[commonsense]

Women like oral?

I love giving my wife oral sex. I like the way she looks, feels, tastes but she has decided its gross. I'm surprised since I believed it is what most women want. I guess it makes no difference what everyone else thinks about it, I want to please her and if this doesn't then I don't do it I'd like to know if most women like it or if they just put up with it?

It's an individual preference. It's an art. Some guys do it well, some don't. I enjoy the ones that do it well. :^)

[cowboychuck]

Hmmm, interesting concept. Thanks for the suggestion!

[dgirl07]

i've heard about the cough drop thing too. i also heard that it can be a bit painful depending on how much of a sensation like that you can handle.

honestly hearing that made me want to try it even more ha ha.

have you ever tried using an ice cube? letting your mouth get super cold before giving the oral is a sensation not to be missed i assure you.

[cowboychuck]

I heard recently that sucking on a menthol cough drop and then doing oral (either partner) is supposed to give an additional thrill to the ride. Has anyone had any experience with that? Sounds kind of neat!

[cowboychuck]

tinkerbell:

I haven't had a pixie-dust fix today. Tinkerbell ...... pixie dust? Sorry, silly.

Ironically, after realizing that I was probably out of line for giving Ravsoma a blast right back and then posting an apology to her for it, I got S*H*I*T today from the administrator for it. I was threatened with being excommucated!
If I have to ride into the sunset, I hoped we could still stay in touch. I set up a new hotmail account to go public with: cowboychuck19*hotmail.com You could set up a tinkerbelle account???

[Irelandlover]

cowboy chuck:

he only lasted a couple of minutes. but thanks for the advice
i will def. think about the things you said.

You could always say to him that you enjoy kissing down there as well as frantic tongue moving! that would make it easier for him and better for you

[housewife]

In case you did not see it

https://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/2484-anal-sex-bigger-butt-8.html#post15251

[cowboychuck]

Quill:
Definitely stay with it at least for a while. I think you're absolutely right about different guys doing it differently (although I must quickly say that I haven't experienced guys! ) Some are probably going to be lousy at it, some fabulous. Unless it feels icky to you, I'm sure the right guy can bring it home for you. I'd strongly urge you to help the guy out with some encouragement and direction. If you think you're doing a great job and then find out after that she didn't enjoy it, it's a pretty crummy feeling. Better to be nudged in the right direction then & there.

Your phrasing of it being an "odd" sensation made me laugh. He could definitely improve, then!

Did he do it on his own? Did he ask what you liked and so on? Personally, I would love to get some direction on how it is for her but I guess you'd also have to be mindful of the guy's feelings and not end up making him feel slighted. I watched a few porno's with some oral action to see what I should be doing. Apparently those techniques don't work for every woman though.

[tinkerbell930]

cowboy-
Last post before I head out of the office for the day!

NO, my hubby is not the type that gets embarrassed at all! So, I really think I am going to try the panty and fantasy note thing...

I do have to admit that I don't like my body near as much as I used too....I used to love wearing sexy stuff, but I feel so gross lately...I used to be a cute, petite 105-110, now I am about 125 and not to keen on my looks. He says I am sexy, but what do men know? ha ha

Yeah, it would be nice if there was one person that we could have our spouse listen to without taking offense to it....it sure would make it easier to say, "ok, this guy/girl KNOWS what I am talking about and it is really ONLY about loving you NOT them...so please listen to what they have to say so we can get down in the sheets and love what each other has to offer!!!" Is that too much to ask?

Well, you have an awesome night...hopefully one or both of us will get some good lovin' tonight!

[dgirl07]

cowboy chuck:

he only lasted a couple of minutes. but thanks for the advice
i will def. think about the things you said.