situation of course, but unless the guy is insecure in his "manliness" he would not get all freaked and think his ego was being challenged. If a woman knows what she wants and is not afraid to ask for it I think guys in general find that sexy... especially if they are part of what that woman wants!

[Nightelf]

This was something that I really didnt enjoy. I used to shut my legs at the very thought. Until I started being intimate with my now fiance. After working through the insecurities and other issues I absolutely love it now. And he is very free and forthcoming with it. Nothing quite like waking up to the incredible feeling of him going down on me. But it was a long and difficult road before I started enjoying it and then started climaxing from it. I couldnt get my mind off the "fish" jokes that men make and the thought that he was doing it out of obligation and not because he really wanted to.
Only issue I have is that I dont like kissing him after he has been down on me, even though he wipes his mouth. I dont enjoy the taste. I keep telling him that there is a reason that my vagina is on the opposite end of my body to my mouth

[cowboychuck]

Nightelf:

Glad to hear you worked out the difficulties and enjoy it now. I had to laugh about the reason for the vagina being in the opposite direction from your mouth!

Some women like the taste, some don't but most men definitely do and I guess that's the important thing in this activity. I don't really see a basis for concern about the "fishy" thing; I mean if you lover is clean there should be no disagreeable odour or taste. Personally, I think "odour" or "smell" are crass words for what I consider a delightful fragrance - somewhat liked peaches with a hint of cinnamon.
Anyway, most guys love going fishing, don't they? Tee-hee.

[Nightelf]

Yeah I must admit that I am often reminded of how pleased I am that I could work through the issues I had. Often I am reminded 3 or 4 times

I am going to ask about the particular flavour and fragrance next time.

Cowboy, I hope that your wife compromises on this a little.

[Libby]

Libby

Tinkerbell

Why are you giving him so much oral when he does not return it? Why are you complaining that he 'gets seen to' all the time when it is YOU who does it? And finally, why 'drop hints'? Just tell him straight out that you want to receive oral sex more often and you will return it only after you have received it?

[Summer125]

I love it! And both my bf's that i have been intimate with loved giving it to me, well that is my ex did and my current bf does almost everytime we do it. I don't understand how some women do not like it, its great!