[pam21]

not too proud to beg

hey, have u tried begging?........just explain to him how erotic it is for u to watch him stroking himself ........and then start the begging......always works for me........ps i love watching my him doin it in the shower......hot hot hot!!

[skipper]

yea i'm trying to get my guy to do it but he shy any advise

Any advice? This is an e z one. Get naked, get him naked, start playing w/ yourself and when he tries to help out, order him to stop. Make a new rule that he can't touch you until he complies with all your demands. Then weave a little game for him where he must lube himself up and begin touching himself. Be very specific in your orders (e.g. put some lube in your hand, now rub it all over your member, now squeeze the top, now show me how you like long slow strokes, etc). Be very graphic and make your demands very erotic for both of you. After you get him hard (maybe 2 miliseconds) and stroking, he should be good to go on his own. Be sure to let him know its ok if he comes on you (if it's ok).

Meanwhile, back at the Y, help him along with the visuals: Give him a nice view of you and show him how you like to be touched. The object of this game is not to jump each other's bones before you are done. Don't know about your BF, but this technique would sure work good on me.

Yes, begging will likely work too.

[Steph33]

Last my sweetie laid my on my side and gave me oral with his torso behind me at my back. He masturbated till he came and watching that while he ate me was a MAX turn on. A position he came up with we hadn't done before.

He also likes to sit me on the edge of the bed while he kneels on the floor to give me oral. When it's his turn he masturbates while giving me oral, then gets up to release where he's just been eating. That is a turn on for both of us.

I like seeing the whole act, for him he really only likes that I'm actually watching him ejaculate when it happens. "Cheering him on to victory" with potty mouth gets him crazy and I love hearing how much noise (a MAJOR screaming moan and yell combined) he makes when he releases for me. Watching him release himself is also nice for me because I can see how large the head of his penis swells the closer he gets to orgasm (and during his release).

Those times are always good for a stare from the neighbors when he pass them next time (they only ever argue with each other, sad).

[HubbyLookin4Help]

any tips for getting my wife to start for me? I know she's used a vibrator alone, so I think she will, at least pretend to anyway. that would thrill me if she got herself off while we were doing it.

[DarknessEmbraced]

I love to watch my boyfriend masturbate or fantasize about him masturbating! Seeing him enjoying himself so much and knowing that he's turned on gets me going as well.

[jeffswifemichelle]

I love watching cum shots. Just today my husband sent me via phone a 30 second shot of himself masterbating and it drove me wild. I couldn't wait to get home to have a little fun.

[Inmydreams]

, steph33, that stuff you were describing sounds hot! Yeah, I don't think there is much else hotter than watching your man masturbate. Even better, if one masturbates while going down on the other. Nice.

[renee69]

I love it!!! It turns me on! That makes my orgasms stronger!!!!

[paulette]

i don't mind a man masterbating to me it shows his manly insight

[feelmyfury]

I honestly think my man likes watching a whole lot more than I do- maybe I'm weird but I just don't get into it all that much that way.