[nic22]

I think women can decide for themselves what they like. I absolutely love watching my husband masturbate to orgasm. We do this for each other, and he of course loves to watch me do this for him. I do it for him because he likes it and he does it for me because I like it. And we both enjoy it because the other does. I don't think it's a male vs. female thing at all.

sorry Cathygirl I didn't mean it like that. I was just saying with the random conversations I have had with my friends including girls it tends to be more guys watching girls or having girls watch them. I wasn't referring to people in relationships where a husband or boyfriend watches his wife or girlfriend or vise versa.

[realtruck]

I am a man and I can't speak for all, but...I have been married almost 40 years. probably 25 years ago my wife asked me to let her watch me masturbate. It was a little uncomfortable the first time, but since she agreed to let me watch her too I was happy to. She told me at the time, she'd bet all women would love that. We got to know much more how to touch each other by observing. It has become one of the ways we make love regularly. Sometimes it is convenient when you want to control the "mess", like getting ready to go out or something. We only want each other, and I am happy this is part of our love life. In case you are wondering, I think most men would like to do this if they would just get over the initial stigma. If your man hasn't asked you to masturbate for him, he is probably just too shy about it. Get yourself off where he can watch, and he will be more turned on than you've seen in a long time.

[evaone]

it's no problem with me. i used to it! lol

[asdjr]

New ground

I just discovered this discussion. Is is something I've talked about with my partner previously since I wondered about her interest in sex. Maybe it's our ages (early 60s) but I've always enjoyed female auto-erotica in porn I've come across. Maybe this discussion will help us talk about it. I think (know) it would rev my engine. I hope I can help her learn to enjoy it. I tried it for the first time this morning and she did say she was looking and might learn some tricks how to please me. This site helped me find a little spice in our sexual relations.

[Guest]

I love watching my hubby Douglas masturbate and he watches me rub myself. He also rubs me and and I like to play with his penis, it leads to great, hot passionate sex between us.

[Little_Miss_Me]

I LOVE it. Absolutely love.

[Mealii]

Does she want you to climax? Or does she enjoy watching you touch yourself. In my opinion the longer you touch it the hotter the woman gets. Trust me it is not a test, it is erotic pleasure.

[Mealii]

I agree with you 100% We know our bodies better than anyone else, and the sex is awesome after we stimulate ourselves.

[aguyaguy]

I have always found the concept of masturbating in front of a woman extremely erotic. There is something naughty and private about that activity for men. When I finally worked up the nerve to ask the woman I am seeing "to watch", she giggled and jumped up and down in mock excitement - "sure would love to, lets get started". Over the last of year or so we have worked this into our sexual repertoire. Most often she sits across or next to me fully dressed whilst I masturbate in the nude. Always the good sport, she says things like "how nice", "we are really nice and hard today aren't we", "nice stroking today", "jacking off nicley there". The end is her exposing her breasts to me which results in my projectile ejaculating. I think this is a fantasy of some men, like me, and probably not others. On the flip side I imagine some women not

[Jimbeau]

It's cool as long as it's somebody you know. Just don't do it in front of strangers.