[ItsASecret]

I still find it insanely hot to let him cum on me, wherever. Referencing her comment about not wanting it anywhere on her body. I don't know, that is just losing a bunch of intimacy, IMO. I'd be all butt hurt if my hubby freaked out whenever I squirted on him, so it helps that I find his "love juice" lol, highly highly arousing.

Personally I am not insanely aroused by it but at the same time I am not insanely turned off by it. I know I am not mortified by having it on me though. Since I have the thick, chunky, pungent amounts to handle I will not let him finish in my mouth but he is free to finish on my body which I think is a fair compromise as long as it is not up my nose, in my eyeball(s), or in my hair lol.

[ska1331]

I still find it interesting when a woman is grossed out by semen. I mean I can understand it on one level, but at the same time what about her fluids and discharges. I mean what if we freaked out or thought of her as dirty for either her natural, regular discharges, or her monthy vistor, or even those fluids which we happen to be the cause of? My wife and I once had this discussion. She honestly had never considered it from that point of view. A long time ago I was not allowed to finish anywhere other than vaginally. I had asked her how she would feel if I stopped oral everytime she was about to climax( not that I ever did). That's illustration actually helped more than anything. She now actually enjoys making me achieve orgasm through oral or manual stimulation now. She has become proud of her skills so to speak. Not that she swallows all that often, but she has stopped treating me like I'm dirty just because I orgasmed. Just somethin to think about.

[DSemcho]

Lanabear - I agree with you about your guy cuming on your body - I love it to!

[GoodGuy]

I still find it interesting when a woman is grossed out by semen. I mean I can understand it on one level, but at the same time what about her fluids and discharges. I mean what if we freaked out or thought of her as dirty for either her natural, regular discharges, or her monthy vistor, or even those fluids which we happen to be the cause of? My wife and I once had this discussion. She honestly had never considered it from that point of view. A long time ago I was not allowed to finish anywhere other than vaginally. I had asked her how she would feel if I stopped oral everytime she was about to climax( not that I ever did). That's illustration actually helped more than anything. She now actually enjoys making me achieve orgasm through oral or manual stimulation now. She has become proud of her skills so to speak. Not that she swallows all that often, but she has stopped treating me like I'm dirty just because I orgasmed. Just somethin to think about.

This was incredibly an well thought out reply. Thanks.

[angelstrawberry]

I love swallowing. Dont always love the taste though and sometimes it can make my stomach feel nauseous. The hard thing would be to swallow a guy that cums large loads. I have a guy now that taste good though, kind of sweet. Maybe eat some pineapple and she will lile the taste and be more willing

[Mbkk44]

My wife still won't do it, but she shows a lot of excitement and try to deep throw me.....as well as she does a very nice job on my balls and shaft....she is a very good wife.....I hope some day, I get it....we'll see, it has to be in her own terms....and after a long time of me not mentioning it...

Good for you to try new things...

This is how I am, I have had a lady give me the full BJ a few times before I was married and I loved it, wish my wife would , but don't ask and accept the good BJ she gives as foreplay , I feel she will one day but she will spit it out , however she will have to be so excited that she forgets I am about to come, I also don't want to risk losing the type of BJ she gives me now.

[JonDoe]

I've been with women, including my wife, that say "Eww! No way!! Never!!!", but will take a shot of tequila, lick the salt and suck a lemon wedge. Tequlia is absolutely an acquired taste that plenty of people are willing to master when celebrating with friends.

Perhaps the difference is they see friends taking shots and having fun, so they want to join the fun, but have been brainwashed into thinking men are perverse, and giving head is a dirty, nasty act.

In my opinion, if a wife is not willing to try to master oral, including occasionally swallowing for her husband, then perhaps she is a selfish lover. Unfortunately, my experience has been with women that love for me to give them oral, but aren't willing to return the favor.

[ItsASecret]

but will take a shot of tequila, lick the salt and suck a lemon wedge. Tequlia is absolutely an acquired taste that plenty of people are willing to master when celebrating with friends.

Perhaps the difference is they see friends taking shots and having fun, so they want to join the fun, but have been brainwashed into thinking men are perverse, and giving head is a dirty, nasty act.

Comparing Tequila to semen? When tequila has the consistency of sex lube, a coagulation factor, and the odor of chlorine then the comparison can occur otherwise the burning off-putting taste of liquid alcohol is not something that can be compared. A man can offer porn to a woman to "see the enjoyment" and a woman can watch porn actresses being paid to fake enjoyment all they want but that does not mean they are going to "join in the fun" as well. It is an individual opinion and in no way shape or form should be considered a "must-have" or requirement. Should a man be upset that his woman does not swallow then he should try his own semen to see her perspective of why she does not want to do it.

[JonDoe]

Perhaps if you re-read my post you'll see that I never said or implied "must-have" or "requirement", nor did I make any reference to fake porn videos. In addition, I never made any reference to being upset because "my woman" doesn't swallow - that's her choice. However, I think it is reasonable that I am disappointed when she enjoys receiving oral, but is totally unwilling to return the favor.

[jns]

Tequlia is absolutely an acquired taste that plenty of people are willing to master when celebrating with friends.

Tequila is an acquired taste and so is beer. Good tequila is my absolute first choice for a sipping drink. It doesn't require friends to be around, nor salt, nor lemon, nor lime, nor be cold, nor on the rocks. To me it is better than Scotch, Bourbon, or any other liquor. Unfortunately, it gives me splitting headache hangovers and is not good for a diabetic. So it mostly stays in the liquor cabinet these days. But I did take a sip out of an open bottle to remember the good old days while writing this. Still has that sour apples (to me) taste and the nice warmth going down.

Women wouldn't have objections to semen if it was like tequila. BTW, it was several women who initially turned me on to tequila, but the trainee went further than the teachers.

Don't tie giving her oral to her giving you oral. Giving her oral should be enough excitement by itself to not have to have it tied to her actions.