[sweetsaltyruchi]

before my marriage i realy hate blow job but after marriage after watching porn stuff..understand that its the most pleasurable thing for my husband so i started giving him blow job and one day i will become a expert and addict tooo...Now watever the situation is i just cant stop myself blowing my man..and he also loves to see this madness in me,..and the vice verca... my husband loves to lick me till i squirt....

[rcoreyus]

My wife enjoys it as a way to warm up, but not once she is really aroused.

My GF realy like oral sex !

[shoshannah]

I love receiving oral sex. My boyfriend often does it as part of our foreplay because it is one of the best ways to get me excited, and I usually have an orgasm during, which helps me be orgasmic during sex. It's also so intimate to have him do that--more intimate than sex, in a way, since he is smelling and tasting me down there.

[Magnetism]

JNS-I finally did have a pleasant experience when receiving oral sex, but that's only because this person finallly listened to me and licked my clitoris only.


I don't feel much when someone is sticking their tongue inside my vagina, which is what some people do. There's a direct spot that needs to stimulated, which I'm more than happy to show someone. It's not rocket science. In the end, all what the person has to do is listen to touch the spot that I show them.

[danceintx]

I love it, I think it is sensual and feels good. There are times I don't want it, or feel like it, but mostly I do. My bf wants to do it all the time.

[jns]

As can be read on this thread, some women like getting oral, others do not. This is also true for men to some degree. As for giving, some men like to give, others do not. Same thing with women.

Magnetism, keep on searching for the one who will be able to always get you going.

Little, it's been about 5 years from the time of your post. What has changed? Why was going down on a girl unpleasant (if you can remember)? Was it something you wanted to experience but were not really into? Was she not fresh? Was she not into it? Were you too close to her butt? Was she too hairy? I have given oral to a number of women and have yet to have done it to one who giving oral to was unpleasant for me.

[Magnetism]

The only time I enjoyed receiving oral sex was when the person knew how to lick the clitoris. Otherwise, I don't get intense pleasure out of it. It feels "nice" at most, but I get bored or distracted after a few minutes. The clitoris needs to be directly stimulated for me to enjoy it.

[Little]

I love-love-love it when my boyfriend goes down on me. It's amazing. In fact, I've never had a guy go down on me where it wasn't amazing!! I've only ever had an O with my current boyfriend, though.
He's quite forthcoming with it, too. Lucky me! It doesn't usually last long, though ... once he gets me going, I just want sex ^_^
But as a rule, I don't expect oral sex from men. I've gone down on a girl and it was unpleasant to me, not something I'd ever like to repeat, and it's like forcing a woman to give head if she finds it distasteful! (Unless he's just being selfish and doesn't have a problem with it.) Of course, if I'm not getting mine, I'm less giving to him :P
How do you all feel about manual stimulation? Like fingering? I hated it before I lost my virginity, but I'm warming up to it now.

[poisongirl]

For me, it's one of those things that, 'even if it's bad, it's good.' I love it. In fact, my husband doesn't do it enough! I will admit though, that there was a time where I was kind of uncomfortable with it. My reason was because I had been sexually abused as a child. Now, my abstinence from oral sex was pretty short lived once I found a partner that made me feel comfortable, and felt reassured that he was enjoying it to- not to mention once I realized how good it felt!! I can't speak for all women or anything, but I have known some that didn't like it. Most of them, I found, didn't like it because they felt really self-conscious about their body or concerned as to whether their partner actually enjoyed it or was doing it because they felt they had to. I have also known some the felt uncomfortable with it because of rigid up-bringings, and the self-implicated idea that it was 'un-clean' or barbaric. I had a neighbor once who had tried to tell me that oral sex was something that promiscuous people did, and that no self-respecting person would give or receive oral sex. Yeah... right. My vote is PRO oral sex. I love giving and receiving, but it's not for everyone...