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I use to be somewhat inhibited about masturbating in front of my wife. When she let me know just how much she liked it, however, I started to enjoy doing it for her enjoyment. I find that what ever turns her on turns me on. We don't talk a lot about what we like sexually, it's often non-verbal communication, so it tooks a while to "discover" this aspect of our relationship. It wasn't until she took my hand gently and used it herself to stroke me that I recognized what she wanted. When I saw just how much she reacted to it, I loved it. I've now become a bedroom exhibitionist, and the fact that it gives her so much pleasure makes it enormously pleasurable for me as well. So really, if you want your man to do something just let him know you like it. I don't think there's much I wouldn't do sexually if she took pleasure in it. I think most guys feel that way.Comment
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I think many women do like watching men masturbate -- based on my own experience, and the few friends I've discussed it with -- but maybe not in the way that men think they do. Semen splashing on our breasts or butts or bellies, as in porn videos? No, thank you. Dropping your pants and whacking away? Not so much. What I like to see is the way he arouses himself, the rising excitement, the touch he uses, the look of sheer pleasure on his face as he reaches the point of no return, the way his hips start to buck and his hand starts to speed up. That's definitely a turn-on. It's also great lesson in how to please him.Comment
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It seems to be more of a guy thing to watch a girl masturbate. I did have a girl I got to know over MSN chat and one thing lead to another after chatting about sex for a while and I ended up masturbateing for her over MSN on cam. Did it a few times and she really enjoyed it and it was a turn on for me as well. Seems to be a turn on for a guy to have a girl watch him or the thrill of being caught maybe.Comment
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I think women can decide for themselves what they like. I absolutely love watching my husband masturbate to orgasm. We do this for each other, and he of course loves to watch me do this for him. I do it for him because he likes it and he does it for me because I like it. And we both enjoy it because the other does. I don't think it's a male vs. female thing at all.Comment
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