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Sara-wifer

Being a male, perhaps I am way out of line here. But maybe you have some type of medical issue that you should talk to your doctor about. Always being sexually aroused can be a sign of a medical or psychological issue. For example, when women go through menapause, there cna be sexual issue, and sometime it can be an issue where a woman can be sexually aroused all the time. There might be a medical issue on your side.

Just my 2 cents worth.

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Sara-wifer

Being a male, perhaps I am way out of line here. But maybe you have some type of medical issue that you should talk to your doctor about. Always being sexually aroused can be a sign of a medical or psychological issue. For example, when women go through menapause, there cna be sexual issue, and sometime it can be an issue where a woman can be sexually aroused all the time. There might be a medical issue on your side.

Just my 2 cents worth.

My doctor knows about it because he examines me in the checkup but he said it was just because everybody has physical reactions different to everyone else. So he didn't teach me anything about it or how to treat i t. But I agree with you absolutely because my friends don't have the same as me so definitely I am not like other people :s

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Sara? Clarify, so you talk to your Doctor openly about your sexual desires and frustrations? He's a male, I couldn't do that at your age, well maybe not at mine either ...Irrespective, he's brushing you off don't you think? Yes we are all different, but if you feel that there is too strong a desire and express that to a Doctor surely test would be done.

You are like a lot of people ,time to change Doctors.

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Sara? Clarify, so you talk to your Doctor openly about your sexual desires and frustrations? He's a male, I couldn't do that at your age, well maybe not at mine either ...Irrespective, he's brushing you off don't you think? Yes we are all different, but if you feel that there is too strong a desire and express that to a Doctor surely test would be done.

You are like a lot of people ,time to change Doctors.

My doctor noticed my reaction to his exam so I aplogised and he was like 'that is normal, everybody has physical reactions'. Yep I guess all doctors are very different in insights, absolutely.

[ItsASecret]

A doctor will not do really do anything unless it is something that has become an obvious problem to a woman's life...like not being able to go to work without finding some way to get sex (husband or not). Or no hygiene practices because more time is spent with a vibrator instead etc...real problems. Even then there is an agreed upon problem there is not much they can do even if a patient demands lab work and it comes back perfectly normal. A notion of "doc I am aroused a lot" will often get the doc to say "well we are all different I cannot really give you anything to stop your arousal it is just how you are". Only things that a doctor could do is put a person on birth control because of the reported instances of women saying they decrease their libido, however there is a gamble with that because some women increase their libido while on the pill or have no decrease at all. They could also put a woman on hormone therapy to increase estrogen but again that can have different results. Testosterone has also had up and down benefits. There is no procedural or pill method to 'stop' libido because it is often something that is just ingrained in a person. Seeing a psychologist may help though just to sort things through and talk, sometimes just letting it all out can help ease how a person feels about things and possibly help in finding a reason for so much frequent arousal.

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A doctor will not do really do anything unless it is something that has become an obvious problem to a woman's life...like not being able to go to work without finding some way to get sex (husband or not). Or no hygiene practices because more time is spent with a vibrator instead etc...real problems. Even then there is an agreed upon problem there is not much they can do even if a patient demands lab work and it comes back perfectly normal. A notion of "doc I am aroused a lot" will often get the doc to say "well we are all different I cannot really give you anything to stop your arousal it is just how you are". Only things that a doctor could do is put a person on birth control because of the reported instances of women saying they decrease their libido, however there is a gamble with that because some women increase their libido while on the pill or have no decrease at all. They could also put a woman on hormone therapy to increase estrogen but again that can have different results. Testosterone has also had up and down benefits. There is no procedural or pill method to 'stop' libido because it is often something that is just ingrained in a person. Seeing a psychologist may help though just to sort things through and talk, sometimes just letting it all out can help ease how a person feels about things and possibly help in finding a reason for so much frequent arousal.

You know a lot, very interesting!
I think I might see a psychologist for it, and like figure it out.

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sara-wife
I don't know how often you feel aroused, but there is a disorder called Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder (PGAD) where a person is constantly aroused and having an orgasm only relieves you for a little time until getting aroused again. Unfortuantely, not much is known about the disorder and there aren't too many treatments, but there are some online support groups. Not sure if this is what you have.

Regular primary care doctors do not know much about sexual dysfunction. I work with doctors and teaching them about sexual dysfunction is one of the areas I work in. They openly admit they don't know how to treat so their reaction is to brush aside the issue and not bring it up with patients. I always recommend seeing a sex therapist. They are psychologists who specialist in sex. If it is something organic, they can help you find a doctor that can help with that issue.

If its not a disorder at all, but just a health sexuality, sex therapist can help make it more fulfilling as well so you have nothing to loose.

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sara-wife
I don't know how often you feel aroused, but there is a disorder called Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder (PGAD) where a person is constantly aroused and having an orgasm only relieves you for a little time until getting aroused again. Unfortuantely, not much is known about the disorder and there aren't too many treatments, but there are some online support groups. Not sure if this is what you have.

Regular primary care doctors do not know much about sexual dysfunction. I work with doctors and teaching them about sexual dysfunction is one of the areas I work in. They openly admit they don't know how to treat so their reaction is to brush aside the issue and not bring it up with patients. I always recommend seeing a sex therapist. They are psychologists who specialist in sex. If it is something organic, they can help you find a doctor that can help with that issue.

If its not a disorder at all, but just a health sexuality, sex therapist can help make it more fulfilling as well so you have nothing to loose.

I think cuddling my husband makes my needs start straight away. And if my hubby is not home then the needs are like on and of but always every hour at some time during each hour. And I either go for an orgasm (and I won't feel needy for the rest of the hour maybe) or I lotion myself for the whole hour for like slow relief.

I find it distracting because during my computer class I am doing my work and then want to rub my nipples and panties but can't in class so then it makes my mind messy and can't focus on my work. If I get a job it will happen too. I think I will see a sex therapist so I can live life easier, but have to tell my husband first. Thanks for tha info I'll search the net for PGAD

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When I read through this thread, I keep going back to two thoughts/questions. The first is that I think sp346 has some wisdom in outline persistent genital arousal disorder and I think there is real wisdom in seeking medical and counseling advice. Second, what is the average rate of erection recovery time for men? In regard to the latter, I know there are all sort of website that state what it is – but these are not scientific and many are trying to profit off of selling products. I also know the view of men who have erection after erection is more of a pornographic ploy done to manipulate men, again into buying products. I am sure other women and men on this forum can share their own views, but these may not be helpful – and indeed could be problematic – because they are based on personal views that are probable not accurate. Further, I would think recovery time is based on so many factors, such as stress level, hydration rates, and so forth.

With that said, however, I am sure his recovery time is normal and I think seeking medication or certain herbal supplements can be quite harmful.

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When I read through this thread, I keep going back to two thoughts/questions. The first is that I think sp346 has some wisdom in outline persistent genital arousal disorder and I think there is real wisdom in seeking medical and counseling advice. Second, what is the average rate of erection recovery time for men? In regard to the latter, I know there are all sort of website that state what it is – but these are not scientific and many are trying to profit off of selling products. I also know the view of men who have erection after erection is more of a pornographic ploy done to manipulate men, again into buying products. I am sure other women and men on this forum can share their own views, but these may not be helpful – and indeed could be problematic – because they are based on personal views that are probable not accurate. Further, I would think recovery time is based on so many factors, such as stress level, hydration rates, and so forth.

With that said, however, I am sure his recovery time is normal and I think seeking medication or certain herbal supplements can be quite harmful.

I agree 1million%. He thinks he should do more sexually, just because I have so much sexual sensitivity. I try to convince him that its my problem, not his. He probably has more orgasms than most guys! My friends said their boyfriends have sex once per day.