[Guest]

i'm not following you dude.

when did i tell you what you think about?

she may or may not be insecure. if she's insecure about this - it's because her boyfriend has caved in. he's demonstrated that his desires - not him - are in control.

that communicates weakness to a woman. she may feel insecure - kind of like you would if the boards you were walking on were cracking.

men & women lean on each other in a relationship. no one feels secure leaning on something weak & flimsy.

and only the very weak would blame it on the person standing on the weak boards, rather than take ownership of the problem & fix it himself.

a real man rebuilds the deck. a weak man tells her to go around the deck while he sits on his a*s watching TV.

our world - thanks, in part, to porn - is full of guys who need to be rebuilt. unfortunately, it's also full of people who discourage them from rebuilding, since it's such hard work, and they tell them to relax & blame the wife.

if she doesn't like walking on a broken deck, she can walk somewhere else. it's her problem. she's just insecure.

what a joke.

[the dude]

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[hotdogg]

it is funny you say that dude! i thought whilhelm was a women pretending to be a man too!

he certainly does not sound like any men i have known, i know alot, i was in the army so most my friends are male, they would find his, but more likely her comments laughable.

[Guest]

no. judging from your character - i would not think that any of your friends would share my views. i'll take that as a compliment.

dude - great response. insightful. i sound like a woman and you sound like you're...

fifteen?

let's see if your big brother can score us some beers & then let's go watch some of your porn.

cool, dude! porn & beers!

yeah!

[anonymouswhitefemale]

I think if whilhelm is a man, then he's got a bit of a superiority complex going on. You must be so caught up in your individual and subjective achievement of becoming a REAL man that you must lay into all those WORSE than you....

[Guest]

if you'll do a little homework - i simply responded to what hotdogg posted as an interesting article. based on my responses to the article, hotdogg began her personal attacks. in fact, if you'll check back to my post in this thread, i never mentioned hotdogg, only the points in her article.

so if i feel the need to lay into anyone, i'm comfortable to say it's only after they have drawn first blood.

as for you, i've never laid into you. i disagree with you.

i have found, in my life, that anytime you stand for what you believe is right - many will accuse of you of self righteousness.

no reason to believe this forum would be any different.

[hotdogg]

I think if whilhelm is a man, then he's got a bit of a superiority complex going on. You must be so caught up in your individual and subjective achievement of becoming a REAL man that you must lay into all those WORSE than you....

lol! whilhelm has got a superiority complex, also your are giving more than just an opinion whilhelm you are trying to pass your opinion as fact!

your opinion is one sided and you have no evidence to prove that anything you say is right.

oh and drawing first blood, thats rich, you just patronize people instead!

[Guest]

yes, hotdogg. i know. i haven't given any evidence of anything. and i'm dumb and i'm religious and nobody likes me because porn is good and makes men faithful.

blah blah blah.

[hotdogg]

no. judging from your character - i would not think that any of your friends would share my views. i'll take that as a compliment.

dude - great response. insightful. i sound like a woman and you sound like you're...

fifteen?

let's see if your big brother can score us some beers & then let's go watch some of your porn.

cool, dude! porn & beers!

yeah!

oh what an intelligent response!

you know nothing about me or my character! just because i am not anti porn like YOU!

YOU JUST HATE THE FACT THAT BECAUSE I AM A WOMEN WHO LIKES PORN, it blows your little porn theory.

[hotdogg]

"i would not think that any of your friends would share my views. i'll take that as a compliment."


yeah most my friends are in the armed forces, i find it funny that you look down your nose, however you do not mind people like my friends putting their asses on the line when the **** hits the fan!