[cowboychuck]

Nightelf:

Glad to hear you worked out the difficulties and enjoy it now. I had to laugh about the reason for the vagina being in the opposite direction from your mouth!

Some women like the taste, some don't but most men definitely do and I guess that's the important thing in this activity. I don't really see a basis for concern about the "fishy" thing; I mean if you lover is clean there should be no disagreeable odour or taste. Personally, I think "odour" or "smell" are crass words for what I consider a delightful fragrance - somewhat liked peaches with a hint of cinnamon.
Anyway, most guys love going fishing, don't they? Tee-hee.

[Nightelf]

This was something that I really didnt enjoy. I used to shut my legs at the very thought. Until I started being intimate with my now fiance. After working through the insecurities and other issues I absolutely love it now. And he is very free and forthcoming with it. Nothing quite like waking up to the incredible feeling of him going down on me. But it was a long and difficult road before I started enjoying it and then started climaxing from it. I couldnt get my mind off the "fish" jokes that men make and the thought that he was doing it out of obligation and not because he really wanted to.
Only issue I have is that I dont like kissing him after he has been down on me, even though he wipes his mouth. I dont enjoy the taste. I keep telling him that there is a reason that my vagina is on the opposite end of my body to my mouth

[cowboychuck]

Irelandlover:

Sorry I didn't get to answer you sooner, other obligations etc. kept me busy.

I don't think that telling him what you want would normally be construed by a guy as being submissive, but you remarked that you had been firm in asking him to do what you wanted and that he came through with flying colours as a result. Depending on how firm, I guess, he could be seen as a little submissive. (I don't mean to imply that I think you're being bossy and throwing orders around.)

Feeling a little submissive can be kind of a turn-on. I see it as an interesting change and I like it. It depends a lot on the guy and the situation of course, but unless the guy is insecure in his "manliness" he would not get all freaked and think his ego was being challenged. If a woman knows what she wants and is not afraid to ask for it I think guys in general find that sexy... especially if they are part of what that woman wants!

[Irelandlover]

Ireland:

Good for you! It kind of confirms my belief that most men like to be a little submissive sometimes.
Plus it's nice to know what exactly your lady wants so that you know what you're doing is the right thing.

Do you think men see it as being submissive?

[cowboychuck]

Ireland:

Good for you! It kind of confirms my belief that most men like to be a little submissive sometimes.
Plus it's nice to know what exactly your lady wants so that you know what you're doing is the right thing.

[Irelandlover]

Got to say that a few days I was asked to go down on him, I joked and said yes as long as he went down on me (and for more than 10 seconds!!)... guess what it sure worked and was very good he he I'll do that more often. He said he liked it to as I had been firm in asking for exactly what I wanted..

[Irelandlover]

i've heard about the cough drop thing too. i also heard that it can be a bit painful depending on how much of a sensation like that you can handle.

honestly hearing that made me want to try it even more ha ha.

have you ever tried using an ice cube? letting your mouth get super cold before giving the oral is a sensation not to be missed i assure you.

Got to say that swapping between warm and cold is incredible for men (so I'm told) and for women.. feels great

[tinkerbell930]

Hey cowboy!
I am here today. I was only in the office for a little while on Friday....
I did email your hotmail account.
I have heard the menthol cough drop...my ex once used a peppermint candy...it was pretty "cool" ....actually it was nice. (Although I don't like to think of sex with the EX....gives me the creeps to think of.
My hubby said something this weekend about doing the oral thing....never happened, but he said he wanted to....I did tell him that I love it when he does it and wish he did it more often....still NOTHING....he asked me to go down on him...well, I didn't. I don't want to play a game, but........
Hope you had a great weekend!

[cowboychuck]

commonse:

I think you're right that it's an art. I also think I could use some pointers to become more skilled , so any suggestions you have would always be appreciated.

[commonsense]

Women like oral?

I appreciate the advice. I am not interested in the porn thing. We do have wonderful love making...I have dropped plenty of hints that I absolutley love when he does it....he knows I do simply because I have a huge O from it. I also have O's from our love making too. He tells me all the time that my oral that I give him is amazing...(it should I spend tons of time because he will hold back for an hour just to feel it) my jaws kill me by the time I am done. He usually gets this AT least 5 or 6 times a month. Me? 5-6 times in 3 YEARS???? UGH.....
I don't know how else to put it that I want it more. No, it isn't something I demand, but geez, I please him all the time. We make love every night of the week...if I am on my girl thing he is STILL taken care of whether it is oral or hand. Anyway....
I think a big thing for some women not enjoying it...they feel like they might smell or you really don't enjoy it, or are too rough, like one of the posters above said....it CAN hurt if you aren't gentle.

I have always stuck by the "If you can't do me, I can't do you rule". It's foolproof and has never failed. You are sweet and considerate and he is selfish.